54 : An Honest Conversation on Normalizing The Priesthood | Fr. David Michael Moses
In this episode, Ever Be welcomes a special guest, Father David Michael Moses, a priest from the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston. Father David shares his journey to priesthood, including his family's influence and his early discernment process. He discusses the importance of online ministry in evangelization and highlights the need to normalize and humanize the perception of priests. The conversation covers his daily life as a priest, challenges of the priesthood, and the impact of social media on spreading the Gospel. Father David also shares personal stories, including a miraculous anointing, providing valuable insights into the vocation of priesthood.
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mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Welcome back everybody.
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:It's ever be.
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:And today we have a super,
super fun guest on the podcast.
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:Y'all may know him from social
media and if you don't yet, you
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:definitely should be following him.
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:So I'll let him introduce himself.
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:Father, welcome to ever be.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Thank you so, so much for having me.
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:I'm Father David Michael Moses.
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:I'm a priest of the Archdiocese
of Galveston, Houston, and I
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:absolutely love being a priest.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's awesome.
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:Tell us a little bit about what
you do besides being a priest.
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:Yeah,
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
hopefully, is an extension of that.
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:I've been a priest for about six
years now, um, and, uh, these
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:days, I've just seen a lot of good
fruit from, uh, online ministry.
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:I feel like, you know, you can preach
a homily in person to, to people at the
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:parish and, uh, that, that can have a
very positive effect on them, um, but then
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:you have to go off and do something else.
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:What's cool about online stuff is
you can post something online, it can
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:keep doing its thing and then you can
go off and go back to doing parish
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:work and it can keep evangelizing.
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:So, I've seen a lot of.
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:Um, especially with humorous
stuff online and, uh, yeah,
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:just, it's cool to see the fruit.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
it is amazing to see the fruit.
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:You've grown so much and it's beautiful
to see a young priest online, kind of
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:like meeting the people where they're
at, or at least these younger generations
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:just meeting us exactly where we're at.
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:And that's why I wanted to bring you
onto the podcast today and have a
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:conversation, especially about kind
of like normalizing the priesthood.
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:I think as Catholics, we grow
up with priests in our parishes,
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:maybe family friends, but sometimes
we feel like they're kind of.
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:You know, on on a
different pedestal than us.
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:Um, and I think that what I have
experienced in my own life when I have,
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:uh, grown in friendship with different
priests in my life, I've begun to
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:see the humanness and see them in a
different light and appreciate them
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:even, even more than what I did already.
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:So, today we're going to have a
little conversation about normalizing
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:the priesthood, and we just want
to hear about you and your life and
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:your story and get to know you more.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, a hundred percent.
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:When I, I love that because at the
end of the day, like what makes the.
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:Only, we can only ordain
humans as priests.
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:So, the humanity of the priesthood
is obviously something that
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:was very intentional by God.
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:And it's certainly, you're set aside
for something very, very sacred.
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:But the humanity isn't a problem
to be, you know, scratched out.
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:It's actually a gift and it's a real
point of connection with people.
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:So, look forward to jumping in that.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Yeah, truly.
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:That's so good.
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:Well, can you just first start
out, um, just sharing about
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:your journey to the priesthood?
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:Where did you first feel called
in your life and what did that
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:discernment process look like for you?
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, well every vocation
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:starts with the family.
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:Um, my, my parents, uh,
really interesting story.
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:They became Catholic before I was born.
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:They converted from different
Protestant denominations.
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:And my, uh, my dad actually went
to jail 13 times for doing pro
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
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:Yes.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
served about six.
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:And, uh, so my mom was just a
hero during that time, you know,
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:she's at home with all these kids
and she was, were both loving it.
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:You know, it was like pretty extraordinary
to get to be involved in something.
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:I was just talking to them on my day
off last week that they, uh, they were
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:saying like they felt so much peace
during that time that even though there
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:was a lot that was being taken away from
them, the knowledge of knowing that they
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:were doing God's will, that they were
protecting these babies, um, for them
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:was just like worth, worth everything.
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:Um, so yeah, my dad, they would organize
like hundreds of guys to lay down
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:peacefully in front of abortion clinics.
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:And just a disclaimer here, like this
was all sanctioned by the Bishop.
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:The Bishop was supportive of it.
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:So I would not recommend someone go
do this, you know, on their own at
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
um, the Bishop was behind it.
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:And, uh, so that's what they did.
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:And, and, uh, a lot of, a
lot of people went to jail.
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:Um, the charge was trespassing,
but in Texas you can trespass if
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:you think a life is in danger.
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:And they definitely thought
a life was in danger in those
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: For sure.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
So, um, so that's what I kind of
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:grew up hearing stories about.
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:You know, a lot of
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That is amazing.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
when they're going to sleep,
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:but we listened to, I was like,
tell us some more jail stories.
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:You know, that was,
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Amazing.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
wild stuff, wild stuff.
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:And, uh, it was very much the
backdrop, I think for, for my vocation
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
like, I knew my parents had.
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:That whatever the Lord asked of them, they
said yes to it, no matter what that meant.
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:And so, for me, it was like,
okay, whatever the Lord asks
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:of you, you gotta say yes.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Can't say enough.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
you have to, you have to give it all.
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:And, uh, I didn't actually think too
much about priesthood until I went
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:on an asylum retreat when I was 16.
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:I'd been an altar server up to that
point, and just serving at the altar,
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:like, I just developed a deep love
for the Eucharist, and just, even
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:as a kid, I remember thinking, like,
man, if this really is Jesus showing
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:up, then, uh, this is the most
important thing I'm doing each week.
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:Like, I should probably
take this really seriously.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Aw.
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:Of course.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
I, uh, you know, and they'd pray
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:for vocations at mass, you know,
for invocation vocations, and, uh, I
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:was like, oh, I want to get married.
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:I guess that means I'm not
supposed to be a priest.
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:I really thought that.
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:You know, talking about like
normalizing the priesthood,
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
it's very normalized to, very
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:normal to want to get married.
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:Um, but that doesn't mean God's
not calling you to priesthood.
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:And uh, when I went on that silent
retreat, that's really where I
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:felt challenged is the priest.
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:Um, the priest had said at one
point, you should choose the
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:vocation that will make you a saint.
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:And that just hit me like,
Oh, that's, that's priesthood.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
know why I thought that.
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:And I just kind of
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Like it
just kind of like came to your heart, like
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:you just like felt that in your heart.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
A hundred percent.
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:Yeah, it was like, you
should choose the vocation.
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:He was talking to a group of people.
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:He said, you should choose the
vocation that will make you a saint.
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:And I was like, Oh, that's priesthood.
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:And then I was kind of like,
Whoa, why did I, why did I
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Why didn't I
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: You
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
just think that, yeah.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah.
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:And, and obviously that question is going
to hit different people in different ways.
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:Right.
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:For some people that would hit them.
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:Like I'm assuming for
you, that would hit you.
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:Like, Oh, that is totally married life.
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:You know, like that's my path to holiness.
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:So that's the the beauty
of the unique call.
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:Um, but telling the, I remember telling
the director of the tree that I'm kind
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:of feeling like this draw to priesthood,
but, um, I'm not really sure why.
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:And I honestly really want to get married.
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:And, uh, he said, that's okay.
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:That's totally normal, but God
still might be calling you.
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:You have to take that seriously.
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:And so that kind of reset the playing
field for me was like, okay, like
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:if celibacy isn't just because.
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:you were indifferent to marriage.
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:If celibacy is truly a sacrifice of
a good that you make because you've
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:encountered another good, then I
really need to take this seriously.
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:So sorry, praying a lot,
going to daily mass.
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:And over the next few
years, um, just really
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
As a 16 year old, right?
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:Like you're like praying, going
to daily mass as a 16 year old.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
yeah.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's a lot.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
cool how, yeah, it's really cool how
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:it worked out because I, um, I actually
started college when I was 14, and
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:so because I had a full time college
schedule, I was able to go to daily mass.
