Episode 54

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2nd Apr 2025

54 : An Honest Conversation on Normalizing The Priesthood | Fr. David Michael Moses

In this episode, Ever Be welcomes a special guest, Father David Michael Moses, a priest from the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston. Father David shares his journey to priesthood, including his family's influence and his early discernment process. He discusses the importance of online ministry in evangelization and highlights the need to normalize and humanize the perception of priests. The conversation covers his daily life as a priest, challenges of the priesthood, and the impact of social media on spreading the Gospel. Father David also shares personal stories, including a miraculous anointing, providing valuable insights into the vocation of priesthood.

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Transcript
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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Welcome back everybody.

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It's ever be.

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And today we have a super,

super fun guest on the podcast.

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Y'all may know him from social

media and if you don't yet, you

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definitely should be following him.

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So I'll let him introduce himself.

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Father, welcome to ever be.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Thank you so, so much for having me.

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I'm Father David Michael Moses.

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I'm a priest of the Archdiocese

of Galveston, Houston, and I

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absolutely love being a priest.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's awesome.

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Tell us a little bit about what

you do besides being a priest.

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Yeah,

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

hopefully, is an extension of that.

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I've been a priest for about six

years now, um, and, uh, these

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days, I've just seen a lot of good

fruit from, uh, online ministry.

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I feel like, you know, you can preach

a homily in person to, to people at the

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parish and, uh, that, that can have a

very positive effect on them, um, but then

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you have to go off and do something else.

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What's cool about online stuff is

you can post something online, it can

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keep doing its thing and then you can

go off and go back to doing parish

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work and it can keep evangelizing.

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So, I've seen a lot of.

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Um, especially with humorous

stuff online and, uh, yeah,

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just, it's cool to see the fruit.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

it is amazing to see the fruit.

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You've grown so much and it's beautiful

to see a young priest online, kind of

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like meeting the people where they're

at, or at least these younger generations

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just meeting us exactly where we're at.

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And that's why I wanted to bring you

onto the podcast today and have a

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conversation, especially about kind

of like normalizing the priesthood.

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I think as Catholics, we grow

up with priests in our parishes,

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maybe family friends, but sometimes

we feel like they're kind of.

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You know, on on a

different pedestal than us.

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Um, and I think that what I have

experienced in my own life when I have,

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uh, grown in friendship with different

priests in my life, I've begun to

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see the humanness and see them in a

different light and appreciate them

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even, even more than what I did already.

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So, today we're going to have a

little conversation about normalizing

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the priesthood, and we just want

to hear about you and your life and

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your story and get to know you more.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, a hundred percent.

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When I, I love that because at the

end of the day, like what makes the.

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Only, we can only ordain

humans as priests.

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So, the humanity of the priesthood

is obviously something that

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was very intentional by God.

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And it's certainly, you're set aside

for something very, very sacred.

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But the humanity isn't a problem

to be, you know, scratched out.

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It's actually a gift and it's a real

point of connection with people.

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So, look forward to jumping in that.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Yeah, truly.

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That's so good.

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Well, can you just first start

out, um, just sharing about

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your journey to the priesthood?

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Where did you first feel called

in your life and what did that

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discernment process look like for you?

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, well every vocation

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starts with the family.

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Um, my, my parents, uh,

really interesting story.

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They became Catholic before I was born.

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They converted from different

Protestant denominations.

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And my, uh, my dad actually went

to jail 13 times for doing pro

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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Yes.

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served about six.

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And, uh, so my mom was just a

hero during that time, you know,

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she's at home with all these kids

and she was, were both loving it.

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You know, it was like pretty extraordinary

to get to be involved in something.

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I was just talking to them on my day

off last week that they, uh, they were

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saying like they felt so much peace

during that time that even though there

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was a lot that was being taken away from

them, the knowledge of knowing that they

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were doing God's will, that they were

protecting these babies, um, for them

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was just like worth, worth everything.

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Um, so yeah, my dad, they would organize

like hundreds of guys to lay down

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peacefully in front of abortion clinics.

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And just a disclaimer here, like this

was all sanctioned by the Bishop.

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The Bishop was supportive of it.

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So I would not recommend someone go

do this, you know, on their own at

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

um, the Bishop was behind it.

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And, uh, so that's what they did.

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And, and, uh, a lot of, a

lot of people went to jail.

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Um, the charge was trespassing,

but in Texas you can trespass if

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you think a life is in danger.

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And they definitely thought

a life was in danger in those

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: For sure.

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So, um, so that's what I kind of

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grew up hearing stories about.

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You know, a lot of

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That is amazing.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

when they're going to sleep,

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but we listened to, I was like,

tell us some more jail stories.

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You know, that was,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Amazing.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

wild stuff, wild stuff.

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And, uh, it was very much the

backdrop, I think for, for my vocation

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

like, I knew my parents had.

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That whatever the Lord asked of them, they

said yes to it, no matter what that meant.

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And so, for me, it was like,

okay, whatever the Lord asks

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of you, you gotta say yes.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Can't say enough.

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you have to, you have to give it all.

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And, uh, I didn't actually think too

much about priesthood until I went

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on an asylum retreat when I was 16.

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I'd been an altar server up to that

point, and just serving at the altar,

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like, I just developed a deep love

for the Eucharist, and just, even

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as a kid, I remember thinking, like,

man, if this really is Jesus showing

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up, then, uh, this is the most

important thing I'm doing each week.

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Like, I should probably

take this really seriously.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Aw.

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Of course.

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I, uh, you know, and they'd pray

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for vocations at mass, you know,

for invocation vocations, and, uh, I

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was like, oh, I want to get married.

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I guess that means I'm not

supposed to be a priest.

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I really thought that.

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You know, talking about like

normalizing the priesthood,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

it's very normalized to, very

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normal to want to get married.

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Um, but that doesn't mean God's

not calling you to priesthood.

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And uh, when I went on that silent

retreat, that's really where I

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felt challenged is the priest.

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Um, the priest had said at one

point, you should choose the

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vocation that will make you a saint.

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And that just hit me like,

Oh, that's, that's priesthood.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

know why I thought that.

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And I just kind of

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Like it

just kind of like came to your heart, like

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you just like felt that in your heart.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

A hundred percent.

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Yeah, it was like, you

should choose the vocation.

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He was talking to a group of people.

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He said, you should choose the

vocation that will make you a saint.

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And I was like, Oh, that's priesthood.

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And then I was kind of like,

Whoa, why did I, why did I

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Why didn't I

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: You

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

just think that, yeah.

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Yeah.

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And, and obviously that question is going

to hit different people in different ways.

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Right.

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For some people that would hit them.

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Like I'm assuming for

you, that would hit you.

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Like, Oh, that is totally married life.

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You know, like that's my path to holiness.

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So that's the the beauty

of the unique call.

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Um, but telling the, I remember telling

the director of the tree that I'm kind

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of feeling like this draw to priesthood,

but, um, I'm not really sure why.

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And I honestly really want to get married.

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And, uh, he said, that's okay.

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That's totally normal, but God

still might be calling you.

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You have to take that seriously.

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And so that kind of reset the playing

field for me was like, okay, like

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if celibacy isn't just because.

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you were indifferent to marriage.

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If celibacy is truly a sacrifice of

a good that you make because you've

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encountered another good, then I

really need to take this seriously.

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So sorry, praying a lot,

going to daily mass.

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And over the next few

years, um, just really

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

As a 16 year old, right?

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Like you're like praying, going

to daily mass as a 16 year old.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

yeah.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's a lot.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

cool how, yeah, it's really cool how

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it worked out because I, um, I actually

started college when I was 14, and

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so because I had a full time college

schedule, I was able to go to daily mass.

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Because I got high school, you know,

class starts usually at like 7.

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30, and you don't get out till 2.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.

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for me, I was able to go to like the 8.

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30 daily mass, and I would arrange

my class schedule every semester so I

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Okay.

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went to mass every

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: We have,

but we have to, we have to stop there.

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You're in college at 14.