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:Because I got high school, you know,
class starts usually at like 7.
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:30, and you don't get out till 2.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
for me, I was able to go to like the 8.
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:30 daily mass, and I would arrange
my class schedule every semester so I
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Okay.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
went to mass every
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: We have,
but we have to, we have to stop there.
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:You're in college at 14.
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:Are you like a genius father?
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:What, what, why did you start calling?
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, so the way it worked
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:out, definitely not a genius.
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:The way it worked out, um, we were
all homeschooled when we were younger.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
all, everybody went into public
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:school at different times, like
either high school or middle school.
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:My mom was really good about discerning
what was best, kind of, for each child.
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:with me Um, this, the second
semester, my eighth grade year,
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:she was like, Hey, there's this
thing called dual credit classes.
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:You can take like a college
class at the university, but
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:then it still be in high school.
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:Um, and she was like, why
don't you take one of those?
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:And so, I mean, I was in eighth
grade, but you know, they
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
that much.
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:And so I just took a dual
credit class and it went well.
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:And then my mom was like, wait,
like, why don't you just do all your
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:classes like this next semester?
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:so we were like, okay.
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:And I get, I had to get permission from
the Dean, but they signed off on it.
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:I took the test to get in.
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:And then I did that for two years.
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:And then, um, at that point, I just
transferred to university in Houston.
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:it was so funny because they didn't
ask for like They didn't ask for
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:a high school diploma for them.
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:I was just a transfer student.
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:And so I was 16 and I had, um,
I had enough credits to transfer
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:in, so I just transferred in.
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:And then two years later, I
just had my bachelor's degree.
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:It's pretty funny.
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:Like more people should do it.
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:We kind of hacked the system to be honest.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That is the biggest hack.
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:If you want to get around
SATs, you got to do that.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, exactly, exactly.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
and so, Yeah, I mean, I never,
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:we didn't really plan it.
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:I think sometimes people do think that,
like, my parents were, like, pushing
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:me, like, this guy's gonna graduate.
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:And it really was.
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:Like, they were, I mean, my parents were
very, uh, facilitating, I would say.
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:They were like, hey,
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
What about this?
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:Um, so, It, it wasn't really the plan,
I just ended up that when all my, all
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:my friends were graduating high school,
I was just graduating from college,
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
bachelors, and so I had applied, that was
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:kind of a unique part of my discernment,
I had applied to some law schools and
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:got into a few different law schools, um,
and I was looking at doing that, going
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:straight in it, but instead, obviously,
um, felt much more called to seminary.
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:At one point, the vocation director had
said, he said, hey, you know, I know
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:you're thinking about being a lawyer,
and that's, that's a good thing, he
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:said, but at the end of the day, um,
Uh, the church can hire more lawyers.
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:We can't just go hire more priests.
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:So if
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: So true.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
to be a priest, then we really
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:need you to say, say yes to that.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: That's
a really beautiful way to put it.
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:And just like, praise God for this mentor
that you had the vocations director
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:to just kind of be like, you know,
great, great passion you have here,
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:but we really can't hire more priests.
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:So you just, you got to say yes.
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:You know, like, we really need that.
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:Yes.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Totally.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:I think it's good for, I think it's good
for me to know that like your, what you
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:choose makes a difference in the church.
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:Right?
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:Like, you know, God's will is going
to be done regardless, but like you
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:choosing to be a priest, um, makes
a difference for people's lives.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
and uh, yeah, exactly.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
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:So.
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:Is that in that moment did,
were you like all in then?
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:Like, okay, yeah.
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:I'm just gonna say yes and
then went to seminary and
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: the
big moment for me was, um, I was praying,
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:I'd ask God to send me a dove, because I
was very nervous about the celibacy thing.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
God if he would send me a dove, if
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:he wanted me to go into seminary.
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:And I was driving downtown to meet
with the vocational director one
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:day, and I was just kind of praying.
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:I was like, Lord, send me
a dove, send me a dove.
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:and uh, I saw some birds, but I
wasn't really sure if they were doves.
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:And I was like, I probably should
have picked something more specific.
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:Um, and uh, And then I was, and then
he had said at that point, he was like,
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:Hey, you should really feel peace,
not anxiety, but it's the Holy Spirit.
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:So the first thing he had suggested was
actually to stop discerning seminary
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:and really focus on law school, which is
pretty good discernment advice, like to
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:isolate your discernment a little bit.
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:Sometimes we kind of get
caught up in the options.
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:And so I really did that.
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:I stopped thinking about seminary
and started focusing on law school
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:it just, seminary just kept coming
back, like even stronger, you know?
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:And so I was, I was finally praying
in a holy hour at my home parish.
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:And, uh, I was just kind of feeling
frustrated with God because I was like,
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:Lord, I want to do what you want, but I
want to know that it is what you want.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
um, I'm willing to be a priest,
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:but celibacy sounds hard.
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:And, uh, I just want to know
that it's what you want.
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:So if you want me to go into seminary,
like send me a dove, send me a dove.
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:And I don't really know what I
thought would happen in the church.
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:Like if one would crash
through a window or something.
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:I don't know, but I was
just praying for that.
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:And, uh, and right then I looked
up and realized that the huge
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:painted glass window above the
altar of the church was a giant dove
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
There it is.
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:Mm-hmm
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And, uh, I just felt so
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:much peace in that moment.
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:Um, you know, Father Gregory Pine, uh,
talks about how like, you know, with signs
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:and that kind of stuff, you have to be
careful, obviously, with signs, but a lot
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:of it is how your heart responds to it.
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:You know, like, is it giving
your real sense of peace?
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:And so when I heard him say that, I
really went back to that moment and
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:I was like, no, I felt so much peace.
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:Like, okay, Lord, let's
take the next step.
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:And so I called the vocation director very
soon after that, finished the application
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:process and went into seminary.
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:Obviously seminary had
lots of ups and downs.
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:Um, the Lord
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
um, you know, like scripture says,
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:young man, when you come to serve
the Lord, prepare for trials.
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:And I think you definitely feel
that in seminary, but it's all very
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:purposeful on God's part to move
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Okay.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
some of those moments of frustration
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:and the moments of longing.
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:To really be purified and by I would
say like year four or five of seminary.
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:Um, I did a, like a full
year internship in a parish.
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:We call it the pastoral
year here in our diocese.
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:Everybody does it.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
love parish life.
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:I just love the rhythm of being with
the people and, um, Even during that
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:year, too, I had a moment, I thought
about this the other day, where I
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:was at the Catholic school there.
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:So again, I wasn't a priest
yet, I just was wearing a polo.
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:Um, I was in the cafeteria with a bunch
of the kids, and we were just having
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:lunch, and one of the little girls, she
was probably eight or nine years old,
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:she said, Hey, Father, do you think?
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:And then she stopped, and
she said, Wait, not a father.
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:And it was so interesting because looking
back, I think, like, kids sometimes
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:see things in us that we don't see
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Especially, like, especially young kids
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:who haven't really been, like, by sin.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
wasn't sure why she said that.
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:She was like, yeah, father.
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:And then she was like, wait, you're
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
She's like, why did I say that?
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah.
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:But
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
But she knew.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
back, it was
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
She told you.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
think, Yeah.
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:So just a lot of consolations like
that during that year where I came
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:back to seminary to finish out and
I was just like, let's do it, you
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:know, and have not looked back since.
352
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That is so cool.
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:I think one of the things you said that
I love is as you're asking the Lord for
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:this tangible sign and confirmation,
I just almost feel like, like I could
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:hear that like excitement and like, well
that desire in your heart, even though
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:there was still that fear and hesitation,
I just feel like that continual, like
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:Lord, show me a dove, show me a dove.
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:Like you're like, Asking for
that confirmation to be true.
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:Whereas I feel like if you were not
truly wanting to be a priest, you'd
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:be like avoiding any sign of like,
God's calling you to be a priest and
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:you'd be talking yourself out of it,
but you're like, no, like, Lord, like,
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:please send me that confirmation.
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:Please send me that confirmation.
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:Please send me that confirmation.
365
:So that's really beautiful to hear.
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:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
That's a good point.
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:I don't think I thought about that.
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:Just the fact that I was looking for
something was probably, it's kind of
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:like if you like somebody, like you're
looking for a hint, you know, like you're
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:looking like, Oh, did they text me back?
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:You know, I think that's a good analogy.
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:Like there must have been a part
of my heart that was like yearning
373
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
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:Mm hmm.
375
:Yeah.
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:Because when we start praying for God's
will to be aligned, like for our will
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:to align with God's will, I mean, that
just naturally begins to happen if
378
:we truly have an openness to do that.
379
:I mean, he begins to soften our
heart to his will and then even
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:like changing it to desire his will.
381
:And I feel like as you're sharing that
story, I feel like that's a lot of
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:what I was like hearing in your voice.
383
:And in your discernment process, it's
like, okay, there was an openness.
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:And then there was like that
shift of desiring what God wanted.
385
:So that was really beautiful.
386
:And I feel like really helpful for
people in a discernment process to hear.
387
:Yeah.
388
:Just how others have
discerned their vocation.
389
:So tell us now that you are a priest,
what is a typical day in the life look
390
:like for you and is there anything
about the priesthood that you feel
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:like has surprised you in your day
to day that now you're experiencing?
392
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, so I'm a diocesan priest, right?
393
:Which for most of us, it's not
necessary, but in most cases
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:we do end up in parishes.
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:Um, and so I've been in a parish
all six years as a priest.
396
:And, uh, what I like about the
schedule is that it's like totally
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:different every day in a lot of ways.
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:Like you don't know, like that's one
thing I've never talked to my brother
399
:priest when I was sworn after God ordained
is like, you really have to surrender
400
:your schedule to God because, Um, even
today, like I have things I've set out
401
:appointments that were set up by mass,
but people just come in the office.
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:People come up after mass.
403
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
404
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
things, you know, and so you kind of
405
:have to be like, okay, Lord, like,
this is what I think the day is going
406
:to look like, but I'm very open.
407
:I have to be open to whatever
you think it's going to be.
408
:And, um, So, I mean, it depends on
the day, um, but the day usually
409
:is going to consist of, you
know, good personal prayer time.
410
:We pray the liturgy of the hours.
411
:I mean, we, we promise to pray five times
a day, which is pretty substantial as
412
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
413
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Um, and then you have mass,
414
:uh, pretty much every day.
415
:I'm on the schedule.
416
:If not, I'll do my, my mass privately.
417
:Um, many of the days
we'll have confessions.
418
:I do a lot of anointings here.
419
:So people prior to surgeries are going to
homebound during the fish fry on Friday.
420
:I just got a call to somebody,
um, who was passing away.
421
:Um, in fact, I got
anointing call recently.
422
:Um, I went in and it was so sad.
423
:There was a guy who's.
424
:Um, his, he had lost his mom like a
year before his best friend had come
425
:down from Canada for his birthday
because he didn't want him to be
426
:alone on his birthday because his
427
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh,
428
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
away.
429
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: yeah.
430
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
his friend is down, the friend from
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:Canada, the friend has like this huge
heart attack and goes unconscious.
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:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Oh my gosh.
433
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: I
come to the hospital, we just get like
434
:this emergency call, like this guy's about
to die basically, can you please come?
435
:And so we come to the hospital,
and the poor friend, right,
436
:like his mom died a year ago,
437
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
438
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
comes to be with him, and now his friend,
439
:while he's with him, has like this
massive heart attack and is about to die.
440
:the poor guy, when I felt for him,
he was like, am I the Like, is it
441
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh,
442
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
it was really sad, and of
443
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: yeah.
444
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
man, like, don't, don't
445
:listen to those voices, right?
446
:Like, these are people who love you,
and, um, so I went in there, and
447
:this guy's family had come down too,
and it was pretty much, I mean, he
448
:was on mechanical support, and they
pretty much thought this was the end.
449
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
450
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
the, all the prayers for him, everything.
451
:And, uh, again, it's just kind of
a sporadic part of my briefly day.
452
:And all of a sudden you're
here at this person's bedside.
453
:They're about to die
and you pray for them.
454
:um, you know, I did everything
I needed to do and I left.
455
:And, uh, like a week ago, the secretary.
456
:Called me.
457
:He was like, Hey father, remember
that anointing that you did?
458
:And I was like, yeah, yeah.
459
:And he said, um, so as soon as you
anointed him, like, like a few minutes
460
:later, he woke up and woke up and the
doctors normally get it and they've
461
:done some tests and everything.
462
:And then now he's like, the family
just came in the office and told
463
:us like, he's completely fine now.
464
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: What?
465
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And they're like, this was abs.
466
:Like the guy, the friend was
like, I believe in miracles,
467
:but I've never seen one until
468
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's a miracle.
469
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
totally a miracle.
470
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Oh my gosh.
471
:That is so cool.
472
:You're like a spiritual first responder.
473
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Oh, absolutely.
474
:No, sometimes there's this place here
where they ask if you're a first responder
475
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
You're like, yes, I am.
476
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And I usually I'm like, kinda, and then
477
:sometimes they'll give me the discount.
478
:I take it.
479
:I take it.
480
:Um, no, but totally.
481
:And, and so I think that, you know,
to answer that question, like the
482
:days are very different and you
just often get just like thrust
483
:into these incredibly deep moments.
484
:Um, of people's lives.
485
:Like one day you're in the office
joking with somebody and the next
486
:moment like you're at the bedside
and someone's about to die.
487
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
488
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
to kind of just be in that mode.
489
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
490
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
but I really love that you kind
491
:of wake up and it is an adventure.
492
:You know, it's like where, where
is it going to take us today?
493
:And there's like amazing
stories like that guy.
494
:Um, uh, so the rest of my day
would be, you know, filled out
495
:with marriage prep appointments.
496
:I had one of those, um, over the weekend.
497
:And, um, Profession times and, uh,
staff meetings and then just like
498
:emails and trying to, uh, keep up,
keep on top of those kind of things.
499
:People need
500
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
It's an admin work.
501
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Spirit, yeah, admin work, spiritual
502
:direction, that kind of stuff.
503
:So every day is a little bit different,
but I really enjoy it and I kind of try
504
:to squeeze the social media stuff and
the little moments I have in between.
505
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.
506
:Yes.
507
:Tell us a little bit about how
you got started on social media.
508
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, well you mentioned kind
509
:of normalizing the priesthood.
510
:For me, the reason I started doing it is
because, um, up thinking about priesthood,
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:I didn't really know what priests did.
512
:Like, it was a mysterious call
to something, but I just didn't
513
:really know what it looked like.
514
:And I feel like good discernment
is based on good information.
515
:um, I thought, man, now that I am a
priest, I know what priests do all day,
516
:it might be helpful to like, make a video
about it, so any young guy who was like me
517
:when he was 16 can have a little bit more
data as he's thinking about priesthood.
518
:So that was very much the motivating
factor, and um, the week I kind of
519
:would say I kind of started using social
media, I had a, I was looking at the
520
:weekend, and that Saturday I had like a
wedding, and some young adult stuff, and
521
:mass, and confessions, and I was also
baptizing quintuplets that Saturday.
522
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's five, right?
523
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Five, exactly.
524
:Yeah,
525
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
526
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And, um, I was like, this is like
527
:probably a once in a lifetime thing.
528
:Like, I should probably
529
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
530
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: day.
531
:Like,
532
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.
533
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
cool.