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Are you like a genius father?

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What, what, why did you start calling?

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out, definitely not a genius.

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The way it worked out, um, we were

all homeschooled when we were younger.

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all, everybody went into public

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school at different times, like

either high school or middle school.

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My mom was really good about discerning

what was best, kind of, for each child.

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with me Um, this, the second

semester, my eighth grade year,

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she was like, Hey, there's this

thing called dual credit classes.

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You can take like a college

class at the university, but

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then it still be in high school.

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Um, and she was like, why

don't you take one of those?

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And so, I mean, I was in eighth

grade, but you know, they

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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that much.

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And so I just took a dual

credit class and it went well.

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And then my mom was like, wait,

like, why don't you just do all your

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classes like this next semester?

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so we were like, okay.

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And I get, I had to get permission from

the Dean, but they signed off on it.

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I took the test to get in.

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And then I did that for two years.

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And then, um, at that point, I just

transferred to university in Houston.

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it was so funny because they didn't

ask for like They didn't ask for

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a high school diploma for them.

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I was just a transfer student.

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And so I was 16 and I had, um,

I had enough credits to transfer

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in, so I just transferred in.

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And then two years later, I

just had my bachelor's degree.

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It's pretty funny.

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Like more people should do it.

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We kind of hacked the system to be honest.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That is the biggest hack.

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If you want to get around

SATs, you got to do that.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, exactly, exactly.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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and so, Yeah, I mean, I never,

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we didn't really plan it.

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I think sometimes people do think that,

like, my parents were, like, pushing

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me, like, this guy's gonna graduate.

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And it really was.

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Like, they were, I mean, my parents were

very, uh, facilitating, I would say.

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They were like, hey,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

What about this?

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Um, so, It, it wasn't really the plan,

I just ended up that when all my, all

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my friends were graduating high school,

I was just graduating from college,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

bachelors, and so I had applied, that was

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kind of a unique part of my discernment,

I had applied to some law schools and

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got into a few different law schools, um,

and I was looking at doing that, going

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straight in it, but instead, obviously,

um, felt much more called to seminary.

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At one point, the vocation director had

said, he said, hey, you know, I know

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you're thinking about being a lawyer,

and that's, that's a good thing, he

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said, but at the end of the day, um,

Uh, the church can hire more lawyers.

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We can't just go hire more priests.

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So if

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: So true.

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to be a priest, then we really

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need you to say, say yes to that.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: That's

a really beautiful way to put it.

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And just like, praise God for this mentor

that you had the vocations director

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to just kind of be like, you know,

great, great passion you have here,

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but we really can't hire more priests.

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So you just, you got to say yes.

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You know, like, we really need that.

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Yes.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I think it's good for, I think it's good

for me to know that like your, what you

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choose makes a difference in the church.

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Right?

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Like, you know, God's will is going

to be done regardless, but like you

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choosing to be a priest, um, makes

a difference for people's lives.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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and uh, yeah, exactly.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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So.

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Is that in that moment did,

were you like all in then?

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Like, okay, yeah.

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I'm just gonna say yes and

then went to seminary and

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: the

big moment for me was, um, I was praying,

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I'd ask God to send me a dove, because I

was very nervous about the celibacy thing.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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God if he would send me a dove, if

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he wanted me to go into seminary.

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And I was driving downtown to meet

with the vocational director one

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day, and I was just kind of praying.

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I was like, Lord, send me

a dove, send me a dove.

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and uh, I saw some birds, but I

wasn't really sure if they were doves.

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And I was like, I probably should

have picked something more specific.

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Um, and uh, And then I was, and then

he had said at that point, he was like,

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Hey, you should really feel peace,

not anxiety, but it's the Holy Spirit.

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So the first thing he had suggested was

actually to stop discerning seminary

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and really focus on law school, which is

pretty good discernment advice, like to

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isolate your discernment a little bit.

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Sometimes we kind of get

caught up in the options.

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And so I really did that.

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I stopped thinking about seminary

and started focusing on law school

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it just, seminary just kept coming

back, like even stronger, you know?

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And so I was, I was finally praying

in a holy hour at my home parish.

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And, uh, I was just kind of feeling

frustrated with God because I was like,

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Lord, I want to do what you want, but I

want to know that it is what you want.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

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um, I'm willing to be a priest,

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but celibacy sounds hard.

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And, uh, I just want to know

that it's what you want.

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So if you want me to go into seminary,

like send me a dove, send me a dove.

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And I don't really know what I

thought would happen in the church.

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Like if one would crash

through a window or something.

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I don't know, but I was

just praying for that.

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And, uh, and right then I looked

up and realized that the huge

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painted glass window above the

altar of the church was a giant dove

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There it is.

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And, uh, I just felt so

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much peace in that moment.

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Um, you know, Father Gregory Pine, uh,

talks about how like, you know, with signs

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and that kind of stuff, you have to be

careful, obviously, with signs, but a lot

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of it is how your heart responds to it.

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You know, like, is it giving

your real sense of peace?

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And so when I heard him say that, I

really went back to that moment and

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I was like, no, I felt so much peace.

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Like, okay, Lord, let's

take the next step.

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And so I called the vocation director very

soon after that, finished the application

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process and went into seminary.

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Obviously seminary had

lots of ups and downs.

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Um, the Lord

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm

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um, you know, like scripture says,

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young man, when you come to serve

the Lord, prepare for trials.

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And I think you definitely feel

that in seminary, but it's all very

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purposeful on God's part to move

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some of those moments of frustration

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and the moments of longing.

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To really be purified and by I would

say like year four or five of seminary.

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Um, I did a, like a full

year internship in a parish.

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We call it the pastoral

year here in our diocese.

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Everybody does it.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

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love parish life.

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I just love the rhythm of being with

the people and, um, Even during that

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year, too, I had a moment, I thought

about this the other day, where I

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was at the Catholic school there.

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So again, I wasn't a priest

yet, I just was wearing a polo.

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Um, I was in the cafeteria with a bunch

of the kids, and we were just having

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lunch, and one of the little girls, she

was probably eight or nine years old,

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she said, Hey, Father, do you think?

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And then she stopped, and

she said, Wait, not a father.

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And it was so interesting because looking

back, I think, like, kids sometimes

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see things in us that we don't see

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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Especially, like, especially young kids

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who haven't really been, like, by sin.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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wasn't sure why she said that.

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She was like, yeah, father.

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And then she was like, wait, you're

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

She's like, why did I say that?

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Yeah.

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But

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

But she knew.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

back, it was

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

She told you.

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think, Yeah.

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So just a lot of consolations like

that during that year where I came

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back to seminary to finish out and

I was just like, let's do it, you

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know, and have not looked back since.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That is so cool.

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I think one of the things you said that

I love is as you're asking the Lord for

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this tangible sign and confirmation,

I just almost feel like, like I could

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hear that like excitement and like, well

that desire in your heart, even though

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there was still that fear and hesitation,

I just feel like that continual, like

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Lord, show me a dove, show me a dove.

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Like you're like, Asking for

that confirmation to be true.

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Whereas I feel like if you were not

truly wanting to be a priest, you'd

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be like avoiding any sign of like,

God's calling you to be a priest and

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you'd be talking yourself out of it,

but you're like, no, like, Lord, like,

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please send me that confirmation.

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Please send me that confirmation.

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Please send me that confirmation.

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So that's really beautiful to hear.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

That's a good point.

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I don't think I thought about that.

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Just the fact that I was looking for

something was probably, it's kind of

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like if you like somebody, like you're

looking for a hint, you know, like you're

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looking like, Oh, did they text me back?

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You know, I think that's a good analogy.

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Like there must have been a part

of my heart that was like yearning

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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Mm hmm.

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Yeah.

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Because when we start praying for God's

will to be aligned, like for our will

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to align with God's will, I mean, that

just naturally begins to happen if

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we truly have an openness to do that.

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I mean, he begins to soften our

heart to his will and then even

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like changing it to desire his will.