534
:And so, I just kind of filmed the day, and
then a couple weeks later, I went back to
535
:the footage, and like, edited it together.
536
:Because I grew up doing a lot
of video stuff, um, like in high
537
:school, and then, um, for the
university I was at, and that kind of
538
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
539
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
um, and for the seminary.
540
:And so, I, uh, I was, I kind of edited
it together and I just kind of posted
541
:it and I was like, hopefully some young
guys will see that and find it helpful.
542
:And what I thought I was kind of surprised
by is like, a lot of people were just very
543
:interested in what priests did all day,
544
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
545
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And so when I kind of saw that, um,
546
:especially like non Catholics finding
that interesting, I thought, okay,
547
:maybe this is kind of worth sort
of leaning into a little bit more.
548
:Um, and especially started
kind of leaning into short form
549
:content, that kind of thing.
550
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
551
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
at the end of the day, like I
552
:want to, I do want to normalize.
553
:discerning the priesthood, like
that doesn't mean like you're
554
:a super weird person if you're
thinking about priesthood,
555
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
556
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: also
think like, um, I wouldn't wanna say I,
557
:we don't wanna de demystify the priesthood
because there's something deeply mystical
558
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
559
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
about what happens at ordination.
560
:Like being aside, set aside to be in
such close union with Jesus Christ that
561
:you act in his person in the sacraments
is like a deeply mystical thing,
562
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Totally.
563
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Mysteries aren't supposed to,
564
:like marriage, there's something
deeply mysterious about marriage,
565
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Sure.
566
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
deeply mysterious about God.
567
:But when we have a mystery, we
don't lock it away and shut it away.
568
:We seek to discover more about it.
569
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
570
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: like
we seek, like with God, God is a mystery.
571
:That doesn't mean that we're like, okay,
well, then move on to the next thing.
572
:God is a mystery means like
he's endlessly discoverable.
573
:Like there's endless
right to discover in him.
574
:And so I would say in the priesthood,
the reason I make videos is not to
575
:demystify it, but to actually invite
people into the discovery of that mystery.
576
:And I think the more, especially for
young men, they see the, kind of beauty
577
:of it, the more they'll be drawn into
maybe like living that mystery as well.
578
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That is so beautiful.
579
:I have never really heard
it spoken about like that.
580
:And that is, yeah, really beautiful.
581
:Definitely something to just to ponder
and pray with, which is awesome.
582
:Um, tell us a little bit more
about what is something that is
583
:really rewarding, like about being
a priest and what are maybe some
584
:of the challenges that you face?
585
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah.
586
:Um, I mean, there's so
many, so many rewards.
587
:I mean, you see the, just the impact
you can have on, on people as a priest.
588
:Um, just being called father, you know, is
like, Like, that's rewarding every time.
589
:It's like, I love how, um, in the
church we don't, we don't call our
590
:priest president or CEO or, you
know, we call, we call him father.
591
:You know, like, it's
592
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
593
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And most other things, like we call,
594
:you know, doctor, professor, those
are indicators of their degrees.
595
:their qualifications,
not of the relationship.
596
:as a priest, title is not doctor
or professor, it's father.
597
:It's a relational of
598
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's so cool.
599
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And so, that for me is like
600
:just deeply, deeply beautiful.
601
:Um, uh, to continue the stories
about how you impact people's lives,
602
:I mean, yeah, hearing confessions
and saying mass, I mean, it's uh,
603
:I find myself like constantly being
like, I can't believe this exists.
604
:Like, I can't believe God
thought this was a good idea,
605
:like, to let human men do this.
606
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
607
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
part of the work of Christ on earth,
608
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
609
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
I can't believe this even exists.
610
:Because like, yeah, I think if we
started a human committee and said,
611
:hey, who here thinks we should give
the authority of Christ to some men?
612
:It would have been like a
downvote from everybody.
613
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
been like, no, maybe not a good idea.
614
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, sounds like with the track
615
:record of track record of Humanity,
this sounds like a horrible idea.
616
:And yet God, like in his super abundant
goodness, um, gives it, and he offers
617
:it and he does it, of course not for the
sake of the priest, but for the sake of
618
:the people that he wants to be present
with his people that through the priest.
619
:Right.
620
:But it, it's for the salvation of souls.
621
:But it's still crazy that I get to,
I mean, I sit there in confessions
622
:sometimes and I'm like, this is insane.
623
:This is insane that I get to do this.
624
:I mean, I say mass.
625
:It's like, this is just insane.
626
:Um, and to be able to, yeah, to be
that spiritual father for people is
627
:just in absolute insanely rewarding.
628
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's so cool.
629
:I love hearing you talk about like
your own thoughts about the priesthood
630
:because it reminds me of how my husband
and I talk about marriage sometimes.
631
:Like we'll be married
four years next week.
632
:And so Thank you.
633
:It hasn't been a super long time,
but four years, we're like, Oh my
634
:gosh, it's already been four years.
635
:And sometimes we just sit there
and we're like, this is so cool.
636
:Like we're married.
637
:Like, did you realize like we're married?
638
:This is awesome that
we get to do this and.
639
:We're like, I wonder when
that's going to wear off.
640
:You know, I wonder where, when we're
going to like wake up and just be
641
:like, Oh yeah, marriage is normal.
642
:Marriage is, it is what it is.
643
:But like, at least right now
we're like, this is so cool.
644
:We get to do this.
645
:And so it's awesome hearing you
say that about the priesthood.
646
:I mean, that's how, you know, like
you're totally in the vocation.
647
:God's calling you to be in how
your vocation is that like.
648
:Just that call to, to find the Lord in
your vocation, to be sanctified in your
649
:vocation, to find that joy and fulfillment
and peace, and, I mean, you can, you can
650
:tell that the Lord has, has led you right.
651
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
A hundred percent.
652
:And yeah, I mean, even though what
you were saying about, you know, like
653
:early on, maybe in a vocation, it can
be easier to, like, appreciate it.
654
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Sure.
655
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: but
I think, like, that's more the reality.
656
:Like, for me, when I, the day I got
ordained, I was just so pumped, right?
657
:So pumped, everybody was there, and I
got, I got ordained, I got to be a priest.
658
:And I remember thinking in my ordination,
like, you know, I won't always feel
659
:this on a human level as much, like this
kind of high about, like, this newness.
660
:Um, but, like, this will
always be the reality.
661
:Like, we know in 30 years,
when you don't feel it, whether
662
:it's marriage or priesthood,
663
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: hmm.
664
:Mm hmm.
665
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
because the reality hasn't changed.
666
:It is still just as beautifully mysterious
and deeply beautiful and, um, all that
667
:changes is like we become more numb to it.
668
:The reality doesn't become weaker.
669
:So I think it is, whether it's marriage
or priesthood, it is about like trying
670
:to keep your, your life and your thoughts
in step with what is already true.
671
:You know, and the more you can do
that like the better you're gonna
672
:you're gonna live it, you know
673
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
674
:Yeah.
675
:And so let's go back to, um, a challenge.
676
:What do you feel like is something that
is, is challenging about the priesthood,
677
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, there's a lot of challenges, and
678
:the challenges are really what make it
life giving, I think, in a lot of ways.
679
:Um, in terms of discerning, I
mean, celibacy, like I said, is a
680
:huge challenge to today's culture,
and it should be a challenge.
681
:Like,
682
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: right?
683
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
says, like, uh, celibacy, it
684
:is a sign of contradiction.
685
:It's supposed to push back on a world
that is too fixated on certain things,
686
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm
687
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
that That it offers something else.
688
:You know, I think there's something
really deeply beautiful about that.
689
:Even I was reflecting recently, like,
I love the fact that like in a church
690
:that asks young people to be chased
in a church that, um, asked couples
691
:to not use contraception, to use
692
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm
693
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
planning, how beautiful that the
694
:leaders, the shepherds, we asked
them to be celibate themselves.