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And I feel like as you're sharing that

story, I feel like that's a lot of

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what I was like hearing in your voice.

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And in your discernment process, it's

like, okay, there was an openness.

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And then there was like that

shift of desiring what God wanted.

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So that was really beautiful.

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And I feel like really helpful for

people in a discernment process to hear.

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Yeah.

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Just how others have

discerned their vocation.

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So tell us now that you are a priest,

what is a typical day in the life look

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like for you and is there anything

about the priesthood that you feel

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like has surprised you in your day

to day that now you're experiencing?

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, so I'm a diocesan priest, right?

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Which for most of us, it's not

necessary, but in most cases

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we do end up in parishes.

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Um, and so I've been in a parish

all six years as a priest.

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And, uh, what I like about the

schedule is that it's like totally

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different every day in a lot of ways.

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Like you don't know, like that's one

thing I've never talked to my brother

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priest when I was sworn after God ordained

is like, you really have to surrender

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your schedule to God because, Um, even

today, like I have things I've set out

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appointments that were set up by mass,

but people just come in the office.

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People come up after mass.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

things, you know, and so you kind of

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have to be like, okay, Lord, like,

this is what I think the day is going

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to look like, but I'm very open.

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I have to be open to whatever

you think it's going to be.

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And, um, So, I mean, it depends on

the day, um, but the day usually

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is going to consist of, you

know, good personal prayer time.

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We pray the liturgy of the hours.

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I mean, we, we promise to pray five times

a day, which is pretty substantial as

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Um, and then you have mass,

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uh, pretty much every day.

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I'm on the schedule.

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If not, I'll do my, my mass privately.

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Um, many of the days

we'll have confessions.

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I do a lot of anointings here.

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So people prior to surgeries are going to

homebound during the fish fry on Friday.

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I just got a call to somebody,

um, who was passing away.

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Um, in fact, I got

anointing call recently.

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Um, I went in and it was so sad.

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There was a guy who's.

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Um, his, he had lost his mom like a

year before his best friend had come

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down from Canada for his birthday

because he didn't want him to be

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alone on his birthday because his

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh,

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

away.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

his friend is down, the friend from

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Canada, the friend has like this huge

heart attack and goes unconscious.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Oh my gosh.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: I

come to the hospital, we just get like

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this emergency call, like this guy's about

to die basically, can you please come?

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And so we come to the hospital,

and the poor friend, right,

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like his mom died a year ago,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

comes to be with him, and now his friend,

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while he's with him, has like this

massive heart attack and is about to die.

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the poor guy, when I felt for him,

he was like, am I the Like, is it

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh,

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

it was really sad, and of

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

man, like, don't, don't

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listen to those voices, right?

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Like, these are people who love you,

and, um, so I went in there, and

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this guy's family had come down too,

and it was pretty much, I mean, he

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was on mechanical support, and they

pretty much thought this was the end.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

the, all the prayers for him, everything.

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And, uh, again, it's just kind of

a sporadic part of my briefly day.

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And all of a sudden you're

here at this person's bedside.

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They're about to die

and you pray for them.

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um, you know, I did everything

I needed to do and I left.

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And, uh, like a week ago, the secretary.

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Called me.

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He was like, Hey father, remember

that anointing that you did?

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And I was like, yeah, yeah.

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And he said, um, so as soon as you

anointed him, like, like a few minutes

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later, he woke up and woke up and the

doctors normally get it and they've

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done some tests and everything.

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And then now he's like, the family

just came in the office and told

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us like, he's completely fine now.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: What?

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And they're like, this was abs.

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Like the guy, the friend was

like, I believe in miracles,

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but I've never seen one until

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's a miracle.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

totally a miracle.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Oh my gosh.

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That is so cool.

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You're like a spiritual first responder.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Oh, absolutely.

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No, sometimes there's this place here

where they ask if you're a first responder

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

You're like, yes, I am.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And I usually I'm like, kinda, and then

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sometimes they'll give me the discount.

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I take it.

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I take it.

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Um, no, but totally.

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And, and so I think that, you know,

to answer that question, like the

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days are very different and you

just often get just like thrust

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into these incredibly deep moments.

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Um, of people's lives.

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Like one day you're in the office

joking with somebody and the next

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moment like you're at the bedside

and someone's about to die.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

to kind of just be in that mode.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

but I really love that you kind

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of wake up and it is an adventure.

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You know, it's like where, where

is it going to take us today?

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And there's like amazing

stories like that guy.

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Um, uh, so the rest of my day

would be, you know, filled out

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with marriage prep appointments.

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I had one of those, um, over the weekend.

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And, um, Profession times and, uh,

staff meetings and then just like

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emails and trying to, uh, keep up,

keep on top of those kind of things.

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People need

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

It's an admin work.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Spirit, yeah, admin work, spiritual

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direction, that kind of stuff.

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So every day is a little bit different,

but I really enjoy it and I kind of try

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to squeeze the social media stuff and

the little moments I have in between.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.

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Yes.

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Tell us a little bit about how

you got started on social media.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, well you mentioned kind

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of normalizing the priesthood.

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For me, the reason I started doing it is

because, um, up thinking about priesthood,

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I didn't really know what priests did.

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Like, it was a mysterious call

to something, but I just didn't

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really know what it looked like.

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And I feel like good discernment

is based on good information.

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um, I thought, man, now that I am a

priest, I know what priests do all day,

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it might be helpful to like, make a video

about it, so any young guy who was like me

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when he was 16 can have a little bit more

data as he's thinking about priesthood.

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So that was very much the motivating

factor, and um, the week I kind of

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would say I kind of started using social

media, I had a, I was looking at the

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weekend, and that Saturday I had like a

wedding, and some young adult stuff, and

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mass, and confessions, and I was also

baptizing quintuplets that Saturday.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's five, right?

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Five, exactly.

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:

Yeah,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And, um, I was like, this is like

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probably a once in a lifetime thing.

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Like, I should probably

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: day.

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Like,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

cool.

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And so, I just kind of filmed the day, and

then a couple weeks later, I went back to

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the footage, and like, edited it together.

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Because I grew up doing a lot

of video stuff, um, like in high

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school, and then, um, for the

university I was at, and that kind of

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

um, and for the seminary.

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And so, I, uh, I was, I kind of edited

it together and I just kind of posted

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it and I was like, hopefully some young

guys will see that and find it helpful.

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And what I thought I was kind of surprised

by is like, a lot of people were just very

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interested in what priests did all day,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And so when I kind of saw that, um,

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especially like non Catholics finding

that interesting, I thought, okay,

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maybe this is kind of worth sort

of leaning into a little bit more.

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Um, and especially started

kind of leaning into short form

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content, that kind of thing.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

at the end of the day, like I

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want to, I do want to normalize.

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discerning the priesthood, like

that doesn't mean like you're

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a super weird person if you're

thinking about priesthood,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: also

think like, um, I wouldn't wanna say I,

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we don't wanna de demystify the priesthood

because there's something deeply mystical

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

about what happens at ordination.

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Like being aside, set aside to be in

such close union with Jesus Christ that

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you act in his person in the sacraments

is like a deeply mystical thing,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Totally.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Mysteries aren't supposed to,

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like marriage, there's something

deeply mysterious about marriage,

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Sure.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

deeply mysterious about God.

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But when we have a mystery, we

don't lock it away and shut it away.

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We seek to discover more about it.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: like

we seek, like with God, God is a mystery.

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That doesn't mean that we're like, okay,

well, then move on to the next thing.

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God is a mystery means like

he's endlessly discoverable.

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Like there's endless

right to discover in him.

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And so I would say in the priesthood,

the reason I make videos is not to

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demystify it, but to actually invite

people into the discovery of that mystery.

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And I think the more, especially for

young men, they see the, kind of beauty

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of it, the more they'll be drawn into

maybe like living that mystery as well.

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That is so beautiful.

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I have never really heard

it spoken about like that.

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And that is, yeah, really beautiful.

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Definitely something to just to ponder

and pray with, which is awesome.

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Um, tell us a little bit more

about what is something that is

583

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really rewarding, like about being

a priest and what are maybe some

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of the challenges that you face?

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah.

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Um, I mean, there's so

many, so many rewards.

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I mean, you see the, just the impact

you can have on, on people as a priest.

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Um, just being called father, you know, is

like, Like, that's rewarding every time.

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It's like, I love how, um, in the

church we don't, we don't call our

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priest president or CEO or, you

know, we call, we call him father.

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You know, like, it's

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

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squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And most other things, like we call,

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you know, doctor, professor, those

are indicators of their degrees.

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their qualifications,

not of the relationship.

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as a priest, title is not doctor

or professor, it's father.

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:

It's a relational of

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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's so cool.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And so, that for me is like

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just deeply, deeply beautiful.

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Um, uh, to continue the stories

about how you impact people's lives,

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I mean, yeah, hearing confessions

and saying mass, I mean, it's uh,

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I find myself like constantly being

like, I can't believe this exists.

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Like, I can't believe God

thought this was a good idea,

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like, to let human men do this.

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:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

part of the work of Christ on earth,

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:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

I can't believe this even exists.

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:

Because like, yeah, I think if we

started a human committee and said,

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:

hey, who here thinks we should give

the authority of Christ to some men?

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:

It would have been like a

downvote from everybody.

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:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

been like, no, maybe not a good idea.

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:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, sounds like with the track

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:

record of track record of Humanity,

this sounds like a horrible idea.

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:

And yet God, like in his super abundant

goodness, um, gives it, and he offers

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it and he does it, of course not for the

sake of the priest, but for the sake of

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the people that he wants to be present

with his people that through the priest.

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:

Right.

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:

But it, it's for the salvation of souls.

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:

But it's still crazy that I get to,

I mean, I sit there in confessions

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sometimes and I'm like, this is insane.

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:

This is insane that I get to do this.

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:

I mean, I say mass.

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It's like, this is just insane.

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:

Um, and to be able to, yeah, to be

that spiritual father for people is

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:

just in absolute insanely rewarding.

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:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's so cool.

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I love hearing you talk about like

your own thoughts about the priesthood

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:

because it reminds me of how my husband

and I talk about marriage sometimes.

631

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Like we'll be married

four years next week.

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:

And so Thank you.

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:

It hasn't been a super long time,

but four years, we're like, Oh my

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:

gosh, it's already been four years.

635

:

And sometimes we just sit there

and we're like, this is so cool.

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:

Like we're married.

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:

Like, did you realize like we're married?

638

:

This is awesome that

we get to do this and.

639

:

We're like, I wonder when

that's going to wear off.

640

:

You know, I wonder where, when we're

going to like wake up and just be

641

:

like, Oh yeah, marriage is normal.

642

:

Marriage is, it is what it is.

643

:

But like, at least right now

we're like, this is so cool.

644

:

We get to do this.

645

:

And so it's awesome hearing you

say that about the priesthood.

646

:

I mean, that's how, you know, like

you're totally in the vocation.

647

:

God's calling you to be in how

your vocation is that like.

648

:

Just that call to, to find the Lord in

your vocation, to be sanctified in your

649

:

vocation, to find that joy and fulfillment

and peace, and, I mean, you can, you can

650

:

tell that the Lord has, has led you right.

651

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

A hundred percent.

652

:

And yeah, I mean, even though what

you were saying about, you know, like

653

:

early on, maybe in a vocation, it can

be easier to, like, appreciate it.

654

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Sure.

655

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: but

I think, like, that's more the reality.

656

:

Like, for me, when I, the day I got

ordained, I was just so pumped, right?

657

:

So pumped, everybody was there, and I

got, I got ordained, I got to be a priest.

658

:

And I remember thinking in my ordination,

like, you know, I won't always feel

659

:

this on a human level as much, like this

kind of high about, like, this newness.

660

:

Um, but, like, this will

always be the reality.

661

:

Like, we know in 30 years,

when you don't feel it, whether

662

:

it's marriage or priesthood,

663

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: hmm.

664

:

Mm hmm.

665

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

because the reality hasn't changed.

666

:

It is still just as beautifully mysterious

and deeply beautiful and, um, all that

667

:

changes is like we become more numb to it.

668

:

The reality doesn't become weaker.

669

:

So I think it is, whether it's marriage

or priesthood, it is about like trying

670

:

to keep your, your life and your thoughts

in step with what is already true.

671

:

You know, and the more you can do

that like the better you're gonna

672

:

you're gonna live it, you know

673

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

674

:

Yeah.

675

:

And so let's go back to, um, a challenge.

676

:

What do you feel like is something that

is, is challenging about the priesthood,

677

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, there's a lot of challenges, and

678

:

the challenges are really what make it

life giving, I think, in a lot of ways.

679

:

Um, in terms of discerning, I

mean, celibacy, like I said, is a

680

:

huge challenge to today's culture,

and it should be a challenge.

681

:

Like,

682

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: right?

683

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

says, like, uh, celibacy, it

684

:

is a sign of contradiction.

685

:

It's supposed to push back on a world

that is too fixated on certain things,

686

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm

687

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

that That it offers something else.

688

:

You know, I think there's something

really deeply beautiful about that.

689

:

Even I was reflecting recently, like,

I love the fact that like in a church

690

:

that asks young people to be chased

in a church that, um, asked couples

691

:

to not use contraception, to use

692

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm

693

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

planning, how beautiful that the

694

:

leaders, the shepherds, we asked

them to be celibate themselves.

695

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm

696

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

it's like as a priest, when I, when

697

:

I say don't use contraception, you

really need to use an FP, which means

698

:

you're going to be celibate for,

699

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right?

700

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: the

701

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

For a time.

702

:

Yeah.

703

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

saying, I'm not asking you to do something

704

:

that I'm not doing myself all the

705

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right?

706

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

you know, and,

707

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm

708

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: to

not live together before marriage, and

709

:

we ask, uh, you know, young people to

stay away from things that are impure.

710

:

The challenge as a priest is actually

what makes you a good father to

711

:

them in that moment, you know So the

challenges are very very life giving

712

:

just basic like the biggest day to day

challenge is just the the amount of

713

:

good things you could be doing But only

714

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm

715

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

can do some of the good things and I

716

:

think I mean I'm in a parish right now

the first parish I was at There were

717

:

two priests and 20, 000 parishioners,

718

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

719

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

age was 20.

720

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.

721

:

Mm-hmm

722

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

just wild.

723

:

We had 2, 500 kids in Faith Formation.

724

:

This parish, we have 10, 000

parishioners, still huge.

725

:

And, um, yeah, there's a million good

things you could always be doing.

726

:

So you're not discerning

every day, like, should I do

727

:

something evil or something good?

728

:

There's just all good things, but

it's a question of, like, which good

729

:

thing is the Lord calling me to?

730

:

You know, and I think that can

be just a constant challenge as

731

:

a priest to make sure that you're

Properly discerning the highest good.

732

:

Um, and hopefully as we get more and

more priests that will become kind of

733

:

easier and easier But I think that can

definitely be a a consistent challenge.

734

:

And again, that's actually why I

use social media Some people say

735

:

like with so much to do how do

you have time for social media?

736

:

For me

737

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Hmm.

738

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

choosing the highest leverage actions

739

:

in terms of evangelization And I think

social media is one of the things,

740

:

I can spend 15 minutes on a video

and a million people can see it.

741

:

That's a pretty high leverage action.

742

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's huge.

743

:

Yeah.

744

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

like, that's one of the reasons

745

:

it's worth leaning into that stuff.

746

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Totally.

747

:

Totally.

748

:

What do you feel like are some

of the biggest misconceptions

749

:

people have about the priesthood

and how would you clarify them?

750

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah, um, I think the biggest one I

751

:

probably have seen from like very good

people in the church is that like being

752

:

a priest would be boring Which I mean,

I can't even set it with a straight face

753

:

because it is like anything but boring.

754

:

I

755

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's so cool.