695
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm
696
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
it's like as a priest, when I, when
697
:I say don't use contraception, you
really need to use an FP, which means
698
:you're going to be celibate for,
699
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right?
700
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: the
701
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
For a time.
702
:Yeah.
703
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
saying, I'm not asking you to do something
704
:that I'm not doing myself all the
705
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right?
706
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
you know, and,
707
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm
708
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: to
not live together before marriage, and
709
:we ask, uh, you know, young people to
stay away from things that are impure.
710
:The challenge as a priest is actually
what makes you a good father to
711
:them in that moment, you know So the
challenges are very very life giving
712
:just basic like the biggest day to day
challenge is just the the amount of
713
:good things you could be doing But only
714
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm-hmm
715
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
can do some of the good things and I
716
:think I mean I'm in a parish right now
the first parish I was at There were
717
:two priests and 20, 000 parishioners,
718
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
719
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
age was 20.
720
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Wow.
721
:Mm-hmm
722
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
just wild.
723
:We had 2, 500 kids in Faith Formation.
724
:This parish, we have 10, 000
parishioners, still huge.
725
:And, um, yeah, there's a million good
things you could always be doing.
726
:So you're not discerning
every day, like, should I do
727
:something evil or something good?
728
:There's just all good things, but
it's a question of, like, which good
729
:thing is the Lord calling me to?
730
:You know, and I think that can
be just a constant challenge as
731
:a priest to make sure that you're
Properly discerning the highest good.
732
:Um, and hopefully as we get more and
more priests that will become kind of
733
:easier and easier But I think that can
definitely be a a consistent challenge.
734
:And again, that's actually why I
use social media Some people say
735
:like with so much to do how do
you have time for social media?
736
:For me
737
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Hmm.
738
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
choosing the highest leverage actions
739
:in terms of evangelization And I think
social media is one of the things,
740
:I can spend 15 minutes on a video
and a million people can see it.
741
:That's a pretty high leverage action.
742
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's huge.
743
:Yeah.
744
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
like, that's one of the reasons
745
:it's worth leaning into that stuff.
746
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Totally.
747
:Totally.
748
:What do you feel like are some
of the biggest misconceptions
749
:people have about the priesthood
and how would you clarify them?
750
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah, um, I think the biggest one I
751
:probably have seen from like very good
people in the church is that like being
752
:a priest would be boring Which I mean,
I can't even set it with a straight face
753
:because it is like anything but boring.
754
:I
755
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's so cool.
756
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
It's it's constantly fascinating
757
:the amount of things we get to do
the way you involve people's lives I
758
:mean Last night we had a young adult
group, which was just a huge blast.
759
:The week before we went to the, like
35 young adults in the parish went to
760
:the trampoline park here in town, um,
Sunday night, just super, super fun.
761
:It was our community weekend
this weekend at the parish.
762
:So we had like free food for
everybody after every mass
763
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That's awesome.
764
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
so many beautiful and exciting moments.
765
:You know, the story I shared earlier
about that guy in the hospital, just
766
:so many things like it is, I mean,
I've never, I mean, I'm dead serious.
767
:I don't think I've ever had a
moment as a priest where I thought
768
:I was like, I think I'm bored.
769
:I mean, it has never happened.
770
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: That is.
771
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
many good things.
772
:So, I think that's a huge misconception.
773
:Um, and, and, uh, On a spiritual
level too, I think that like
774
:people think being a priest just
necessarily means loneliness.
775
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
776
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
there are, everybody
777
:has lonely moments for
778
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
779
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
And I don't think I think
780
:Jesus was lonely on the cross.
781
:So if a priest is supposed to be
conformed with Jesus, I think you
782
:should have some lonely moments.
783
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
784
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
but the life of a priest is anything
785
:but just continual loneliness.
786
:I mean, again, that's,
that's insane to me.
787
:Like I'm with people all the time.
788
:People I
789
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
790
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
love me.
791
:Um, the best friendships I could ask for.
792
:Um, that like the loneliness is not the
pervading emotion I have at all, you know?
793
:So again, there's moments of loneliness.
794
:but that's not, that's not the
constant state of life by any means.
795
:Um, and again, like the challenges
are actually what really
796
:lead to the joy in many ways.
797
:So those are the kinds of
misconceptions I would say.
798
:Mmm.
799
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
you, I mean, I think you
800
:clarified those really well.
801
:And I, I feel like I've
heard those myself of people.
802
:And I think what you said is true.
803
:Like everybody does experience
a level of loneliness and if
804
:priests do or when they do, that's.
805
:Maybe not a bad thing, you know,
it's like a unification with Christ.
806
:Um, but yeah, I feel like you do hear at
least the moms or the ladies like pray
807
:for the priests and their loneliness,
pray for the peace and their loneliness.
808
:But it's very cool to hear.
809
:You're like, actually, um,
I'm having a great time.
810
:Like a lot of the time I'm
with my people all the time.
811
:So it's so good to hear
that you have community.
812
:Within your parish.
813
:Um, maybe with that, like even beyond your
parish as well, but yeah, that you feel
814
:like you have kind of a support system
and community and friendship and like the
815
:parish is like your wider family, right?
816
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Totally.
817
:Yeah, they call you father, because
that's your family, I mean, 100%, you
818
:know, and I think, and, and, looking at
the life of Jesus, right, he was not a
819
:man who lived, like, isolated at all.
820
:You know, like, very, I mean, he had his,
his, his own immediate family, but very
821
:soon as he began his personal ministry,
like, he, he's get, he got, got his
822
:friend group going, you know, and he hung
out with these 12 guys, and there was
823
:more people, and they were at wedding
feasts, and like, he was a very communal
824
:person, and I think that's the model
for everybody and especially priests.
825
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Totally.
826
:Okay.
827
:Let's go back to social media.
828
:So you were talking about how you love
using it to leverage, like leveraging
829
:social media to reach the masses and
to evangelize kind of on a mass level.
830
:First of all, it's amazing that you can
spend 15 minutes on a reel and get a
831
:million views because that's hard to do.
832
:And that's how, you know, the
Lord is blessing your work.
833
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: Not
everyone goes like that, to be honest.
834
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Yeah, there I know, but you do
835
:get a lot of views and that's how
you know the Lord is blessing it.
836
:Cause I'm like, sometimes you spend
hours on social or on making a
837
:video and you're like, yeah, this
is the one that's going to go viral.
838
:And it gets like no views and
you're like, okay, humbling
839
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
so crazy, right?
840
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: on.
841
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
to predict.
842
:Yeah,
843
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
It is hard to predict.
844
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: the
one that you didn't spend much time on is
845
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh,
yeah, it's the one that goes viral.
846
:And you're like, I don't
know how this works anymore.
847
:It's fine.
848
:Um, but social media can be
both a blessing and a challenge.
849
:And I think especially, um, when it comes
to the faith, there's a lot of different
850
:feelings about social media, about
how we're engaging with social media.
851
:I know a lot of Catholics that
have decided to get off social
852
:media because they don't feel
like it is a good place to be.
853
:And then a lot of Catholics that
are very passionate about social
854
:media and using it for For the good.
855
:Um, so can you talk to us a little
bit about that and tell us maybe how
856
:do you think Catholics and especially
young people, which I feel like is
857
:the majority of people that are on
social media, how can we be using
858
:it for the good of the gospel?
859
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah.
860
:Well, I love that you framed it that way
because I would say like, yeah, there
861
:are Catholics who think they should get
off social media and that it's really
862
:dangerous, and there are Catholics who
think there's a really good tool and they
863
:should be there, and they're both right.
864
:They're both right.
865
:Um, it is dangerous.
866
:Absolutely.
867
:And some people shouldn't be there.
868
:And some people should be there.
869
:The analogy I always use, um, is like,
social media is like a bad neighborhood.