756

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

It's it's constantly fascinating

757

:

the amount of things we get to do

the way you involve people's lives I

758

:

mean Last night we had a young adult

group, which was just a huge blast.

759

:

The week before we went to the, like

35 young adults in the parish went to

760

:

the trampoline park here in town, um,

Sunday night, just super, super fun.

761

:

It was our community weekend

this weekend at the parish.

762

:

So we had like free food for

everybody after every mass

763

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That's awesome.

764

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

so many beautiful and exciting moments.

765

:

You know, the story I shared earlier

about that guy in the hospital, just

766

:

so many things like it is, I mean,

I've never, I mean, I'm dead serious.

767

:

I don't think I've ever had a

moment as a priest where I thought

768

:

I was like, I think I'm bored.

769

:

I mean, it has never happened.

770

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: That is.

771

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

many good things.

772

:

So, I think that's a huge misconception.

773

:

Um, and, and, uh, On a spiritual

level too, I think that like

774

:

people think being a priest just

necessarily means loneliness.

775

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

776

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

there are, everybody

777

:

has lonely moments for

778

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

779

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

And I don't think I think

780

:

Jesus was lonely on the cross.

781

:

So if a priest is supposed to be

conformed with Jesus, I think you

782

:

should have some lonely moments.

783

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

784

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

but the life of a priest is anything

785

:

but just continual loneliness.

786

:

I mean, again, that's,

that's insane to me.

787

:

Like I'm with people all the time.

788

:

People I

789

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

790

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

love me.

791

:

Um, the best friendships I could ask for.

792

:

Um, that like the loneliness is not the

pervading emotion I have at all, you know?

793

:

So again, there's moments of loneliness.

794

:

but that's not, that's not the

constant state of life by any means.

795

:

Um, and again, like the challenges

are actually what really

796

:

lead to the joy in many ways.

797

:

So those are the kinds of

misconceptions I would say.

798

:

Mmm.

799

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

you, I mean, I think you

800

:

clarified those really well.

801

:

And I, I feel like I've

heard those myself of people.

802

:

And I think what you said is true.

803

:

Like everybody does experience

a level of loneliness and if

804

:

priests do or when they do, that's.

805

:

Maybe not a bad thing, you know,

it's like a unification with Christ.

806

:

Um, but yeah, I feel like you do hear at

least the moms or the ladies like pray

807

:

for the priests and their loneliness,

pray for the peace and their loneliness.

808

:

But it's very cool to hear.

809

:

You're like, actually, um,

I'm having a great time.

810

:

Like a lot of the time I'm

with my people all the time.

811

:

So it's so good to hear

that you have community.

812

:

Within your parish.

813

:

Um, maybe with that, like even beyond your

parish as well, but yeah, that you feel

814

:

like you have kind of a support system

and community and friendship and like the

815

:

parish is like your wider family, right?

816

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Totally.

817

:

Yeah, they call you father, because

that's your family, I mean, 100%, you

818

:

know, and I think, and, and, looking at

the life of Jesus, right, he was not a

819

:

man who lived, like, isolated at all.

820

:

You know, like, very, I mean, he had his,

his, his own immediate family, but very

821

:

soon as he began his personal ministry,

like, he, he's get, he got, got his

822

:

friend group going, you know, and he hung

out with these 12 guys, and there was

823

:

more people, and they were at wedding

feasts, and like, he was a very communal

824

:

person, and I think that's the model

for everybody and especially priests.

825

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Totally.

826

:

Okay.

827

:

Let's go back to social media.

828

:

So you were talking about how you love

using it to leverage, like leveraging

829

:

social media to reach the masses and

to evangelize kind of on a mass level.

830

:

First of all, it's amazing that you can

spend 15 minutes on a reel and get a

831

:

million views because that's hard to do.

832

:

And that's how, you know, the

Lord is blessing your work.

833

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: Not

everyone goes like that, to be honest.

834

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Yeah, there I know, but you do

835

:

get a lot of views and that's how

you know the Lord is blessing it.

836

:

Cause I'm like, sometimes you spend

hours on social or on making a

837

:

video and you're like, yeah, this

is the one that's going to go viral.

838

:

And it gets like no views and

you're like, okay, humbling

839

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

so crazy, right?

840

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: on.

841

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

to predict.

842

:

Yeah,

843

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

It is hard to predict.

844

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: the

one that you didn't spend much time on is

845

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh,

yeah, it's the one that goes viral.

846

:

And you're like, I don't

know how this works anymore.

847

:

It's fine.

848

:

Um, but social media can be

both a blessing and a challenge.

849

:

And I think especially, um, when it comes

to the faith, there's a lot of different

850

:

feelings about social media, about

how we're engaging with social media.

851

:

I know a lot of Catholics that

have decided to get off social

852

:

media because they don't feel

like it is a good place to be.

853

:

And then a lot of Catholics that

are very passionate about social

854

:

media and using it for For the good.

855

:

Um, so can you talk to us a little

bit about that and tell us maybe how

856

:

do you think Catholics and especially

young people, which I feel like is

857

:

the majority of people that are on

social media, how can we be using

858

:

it for the good of the gospel?

859

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah.

860

:

Well, I love that you framed it that way

because I would say like, yeah, there

861

:

are Catholics who think they should get

off social media and that it's really

862

:

dangerous, and there are Catholics who

think there's a really good tool and they

863

:

should be there, and they're both right.

864

:

They're both right.

865

:

Um, it is dangerous.

866

:

Absolutely.

867

:

And some people shouldn't be there.

868

:

And some people should be there.

869

:

The analogy I always use, um, is like,

social media is like a bad neighborhood.

870

:

That I would not recommend, like, my

nieces go live in a bad neighborhood.

871

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

872

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

not suggest my family go live there.

873

:

I would not walk alone late at night

in a bad neighborhood in the streets.

874

:

Um, but it's dangerous, but I also

think like every bad neighborhood

875

:

should have a Catholic church.

876

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

877

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

every bad neighborhood should

878

:

have a Catholic priest.

879

:

I would never recommend the

diocese shut down the churches

880

:

in the bad neighborhoods.

881

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

I love that.

882

:

Yes.

883

:

Yeah.

884

:

Mm hmm.

885

:

Totally.

886

:

Mm

887

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: big

fan of people getting off social media.

888

:

I'm, I'm a huge advocate

of parents keeping their

889

:

children off of social media.

890

:

I mean, the statistics are very clear.

891

:

You're happy if you

don't have social media.

892

:

So.

893

:

am the biggest fan of that.

894

:

Get rid of it.

895

:

If you walk away from it, for sure.

896

:

But just because a few of us moved out

of that neighborhood doesn't mean the bad

897

:

neighborhood like ceases to exist and that

we can't minister to the people there.

898

:

Um, and so for me, like, I very much

feel called to that bad neighborhood

899

:

to minister there as a priest, to do

it carefully, to be smart about it.

900

:

and I do think if it's done well, it

can be a just a huge, a huge tool.

901

:

Um, I mean, I get messages from people

all the day, as I'm sure, all the time, as

902

:

I'm sure you do, um, from people who, uh.

903

:

Uh, you know, started coming back to the

church, started going to OCIA, and we

904

:

have two people in our, um, OCIA class

here at the church who, uh, who started

905

:

my social media and started kind of

entering the, entering the faith and,

906

:

um, you know, I, I got a message from

a mom recently who said her, I'll keep

907

:

this kind of vague, her daughter was

involved in like some really bad stuff.

908

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: hmm.

909

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

um, she had tried to really

910

:

reconnect her with her faith and

she just wasn't really having it.

911

:

And one day her daughter came up and

was like, Hey mom, I just followed

912

:

this funny priest on Instagram.

913

:

And her mom was like,

Oh, what is, okay, yeah.

914

:

You know, it's not like her mom

was trying not to be too excited,

915

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh yeah.

916

:

Totally.

917

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: Oh,

918

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Bye.

919

:

Bye.

920

:

Bye.

921

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

You know?