870
:That I would not recommend, like, my
nieces go live in a bad neighborhood.
871
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
872
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
not suggest my family go live there.
873
:I would not walk alone late at night
in a bad neighborhood in the streets.
874
:Um, but it's dangerous, but I also
think like every bad neighborhood
875
:should have a Catholic church.
876
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
877
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
every bad neighborhood should
878
:have a Catholic priest.
879
:I would never recommend the
diocese shut down the churches
880
:in the bad neighborhoods.
881
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
I love that.
882
:Yes.
883
:Yeah.
884
:Mm hmm.
885
:Totally.
886
:Mm
887
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: big
fan of people getting off social media.
888
:I'm, I'm a huge advocate
of parents keeping their
889
:children off of social media.
890
:I mean, the statistics are very clear.
891
:You're happy if you
don't have social media.
892
:So.
893
:am the biggest fan of that.
894
:Get rid of it.
895
:If you walk away from it, for sure.
896
:But just because a few of us moved out
of that neighborhood doesn't mean the bad
897
:neighborhood like ceases to exist and that
we can't minister to the people there.
898
:Um, and so for me, like, I very much
feel called to that bad neighborhood
899
:to minister there as a priest, to do
it carefully, to be smart about it.
900
:and I do think if it's done well, it
can be a just a huge, a huge tool.
901
:Um, I mean, I get messages from people
all the day, as I'm sure, all the time, as
902
:I'm sure you do, um, from people who, uh.
903
:Uh, you know, started coming back to the
church, started going to OCIA, and we
904
:have two people in our, um, OCIA class
here at the church who, uh, who started
905
:my social media and started kind of
entering the, entering the faith and,
906
:um, you know, I, I got a message from
a mom recently who said her, I'll keep
907
:this kind of vague, her daughter was
involved in like some really bad stuff.
908
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: hmm.
909
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
um, she had tried to really
910
:reconnect her with her faith and
she just wasn't really having it.
911
:And one day her daughter came up and
was like, Hey mom, I just followed
912
:this funny priest on Instagram.
913
:And her mom was like,
Oh, what is, okay, yeah.
914
:You know, it's not like her mom
was trying not to be too excited,
915
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh yeah.
916
:Totally.
917
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: Oh,
918
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Bye.
919
:Bye.
920
:Bye.
921
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
You know?
922
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
923
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
um, she emailed me and she said, Thank
924
:you so much for reaching my daughter
925
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh.
926
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
I couldn't.
927
:And she said, she showed me some of your
funny stuff, and she just started showing
928
:me some of your more serious stuff.
929
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm hmm.
930
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
thank you.
931
:And, um, that's, that's what we're about.
932
:Like I love, same, same for you.
933
:You know, like I love seeing
the comments that are like, I'm
934
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yeah.
935
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
why is this on my feed?
936
:But
937
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Right.
938
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
I followed.
939
:You know, it's like, got em!
940
:We got em!
941
:You know, and I'm just super, super
passionate about the lost sheep.
942
:Like the, the parish I met is
called Christ the Good Shepherd.
943
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Oh.
944
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: says
945
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: fitting.
946
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
The Good Shepherd goes after the
947
:lost sheep and he doesn't send
somebody else He doesn't tell
948
:someone else to go he goes himself.
949
:And so for me, I just feel very called
like okay, I'm gonna go go get him,
950
:you know And I've seen just so much
affirmation from the Lord with the
951
:fruit of that that I feel like at
least for this time You know, it's
952
:it's worth it's worth leaning into
953
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
That is so cool.
954
:I love, I love what you were saying about
the bad neighborhood, but I also love.
955
:Like your tactic of like getting
on people's feet and getting on
956
:people's radar of like using humor
and And then also including kind
957
:of like the more serious stuff.
958
:Like I love what you were saying
about the girl She's like, oh mom.
959
:Look at this funny priest.
960
:I found, you know It's like that
connection point of like meeting them
961
:where they're at using humor And then once
you've kind of built that trust a little
962
:bit to be like, Hey, but I actually like,
have some, like some really good stuff
963
:to say if you, if you want to listen,
which I think is a really good strategy.
964
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Well, Jesus says to go fish for men.
965
:And how do you fish?
966
:You have bait and you have a hook.
967
:That's what you do.
968
:And so for me, like,
that is the social media.
969
:We need a bait.
970
:Which is usually, like, humor is
just so, such a universal language.
971
:And then later you hook them.
972
:You know, like, we're out
here fishing on social media.
973
:That's what we're about.
974
:So.
975
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Yes.
976
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: ha
977
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: some
of the videos really, really hook you.
978
:I get it every time when it's like
things that I can't eat as a priest.
979
:And I'm always wondering, like,
wait, as a Catholic, I'm like, as a
980
:Catholic, I didn't know priests had
a list of things they couldn't eat.
981
:And then over here, you're eating like
a telephone and I'm like, what is this?
982
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304: ha.
983
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304:
Like what?
984
:How did he come up with this?
985
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Got'em.
986
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: So good.
987
:Um, okay, let's go back to
discernment for a little bit.
988
:I, if you could speak to the young
men out there, um, who may feel
989
:intimidated by the idea of discerning
the priesthood, what advice would
990
:you give to somebody who is feeling
called, but might still be hesitant?
991
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
Yeah.
992
:Um, for me What I felt when I
entered was like, gosh, I sure
993
:hope I don't have to be a priest.
994
:Like, you know, I'm willing if God
wants, but I don't, I don't, I hope
995
:I don't have to like be celibate
996
:mari-wagner_2_03-10-2025_133304: Mm.
997
:squadcaster-11f7_1_03-10-2025_143304:
tells me and live the way
998
:the Bishop wants me to live.
999
:And like, I'm willing, but I
kind of hope he's not calling me.
:
00:39:51,329 --> 00:39:54,320
And even, even probably when I went
to seminary, I was like, there's a
:
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,240
little part of me that was like kind of
hoping it would be a no from somebody.
:
00:39:57,540 --> 00:39:58,045
-::
00:39:58,045 --> 00:39:59,000
Hmm.
:
00:39:59,300 --> 00:40:01,390
-:what being a priest means that like.
:
00:40:01,860 --> 00:40:06,860
Through ordination, you are so closely
united with Jesus Christ when you take
:
00:40:06,860 --> 00:40:11,080
a piece of bread and you say, this
is my body, this is my blood, Jesus
:
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,590
makes it become his body and blood.
:
00:40:13,820 --> 00:40:16,949
Like Jesus said, I'm gonna conform
myself to you so much that when you
:
00:40:16,950 --> 00:40:20,039
speak, I will do it every single time.
:
00:40:20,835 --> 00:40:26,075
Like, I will give you my voice to speak
in the world, and I will do what you say.
:
00:40:26,105 --> 00:40:26,835
It's crazy.
:
00:40:26,835 --> 00:40:27,055
When somebody
:
00:40:27,355 --> 00:40:27,375
-::
00:40:27,435 --> 00:40:29,665
-:with sin, and I say, I absolve you from
:
00:40:29,665 --> 00:40:35,595
your sins, in the first person, binds
himself to me and to my word, that when I
:
00:40:35,604 --> 00:40:38,184
say it, he will do it every single time.
:
00:40:38,635 --> 00:40:39,525
-:That's so cool.
:
00:40:40,195 --> 00:40:40,685
That is.
:
00:40:41,310 --> 00:40:42,960
-:And so, I don't think even when I
:
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,530
entered seminary I had that awareness.
:
00:40:44,830 --> 00:40:45,410
-::
00:40:45,540 --> 00:40:48,209
-:But when I did, like I went from saying,
:
00:40:48,350 --> 00:40:50,360
I sure hope I don't have to be a priest.
:
00:40:50,750 --> 00:40:53,490
To like legit being like, man
I sure hope he chooses me.
:
00:40:54,210 --> 00:40:54,920
-::
00:40:54,980 --> 00:40:56,210
-:sure hope he chooses me.
:
00:40:56,530 --> 00:40:56,740
-::
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,400
-:he, is he, is it even possible that
:
00:40:59,410 --> 00:41:02,120
he is going to like invite me to this?
:
00:41:03,240 --> 00:41:07,100
To, like, love the way he loved, to,
like, literally be him in the world,
:
00:41:07,230 --> 00:41:10,360
like, to be acting as a person, is crazy.
:
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And
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-::
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What an honor.
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-:be my, yeah, oh my gosh,
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there's no greater honor.
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-::
00:41:15,330 --> 00:41:16,869
-:greater, I mean, you've heard the quote,
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um, from this, I forgot which saint
it was, but like, if an angel appeared
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and a priest walked up, he would greet
the priest before he greeted the angel.
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-::
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-:for him, the
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-::
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-:the one who's knighted to the person
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of Christ, and the angel's not.
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-::
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-:crazy.
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And, and, and that's my thing.
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That's what I would tell a young
guy who's like, Oh, I don't know,
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I'm nervous, da, da, da, da.
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I would say like, dude, if the
Lord invites you, and I think, you
:
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know, sometimes we invite in kind
of maybe too soft of a way, like,
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oh, you might be opening doors.
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No, no, no, like the Lord doesn't
send the invitation to everybody.
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If you get one of those invitations,
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-::
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-:seriously.
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-::
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-:seriously.
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Because he doesn't just send those
invitations out to everybody.
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Um, and then right along that, a side
that I would say like, what Jesus says
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in scripture so often, don't be afraid.
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Don't be afraid.
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Be a man.
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-::
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Yeah.
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-:sometimes.
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Okay.
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Be a man.
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Say yes.
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Don't be afraid.
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you giving, laying down your
life and you're not really sure
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what you're getting in return?
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Absolutely.
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Do it anyways.
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Um, God is the one who sees the future.
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the one who knows what
it's gonna look like.
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Like, have the, have the courage
to say yes to that and let it
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go where it goes, you know?
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Um, that would really be my, my response.
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-:That is so cool.
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And I think in the end we know doing
God's will is the path that's going to
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bring us the most joy, the most peace,
the most fulfillment in our lives.
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And even if we know we're being
called, but there's still that
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like question in our hearts of
like, but I never saw myself.
:
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Doing this or I never saw this
being a part of my life or, but
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I'm like, not really sure that this
is going to bring me the most joy.
:
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Like, if you know, it's God's will
just following that and trusting
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in that, like, you're going to
find that fulfillment, that joy,
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that peace, no matter what it is.
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No matter what it is.
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And I used to always tell my Bible study
girls when I was a missionary and I
:
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used a little bit of an extreme example.
:
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I'm like, if God's will is for you to
be homeless and you follow that, you
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are going to be joyful being homeless.
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And like, you could never
imagine that right now.
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Right.
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00:43:19,035 --> 00:43:23,355
But I just feel like that, even that, to
that extreme, like sometimes God's will
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is so not what we thought it would be.
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We just, it's what he
teaches me continually.
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00:43:28,515 --> 00:43:32,345
It's like, we just have to continue to
trust that his plan is better than ours.
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His plan is always better than ours.
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-:Absolutely.
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And that's the progression, right?
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Like what you're saying kind of reminded
me of, uh, one of my best friends in
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seminary, um, got diagnosed with cancer
like a month before we got ordained.
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-::
00:43:46,715 --> 00:43:50,095
-:And, um, And it was, I think it was
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the second time he'd gotten cancer.
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And it was pretty serious lung cancer.
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-::
00:43:54,445 --> 00:43:56,095
-:um, he went through a lot of chemo.
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And actually, sadly, just a couple
years ago he actually passed away.
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-::
00:44:00,095 --> 00:44:03,274
-:his final, um, his final homily he gave
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00:44:03,274 --> 00:44:06,054
at the seminary when we were deacons,
before we were going to get ordained.
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Um, he said, You know, so much of his
prayer during that time not just that
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00:44:14,430 --> 00:44:17,250
he would know God's will, because in
seminary we talk so much about knowing
:
00:44:17,250 --> 00:44:20,250
God's will, like how, you know, we want
to actually discern what God wants.
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-::
00:44:21,270 --> 00:44:22,119
-:at that point, it wasn't
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00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:23,710
just to know God's will.
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because at this point he was
confused by God's will, right?
:
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Like, why would
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-::
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,080
-:him through seven years of seminary, then
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-:Only then.
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Yeah, exactly.
:
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-:crazy.
:
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And he was like, my prayer right
now is not just to know God's will.
:
00:44:36,300 --> 00:44:37,889
It's not just to do God's will.
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It's to love God's will.
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-::
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Mm.
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Mm.
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00:44:42,259 --> 00:44:43,829
-:is the joy that you're talking about.
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Like, if you want joy, not enough
to just know it, know God's will.
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It's
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-::
00:44:48,619 --> 00:44:49,259
-:to do God's will.
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Like, you have to love God's will.
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But when you do love God's will,
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-::
00:44:54,885 --> 00:44:56,825
-:like that is full freedom, right?
:
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Like that is complete
peace and complete joy.
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-::
00:45:01,295 --> 00:45:01,825
Dang.
:
00:45:02,205 --> 00:45:03,375
I need to pray with that.
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00:45:03,415 --> 00:45:04,255
That is so,
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00:45:04,555 --> 00:45:05,205
-:that good?
:
00:45:05,565 --> 00:45:08,015
I know, it like kind of makes
me emotional just thinking about
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it, thinking about him, but
:
00:45:09,435 --> 00:45:10,445
-:yeah, it does.
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00:45:10,445 --> 00:45:14,255
And I, I just think back to the way the
Lord's worked in my life in those moments
:
00:45:14,255 --> 00:45:21,255
where I've gone from like, no, I know
my plan is better to, okay, God, maybe
:
00:45:21,255 --> 00:45:25,505
I'll be open to your plan to then kind
of like seeking it to then loving it.
:
00:45:25,795 --> 00:45:27,745
Like you totally see that progression.
:
00:45:27,745 --> 00:45:30,665
And when you do get to that, like, I love.
:
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:31,960
What God's calling me to do.
:
00:45:31,990 --> 00:45:35,220
I love his will, that
freedom that you mentioned.
:
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It's just unlike anything else.
:
00:45:37,420 --> 00:45:39,100
Like you don't get that anywhere else.
:
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,280
Um, and it is so beautiful.
:
00:45:41,990 --> 00:45:46,640
So before we wrap up father, can you
tell us what are some practical ways that
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00:45:46,660 --> 00:45:51,290
we as lay people can better support and
encourage priests in our own communities?
:
00:45:52,285 --> 00:45:53,890
-:Mmm, I appreciate that question.
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00:45:54,190 --> 00:45:54,610
-::
00:45:54,655 --> 00:45:56,235
-:will just say, people are great.
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00:45:56,535 --> 00:45:57,775
People are fantastic.
:
00:45:57,805 --> 00:45:59,515
I am so thankful for the people of God.
:
00:45:59,575 --> 00:46:00,595
They pray for me.
:
00:46:01,144 --> 00:46:02,245
They're always checking in.
:
00:46:02,274 --> 00:46:04,575
So, one, I would say people
have got to do a great job.
:
00:46:04,635 --> 00:46:06,065
I feel very, very supported and loved.
:
00:46:06,464 --> 00:46:06,924
Um,
:
00:46:07,230 --> 00:46:07,550
-:That's so good.
:
00:46:07,550 --> 00:46:09,669
I
:
00:46:10,795 --> 00:46:13,465
-:Uh, I mean, all the natural ways to
:
00:46:13,465 --> 00:46:15,625
support your priest, letting them know
that you appreciate them, you know,
:
00:46:15,625 --> 00:46:16,635
all those things are really good.