922

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

923

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

um, she emailed me and she said, Thank

924

:

you so much for reaching my daughter

925

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh.

926

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

I couldn't.

927

:

And she said, she showed me some of your

funny stuff, and she just started showing

928

:

me some of your more serious stuff.

929

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.

930

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

thank you.

931

:

And, um, that's, that's what we're about.

932

:

Like I love, same, same for you.

933

:

You know, like I love seeing

the comments that are like, I'm

934

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.

935

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

why is this on my feed?

936

:

But

937

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.

938

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

I followed.

939

:

You know, it's like, got em!

940

:

We got em!

941

:

You know, and I'm just super, super

passionate about the lost sheep.

942

:

Like the, the parish I met is

called Christ the Good Shepherd.

943

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh.

944

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: says

945

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: fitting.

946

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

The Good Shepherd goes after the

947

:

lost sheep and he doesn't send

somebody else He doesn't tell

948

:

someone else to go he goes himself.

949

:

And so for me, I just feel very called

like okay, I'm gonna go go get him,

950

:

you know And I've seen just so much

affirmation from the Lord with the

951

:

fruit of that that I feel like at

least for this time You know, it's

952

:

it's worth it's worth leaning into

953

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

That is so cool.

954

:

I love, I love what you were saying about

the bad neighborhood, but I also love.

955

:

Like your tactic of like getting

on people's feet and getting on

956

:

people's radar of like using humor

and And then also including kind

957

:

of like the more serious stuff.

958

:

Like I love what you were saying

about the girl She's like, oh mom.

959

:

Look at this funny priest.

960

:

I found, you know It's like that

connection point of like meeting them

961

:

where they're at using humor And then once

you've kind of built that trust a little

962

:

bit to be like, Hey, but I actually like,

have some, like some really good stuff

963

:

to say if you, if you want to listen,

which I think is a really good strategy.

964

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Well, Jesus says to go fish for men.

965

:

And how do you fish?

966

:

You have bait and you have a hook.

967

:

That's what you do.

968

:

And so for me, like,

that is the social media.

969

:

We need a bait.

970

:

Which is usually, like, humor is

just so, such a universal language.

971

:

And then later you hook them.

972

:

You know, like, we're out

here fishing on social media.

973

:

That's what we're about.

974

:

So.

975

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.

976

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: ha

977

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: some

of the videos really, really hook you.

978

:

I get it every time when it's like

things that I can't eat as a priest.

979

:

And I'm always wondering, like,

wait, as a Catholic, I'm like, as a

980

:

Catholic, I didn't know priests had

a list of things they couldn't eat.

981

:

And then over here, you're eating like

a telephone and I'm like, what is this?

982

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: ha.

983

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:

Like what?

984

:

How did he come up with this?

985

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Got'em.

986

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: So good.

987

:

Um, okay, let's go back to

discernment for a little bit.

988

:

I, if you could speak to the young

men out there, um, who may feel

989

:

intimidated by the idea of discerning

the priesthood, what advice would

990

:

you give to somebody who is feeling

called, but might still be hesitant?

991

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

Yeah.

992

:

Um, for me What I felt when I

entered was like, gosh, I sure

993

:

hope I don't have to be a priest.

994

:

Like, you know, I'm willing if God

wants, but I don't, I don't, I hope

995

:

I don't have to like be celibate

996

:

mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm.

997

:

squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:

tells me and live the way

998

:

the Bishop wants me to live.

999

:

And like, I'm willing, but I

kind of hope he's not calling me.

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00:39:51,329 --> 00:39:54,320

And even, even probably when I went

to seminary, I was like, there's a

:

00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,240

little part of me that was like kind of

hoping it would be a no from somebody.

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00:39:57,540 --> 00:39:58,045

-:

:

00:39:58,045 --> 00:39:59,000

Hmm.

:

00:39:59,300 --> 00:40:01,390

-:

what being a priest means that like.

:

00:40:01,860 --> 00:40:06,860

Through ordination, you are so closely

united with Jesus Christ when you take

:

00:40:06,860 --> 00:40:11,080

a piece of bread and you say, this

is my body, this is my blood, Jesus

:

00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,590

makes it become his body and blood.

:

00:40:13,820 --> 00:40:16,949

Like Jesus said, I'm gonna conform

myself to you so much that when you

:

00:40:16,950 --> 00:40:20,039

speak, I will do it every single time.

:

00:40:20,835 --> 00:40:26,075

Like, I will give you my voice to speak

in the world, and I will do what you say.

:

00:40:26,105 --> 00:40:26,835

It's crazy.

:

00:40:26,835 --> 00:40:27,055

When somebody

:

00:40:27,355 --> 00:40:27,375

-:

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-:

with sin, and I say, I absolve you from

:

00:40:29,665 --> 00:40:35,595

your sins, in the first person, binds

himself to me and to my word, that when I

:

00:40:35,604 --> 00:40:38,184

say it, he will do it every single time.

:

00:40:38,635 --> 00:40:39,525

-:

That's so cool.

:

00:40:40,195 --> 00:40:40,685

That is.

:

00:40:41,310 --> 00:40:42,960

-:

And so, I don't think even when I

:

00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,530

entered seminary I had that awareness.

:

00:40:44,830 --> 00:40:45,410

-:

:

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-:

But when I did, like I went from saying,

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00:40:48,350 --> 00:40:50,360

I sure hope I don't have to be a priest.

:

00:40:50,750 --> 00:40:53,490

To like legit being like, man

I sure hope he chooses me.

:

00:40:54,210 --> 00:40:54,920

-:

:

00:40:54,980 --> 00:40:56,210

-:

sure hope he chooses me.

:

00:40:56,530 --> 00:40:56,740

-:

:

00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,400

-:

he, is he, is it even possible that

:

00:40:59,410 --> 00:41:02,120

he is going to like invite me to this?

:

00:41:03,240 --> 00:41:07,100

To, like, love the way he loved, to,

like, literally be him in the world,

:

00:41:07,230 --> 00:41:10,360

like, to be acting as a person, is crazy.

:

00:41:10,390 --> 00:41:10,580

And

:

00:41:10,660 --> 00:41:10,810

-:

:

00:41:10,810 --> 00:41:11,590

What an honor.

:

00:41:11,620 --> 00:41:13,420

-:

be my, yeah, oh my gosh,

:

00:41:13,460 --> 00:41:14,450

there's no greater honor.

:

00:41:14,750 --> 00:41:15,310

-:

:

00:41:15,330 --> 00:41:16,869

-:

greater, I mean, you've heard the quote,

:

00:41:16,949 --> 00:41:19,980

um, from this, I forgot which saint

it was, but like, if an angel appeared

:

00:41:19,980 --> 00:41:23,940

and a priest walked up, he would greet

the priest before he greeted the angel.

:

00:41:24,240 --> 00:41:24,680

-:

:

00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:25,390

-:

for him, the

:

00:41:25,660 --> 00:41:25,780

-:

:

00:41:25,830 --> 00:41:26,910

-:

the one who's knighted to the person

:

00:41:26,910 --> 00:41:28,104

of Christ, and the angel's not.

:

00:41:29,330 --> 00:41:29,360

-:

:

00:41:30,085 --> 00:41:30,675

-:

crazy.

:

00:41:30,965 --> 00:41:32,405

And, and, and that's my thing.

:

00:41:32,405 --> 00:41:34,735

That's what I would tell a young

guy who's like, Oh, I don't know,

:

00:41:34,735 --> 00:41:35,655

I'm nervous, da, da, da, da.

:

00:41:35,665 --> 00:41:40,454

I would say like, dude, if the

Lord invites you, and I think, you

:

00:41:40,454 --> 00:41:43,645

know, sometimes we invite in kind

of maybe too soft of a way, like,

:

00:41:43,645 --> 00:41:44,805

oh, you might be opening doors.

:

00:41:45,185 --> 00:41:47,725

No, no, no, like the Lord doesn't

send the invitation to everybody.

:

00:41:48,405 --> 00:41:50,255

If you get one of those invitations,

:

00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:51,080

-:

:

00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:52,450

-:

seriously.

:

00:41:52,750 --> 00:41:53,400

-:

:

00:41:53,700 --> 00:41:54,070

-:

seriously.

:

00:41:54,370 --> 00:41:56,800

Because he doesn't just send those

invitations out to everybody.

:

00:41:57,290 --> 00:42:01,510

Um, and then right along that, a side

that I would say like, what Jesus says

:

00:42:01,510 --> 00:42:03,470

in scripture so often, don't be afraid.

:

00:42:04,695 --> 00:42:05,755

Don't be afraid.

:

00:42:06,095 --> 00:42:06,575

Be a man.

:

00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:07,730

-:

:

00:42:07,730 --> 00:42:11,659

Yeah.

:

00:42:11,959 --> 00:42:12,275

-:

sometimes.

:

00:42:12,325 --> 00:42:12,855

Okay.

:

00:42:12,895 --> 00:42:13,384

Be a man.

:

00:42:13,384 --> 00:42:13,785

Say yes.

:

00:42:13,785 --> 00:42:14,595

Don't be afraid.

:

00:42:15,245 --> 00:42:17,195

you giving, laying down your

life and you're not really sure

:

00:42:17,195 --> 00:42:18,145

what you're getting in return?

:

00:42:18,174 --> 00:42:19,084

Absolutely.

:

00:42:19,134 --> 00:42:19,995

Do it anyways.

:

00:42:19,995 --> 00:42:23,304

Um, God is the one who sees the future.

:

00:42:24,154 --> 00:42:25,694

the one who knows what

it's gonna look like.

:

00:42:26,054 --> 00:42:28,594

Like, have the, have the courage

to say yes to that and let it

:

00:42:28,594 --> 00:42:29,904

go where it goes, you know?

:

00:42:29,974 --> 00:42:32,515

Um, that would really be my, my response.

:

00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:34,010

-:

That is so cool.

:

00:42:34,250 --> 00:42:39,180

And I think in the end we know doing

God's will is the path that's going to

:

00:42:39,180 --> 00:42:42,520

bring us the most joy, the most peace,

the most fulfillment in our lives.

:

00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,350

And even if we know we're being

called, but there's still that

:

00:42:45,350 --> 00:42:48,960

like question in our hearts of

like, but I never saw myself.

:

00:42:49,415 --> 00:42:52,945

Doing this or I never saw this

being a part of my life or, but

:

00:42:52,945 --> 00:42:55,395

I'm like, not really sure that this

is going to bring me the most joy.

:

00:42:55,395 --> 00:43:00,625

Like, if you know, it's God's will

just following that and trusting

:

00:43:00,625 --> 00:43:03,615

in that, like, you're going to

find that fulfillment, that joy,

:

00:43:03,625 --> 00:43:05,445

that peace, no matter what it is.

:

00:43:05,565 --> 00:43:06,585

No matter what it is.

:

00:43:06,585 --> 00:43:09,795

And I used to always tell my Bible study

girls when I was a missionary and I

:

00:43:09,795 --> 00:43:11,155

used a little bit of an extreme example.

:

00:43:11,155 --> 00:43:15,155

I'm like, if God's will is for you to

be homeless and you follow that, you

:

00:43:15,155 --> 00:43:17,075

are going to be joyful being homeless.

:

00:43:17,095 --> 00:43:18,785

And like, you could never

imagine that right now.

:

00:43:18,785 --> 00:43:19,035

Right.

:

00:43:19,035 --> 00:43:23,355

But I just feel like that, even that, to

that extreme, like sometimes God's will

:

00:43:23,355 --> 00:43:25,655

is so not what we thought it would be.

:

00:43:25,865 --> 00:43:28,495

We just, it's what he

teaches me continually.

:

00:43:28,515 --> 00:43:32,345

It's like, we just have to continue to

trust that his plan is better than ours.

:

00:43:32,405 --> 00:43:33,985

His plan is always better than ours.

:

00:43:34,380 --> 00:43:35,250

-:

Absolutely.

:

00:43:35,490 --> 00:43:36,740

And that's the progression, right?

:

00:43:36,740 --> 00:43:39,619

Like what you're saying kind of reminded

me of, uh, one of my best friends in

:

00:43:39,619 --> 00:43:45,425

seminary, um, got diagnosed with cancer

like a month before we got ordained.

:

00:43:45,725 --> 00:43:46,415

-:

:

00:43:46,715 --> 00:43:50,095

-:

And, um, And it was, I think it was

:

00:43:50,095 --> 00:43:51,725

the second time he'd gotten cancer.

:

00:43:51,765 --> 00:43:53,235

And it was pretty serious lung cancer.

:

00:43:53,545 --> 00:43:54,135

-:

:

00:43:54,445 --> 00:43:56,095

-:

um, he went through a lot of chemo.

:

00:43:56,145 --> 00:43:58,974

And actually, sadly, just a couple

years ago he actually passed away.

:

00:43:59,315 --> 00:43:59,885

-:

:

00:44:00,095 --> 00:44:03,274

-:

his final, um, his final homily he gave

:

00:44:03,274 --> 00:44:06,054

at the seminary when we were deacons,

before we were going to get ordained.

:

00:44:06,675 --> 00:44:14,430

Um, he said, You know, so much of his

prayer during that time not just that

:

00:44:14,430 --> 00:44:17,250

he would know God's will, because in

seminary we talk so much about knowing

:

00:44:17,250 --> 00:44:20,250

God's will, like how, you know, we want

to actually discern what God wants.

:

00:44:20,755 --> 00:44:21,105

-:

:

00:44:21,270 --> 00:44:22,119

-:

at that point, it wasn't

:

00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:23,710

just to know God's will.

:

00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,130

because at this point he was

confused by God's will, right?

:

00:44:27,130 --> 00:44:27,585

Like, why would

:

00:44:27,885 --> 00:44:28,045

-:

:

00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,080

-:

him through seven years of seminary, then

:

00:44:30,175 --> 00:44:30,865

-:

Only then.

:

00:44:30,955 --> 00:44:31,870

Yeah, exactly.

:

00:44:32,170 --> 00:44:32,620

-:

crazy.

:

00:44:33,010 --> 00:44:35,860

And he was like, my prayer right

now is not just to know God's will.

:

00:44:36,300 --> 00:44:37,889

It's not just to do God's will.

:

00:44:38,210 --> 00:44:39,395

It's to love God's will.

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00:44:39,695 --> 00:44:40,335

-:

:

00:44:40,335 --> 00:44:41,180

Mm.

:

00:44:41,180 --> 00:44:42,024

Mm.

:

00:44:42,259 --> 00:44:43,829

-:

is the joy that you're talking about.

:

00:44:43,829 --> 00:44:47,919

Like, if you want joy, not enough

to just know it, know God's will.

:

00:44:47,919 --> 00:44:48,049

It's

:

00:44:48,085 --> 00:44:48,525

-:

:

00:44:48,619 --> 00:44:49,259

-:

to do God's will.

:

00:44:49,330 --> 00:44:51,520

Like, you have to love God's will.

:

00:44:51,865 --> 00:44:53,735

But when you do love God's will,

:

00:44:54,035 --> 00:44:54,735

-:

:

00:44:54,885 --> 00:44:56,825

-:

like that is full freedom, right?

:

00:44:56,855 --> 00:44:59,375

Like that is complete

peace and complete joy.

:

00:44:59,805 --> 00:45:00,515

-:

:

00:45:01,295 --> 00:45:01,825

Dang.

:

00:45:02,205 --> 00:45:03,375

I need to pray with that.

:

00:45:03,415 --> 00:45:04,255

That is so,

:

00:45:04,555 --> 00:45:05,205

-:

that good?

:

00:45:05,565 --> 00:45:08,015

I know, it like kind of makes

me emotional just thinking about

:

00:45:08,015 --> 00:45:09,135

it, thinking about him, but

:

00:45:09,435 --> 00:45:10,445

-:

yeah, it does.