:
00:46:16,895 --> 00:46:19,495
And then the day we're trying to make
you holy, we're trying to sanctify you.
:
00:46:19,495 --> 00:46:22,454
So the more holy you are,
the easier our job is.
:
00:46:22,465 --> 00:46:27,202
So I'm very inspired by, by God's people
and these, these parents that have these
:
00:46:27,265 --> 00:46:29,175
kids and are just such good parents.
:
00:46:29,175 --> 00:46:33,215
And like, I'm so inspired by that and
really grateful for people in my parish
:
00:46:33,215 --> 00:46:34,785
who are just really pursuing holiness.
:
00:46:35,525 --> 00:46:38,835
honestly the best thing you can do because
that makes our job a lot, a lot easier.
:
00:46:38,855 --> 00:46:40,315
We're all working together on that.
:
00:46:41,210 --> 00:46:41,710
-:love that.
:
00:46:41,990 --> 00:46:44,840
If you could leave our listeners
with one key message of
:
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,094
encouragement, what would it be?
:
00:46:47,645 --> 00:46:51,885
-:Yeah, um, Can we go with that?
:
00:46:51,885 --> 00:46:52,615
Love God's will?
:
00:46:52,945 --> 00:46:53,564
How's that?
:
00:46:53,864 --> 00:46:54,545
-:Let's do it.
:
00:46:54,545 --> 00:46:55,715
I think that is the best
:
00:46:55,784 --> 00:46:56,405
-:will, do God's
:
00:46:56,425 --> 00:46:57,025
-:right now.
:
00:46:57,265 --> 00:46:57,635
Yeah.
:
00:46:58,055 --> 00:46:58,785
Perfect.
:
00:46:58,835 --> 00:46:59,415
Okay.
:
00:46:59,925 --> 00:47:00,965
Last thing.
:
00:47:01,005 --> 00:47:04,115
So this is something that I'm
starting to do on my podcast.
:
00:47:04,155 --> 00:47:06,095
And I thought about the other
day and I was like, why haven't
:
00:47:06,095 --> 00:47:07,065
I been doing this all along?
:
00:47:07,075 --> 00:47:09,045
But there's a first for everything.
:
00:47:09,045 --> 00:47:14,525
So my podcast is called ever be because
of the promises that I've made to God
:
00:47:14,545 --> 00:47:19,765
to have his praise ever be on my lips,
no matter the circumstances or anything.
:
00:47:20,025 --> 00:47:25,240
And so I'm going to start asking all my
guests, Where God working is in, where
:
00:47:25,240 --> 00:47:29,710
God is working in their life so that
you can share the way God is working
:
00:47:29,730 --> 00:47:31,680
and praise him on your lips as well.
:
00:47:31,890 --> 00:47:35,700
So, what has been a way that you have
seen God work in your life recently?
:
00:47:36,894 --> 00:47:38,224
-:Yeah, um,
:
00:47:40,670 --> 00:47:45,990
I would say one thing a couple of weeks
ago, my, my brother had his first baby
:
00:47:46,660 --> 00:47:47,040
-::
00:47:47,060 --> 00:47:49,130
-:um, the, uh, yeah, we were
:
00:47:49,130 --> 00:47:50,400
all super, super excited
:
00:47:50,540 --> 00:47:50,970
-::
00:47:51,790 --> 00:47:54,120
-:sadly pretty soon after they was born and
:
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,639
realized there had been some issues with
the amniotic fluid and it sounded like
:
00:47:56,700 --> 00:47:56,860
-::
00:47:56,969 --> 00:47:58,480
-:wasn't quite getting enough nutrients.
:
00:47:58,780 --> 00:47:59,530
-::
00:47:59,556 --> 00:48:01,229
-:took the baby to the ICU.
:
00:48:01,340 --> 00:48:05,120
And for a while, like I think there
were 90 babies in that hospital, in the
:
00:48:05,130 --> 00:48:09,260
ICU, and he was like the most, the one
that they were most concerned about.
:
00:48:09,310 --> 00:48:09,530
Like
:
00:48:09,590 --> 00:48:09,750
-::
00:48:10,170 --> 00:48:10,470
-::
00:48:10,770 --> 00:48:12,750
-::
00:48:13,050 --> 00:48:14,709
-:said like when you walk down the hall,
:
00:48:15,380 --> 00:48:18,750
was like all the nurses were like in his
room, like all the time it seemed like.
:
00:48:18,750 --> 00:48:20,029
It was like pretty scary.
:
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,880
um, so I went up there a few days
after he was born and baptized
:
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,780
him, which was a really beautiful,
beautiful moment, real consolation.
:
00:48:28,210 --> 00:48:32,230
Um, and we had just so many
people praying, um, for him.
:
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:36,850
And, uh, took some time, been a couple of
weeks, but they basically got discharged
:
00:48:36,870 --> 00:48:38,320
and now he's just doing super well.
:
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:39,680
It's just super wise gaining weight.
:
00:48:40,190 --> 00:48:40,220
-::
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,460
-:And, um, we, there's still waiting
:
00:48:42,460 --> 00:48:44,229
on some tests and things like that,
but it seems like everything might
:
00:48:44,229 --> 00:48:48,249
be completely fine, which is kind of
insane that he went from like the most
:
00:48:48,249 --> 00:48:51,370
at risk baby to like, everything's
looking really good right now.
:
00:48:51,430 --> 00:48:51,830
So
:
00:48:52,150 --> 00:48:52,530
-::
00:48:52,550 --> 00:48:53,610
-:brother just sent me some of the
:
00:48:53,610 --> 00:48:55,230
newborn pictures with him and his wife.
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00:48:55,230 --> 00:48:56,630
And, um, so.
:
00:48:57,095 --> 00:49:00,845
The praise of God is definitely on my
lips, um, for that, you know, I know
:
00:49:00,845 --> 00:49:02,475
that's not everybody's story, you know.
:
00:49:02,475 --> 00:49:04,810
There's different things that can
happen, especially with infants, but,
:
00:49:05,110 --> 00:49:05,690
-::
00:49:05,805 --> 00:49:07,544
-:when God, uh, God jumps in and
:
00:49:07,544 --> 00:49:08,725
really does something extraordinary.
:
00:49:09,060 --> 00:49:09,450
-::
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:10,770
Life is so precious.
:
00:49:10,820 --> 00:49:11,800
Life is such a gift.
:
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,280
Praise God for what he's
doing in your family.
:
00:49:14,310 --> 00:49:16,600
And thank goodness that
little baby's okay.
:
00:49:17,015 --> 00:49:17,425
-:Amen.
:
00:49:17,435 --> 00:49:18,084
Baby Bobby.
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00:49:18,495 --> 00:49:19,805
-:Baby Bobby.
:
00:49:19,865 --> 00:49:21,015
Oh, amazing.
:
00:49:21,015 --> 00:49:23,115
Well, father, thanks so much
for spending time with us today.
:
00:49:23,115 --> 00:49:26,305
It was awesome to hear your story,
your words of encouragement and
:
00:49:26,305 --> 00:49:28,995
all the amazing things that are
happening in your life as a priest.
:
00:49:29,005 --> 00:49:32,775
It is so cool to hear just how you're
serving people and how the Lord is
:
00:49:32,775 --> 00:49:36,865
allowing you to see literal miracles
in your life, uh, left and right.
:
00:49:36,875 --> 00:49:38,895
So thank you so much.
:
00:49:39,505 --> 00:49:41,154
-:Thank you so, so much for having me.
:
00:49:41,154 --> 00:49:43,855
It's been an honor, and thanks for all the
great work you're doing for the kingdom.
:
00:49:44,385 --> 00:49:45,105
-:Thanks father.
:
00:49:46,615 --> 00:49:48,325
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00:49:48,685 --> 00:49:51,265
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