:

00:45:10,445 --> 00:45:14,255

And I, I just think back to the way the

Lord's worked in my life in those moments

:

00:45:14,255 --> 00:45:21,255

where I've gone from like, no, I know

my plan is better to, okay, God, maybe

:

00:45:21,255 --> 00:45:25,505

I'll be open to your plan to then kind

of like seeking it to then loving it.

:

00:45:25,795 --> 00:45:27,745

Like you totally see that progression.

:

00:45:27,745 --> 00:45:30,665

And when you do get to that, like, I love.

:

00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:31,960

What God's calling me to do.

:

00:45:31,990 --> 00:45:35,220

I love his will, that

freedom that you mentioned.

:

00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,400

It's just unlike anything else.

:

00:45:37,420 --> 00:45:39,100

Like you don't get that anywhere else.

:

00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,280

Um, and it is so beautiful.

:

00:45:41,990 --> 00:45:46,640

So before we wrap up father, can you

tell us what are some practical ways that

:

00:45:46,660 --> 00:45:51,290

we as lay people can better support and

encourage priests in our own communities?

:

00:45:52,285 --> 00:45:53,890

-:

Mmm, I appreciate that question.

:

00:45:54,190 --> 00:45:54,610

-:

:

00:45:54,655 --> 00:45:56,235

-:

will just say, people are great.

:

00:45:56,535 --> 00:45:57,775

People are fantastic.

:

00:45:57,805 --> 00:45:59,515

I am so thankful for the people of God.

:

00:45:59,575 --> 00:46:00,595

They pray for me.

:

00:46:01,144 --> 00:46:02,245

They're always checking in.

:

00:46:02,274 --> 00:46:04,575

So, one, I would say people

have got to do a great job.

:

00:46:04,635 --> 00:46:06,065

I feel very, very supported and loved.

:

00:46:06,464 --> 00:46:06,924

Um,

:

00:46:07,230 --> 00:46:07,550

-:

That's so good.

:

00:46:07,550 --> 00:46:09,669

I

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00:46:10,795 --> 00:46:13,465

-:

Uh, I mean, all the natural ways to

:

00:46:13,465 --> 00:46:15,625

support your priest, letting them know

that you appreciate them, you know,

:

00:46:15,625 --> 00:46:16,635

all those things are really good.

:

00:46:16,895 --> 00:46:19,495

And then the day we're trying to make

you holy, we're trying to sanctify you.

:

00:46:19,495 --> 00:46:22,454

So the more holy you are,

the easier our job is.

:

00:46:22,465 --> 00:46:27,202

So I'm very inspired by, by God's people

and these, these parents that have these

:

00:46:27,265 --> 00:46:29,175

kids and are just such good parents.

:

00:46:29,175 --> 00:46:33,215

And like, I'm so inspired by that and

really grateful for people in my parish

:

00:46:33,215 --> 00:46:34,785

who are just really pursuing holiness.

:

00:46:35,525 --> 00:46:38,835

honestly the best thing you can do because

that makes our job a lot, a lot easier.

:

00:46:38,855 --> 00:46:40,315

We're all working together on that.

:

00:46:41,210 --> 00:46:41,710

-:

love that.

:

00:46:41,990 --> 00:46:44,840

If you could leave our listeners

with one key message of

:

00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,094

encouragement, what would it be?

:

00:46:47,645 --> 00:46:51,885

-:

Yeah, um, Can we go with that?

:

00:46:51,885 --> 00:46:52,615

Love God's will?

:

00:46:52,945 --> 00:46:53,564

How's that?

:

00:46:53,864 --> 00:46:54,545

-:

Let's do it.

:

00:46:54,545 --> 00:46:55,715

I think that is the best

:

00:46:55,784 --> 00:46:56,405

-:

will, do God's

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00:46:56,425 --> 00:46:57,025

-:

right now.

:

00:46:57,265 --> 00:46:57,635

Yeah.

:

00:46:58,055 --> 00:46:58,785

Perfect.

:

00:46:58,835 --> 00:46:59,415

Okay.

:

00:46:59,925 --> 00:47:00,965

Last thing.

:

00:47:01,005 --> 00:47:04,115

So this is something that I'm

starting to do on my podcast.

:

00:47:04,155 --> 00:47:06,095

And I thought about the other

day and I was like, why haven't

:

00:47:06,095 --> 00:47:07,065

I been doing this all along?

:

00:47:07,075 --> 00:47:09,045

But there's a first for everything.

:

00:47:09,045 --> 00:47:14,525

So my podcast is called ever be because

of the promises that I've made to God

:

00:47:14,545 --> 00:47:19,765

to have his praise ever be on my lips,

no matter the circumstances or anything.

:

00:47:20,025 --> 00:47:25,240

And so I'm going to start asking all my

guests, Where God working is in, where

:

00:47:25,240 --> 00:47:29,710

God is working in their life so that

you can share the way God is working

:

00:47:29,730 --> 00:47:31,680

and praise him on your lips as well.

:

00:47:31,890 --> 00:47:35,700

So, what has been a way that you have

seen God work in your life recently?

:

00:47:36,894 --> 00:47:38,224

-:

Yeah, um,

:

00:47:40,670 --> 00:47:45,990

I would say one thing a couple of weeks

ago, my, my brother had his first baby

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00:47:46,660 --> 00:47:47,040

-:

:

00:47:47,060 --> 00:47:49,130

-:

um, the, uh, yeah, we were

:

00:47:49,130 --> 00:47:50,400

all super, super excited

:

00:47:50,540 --> 00:47:50,970

-:

:

00:47:51,790 --> 00:47:54,120

-:

sadly pretty soon after they was born and

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realized there had been some issues with

the amniotic fluid and it sounded like

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wasn't quite getting enough nutrients.

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took the baby to the ICU.

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And for a while, like I think there

were 90 babies in that hospital, in the

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ICU, and he was like the most, the one

that they were most concerned about.

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Like

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said like when you walk down the hall,

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was like all the nurses were like in his

room, like all the time it seemed like.

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It was like pretty scary.

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um, so I went up there a few days

after he was born and baptized

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him, which was a really beautiful,

beautiful moment, real consolation.

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Um, and we had just so many

people praying, um, for him.

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And, uh, took some time, been a couple of

weeks, but they basically got discharged

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and now he's just doing super well.

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It's just super wise gaining weight.

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And, um, we, there's still waiting

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on some tests and things like that,

but it seems like everything might

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be completely fine, which is kind of

insane that he went from like the most

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at risk baby to like, everything's

looking really good right now.

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So

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brother just sent me some of the

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newborn pictures with him and his wife.

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And, um, so.

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The praise of God is definitely on my

lips, um, for that, you know, I know

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that's not everybody's story, you know.

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There's different things that can

happen, especially with infants, but,

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when God, uh, God jumps in and

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really does something extraordinary.

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-:

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Life is so precious.

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Life is such a gift.

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Praise God for what he's

doing in your family.

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And thank goodness that

little baby's okay.

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Amen.

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Baby Bobby.

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Baby Bobby.

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Oh, amazing.

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Well, father, thanks so much

for spending time with us today.

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It was awesome to hear your story,

your words of encouragement and

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all the amazing things that are

happening in your life as a priest.

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It is so cool to hear just how you're

serving people and how the Lord is

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allowing you to see literal miracles

in your life, uh, left and right.

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So thank you so much.

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Thank you so, so much for having me.

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It's been an honor, and thanks for all the

great work you're doing for the kingdom.

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Thanks father.

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Thank you so much for listening in.

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The Ever Be Podcast is a faith and lifestyle podcast filled with meaningful conversations and practical tips that will inspire and empower you to live a Christ centered life in today’s modern world. Through her own experience of surrendering completely to God and finding true fullness of life, your host Mari Wagner, has committed to having God’s praise “ever be” on her lips and sharing that message with the world. Listen in for insightful, real life conversations and actionable steps on how to claim the full life God created you for.

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