14: How The Rosary Will Transform Your Life
Mari shares the significance of the rosary in the Catholic faith and its transformative impact on her life. Mari speaks to her personal journey from viewing the rosary as an ancient tradition to experiencing its profound effects, including enhanced peace, a deeper desire for faith, and increased confidence in God's plan. You are encouraged to pray the rosary daily to experience it's power, graces, and promises, and Mari offers practical tips for incorporating this devotion into daily prayer routines.
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Hey, I'm your host, Mari Wagner, and you're listening to the ever be
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:podcast where faith meets lifestyle.
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:I'm so excited you're here, whether you're
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:I know there's something here for you.
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:Pull up a chair and listen in for
insightful real life conversations
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:and actionable steps on how to claim
the full life God created you for.
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:If you're a woman desiring to live
a Christ centered life in today's
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:modern world, then this is for you.
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:Welcome to Ever Be.
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:mari-wagner_1_06-18-2024_134127: Hello.
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:Hello, friends.
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:Welcome back.
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:It's so good to be with you today.
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:It's just me today.
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:And today we're gonna be
talking about the rosary.
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:Um, I'm going to show a little bit
about my experience and just some of
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:the amazing things that I have learned
about the rosary over the years.
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:in hopes to hopefully encourage you and
convict you of its power of its beauty.
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:Um, and just the amazing effects
and benefits and graces that you
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:can see in your life when you start
praying the rosary every single day.
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:And I want to talk about this, uh,
prayer and devotion specifically, because
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:there's a lot of different devotions
to choose from in the Catholic faith.
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:And that's a beautiful thing, but But
the rosary has been, I'll say like
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:one of the most longstanding devotions
and probably one that, uh, Mary in
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:her apparitions, uh, the different
saints have all spoken out in a very
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:fervent way, a very convicting way.
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:And it can't be for no reason, right?
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:It can't be that saints time and time
again, talk about the power of the
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:rosary and urging us to pray the rosary.
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:It can't be that Mary and all of
her apparitions, especially, you
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:know, in Fatima, her most well known
apparitions, where she urges her
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:children, us, to pray the rosary
faithfully and devoutly every single day.
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:And truthfully, I feel like it's a
prayer that a lot of people have a
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:hard time with, which is another reason
why I want to talk about it, because
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:I think that You're probably not alone
if you struggle to pray the rosary.
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:And if that's you don't feel bad.
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:I was there once as well and
still am there from time to time.
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:Um, but I think it's a prayer that a lot
of people have trouble with, uh, either
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:because of the repetition or because of
the link, they struggle to find time or
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:really to know why is it such a big deal?
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:Like, why are we supposed to
pray the rosary every single day?
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:And so I hope that this
episode today really.
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:Draws out some of that,
uh, conviction in you.
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:Draws out some desire for you to
come to know Jesus's life more fully
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:and love Jesus's life and love, uh,
meditating on his life through the
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:eyes of his mother, through the rosary.
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:So I grew up cradle Catholic, but not,
not very practicing until my later
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:high school years, college years.
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:So the rosary wasn't something that
I grew up praying and it wasn't
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:something that my family necessarily
had as a practice within our family.
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:Um, I kind of grew up thinking it
was just something that grandmas
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:did and come to think of it.
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:I feel like I remember my grandma
talking about it, but, um, I mostly
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:just remember her talking about her
love for Mary and the importance
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:that Mary plays in our life.
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:Um, either way, I associated
the rosary as kind of like an
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:ancient Catholic tradition.
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:Not really something that was necessary
or something that I necessarily
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:really needed to adopt in my life.
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:And then my mom went through
her own reversion, uh, back
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:to the faith, praise God.
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:My sophomore slash junior year of college,
sorry, not college of high school.
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:Times for her.
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:She, it all really stemmed from, uh,
Mary and Mary working in her life and
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:she wanted to pray the rosary more.
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:And she started incorporating that
practice into our family's life.
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:I will say it wasn't widely celebrated
or received by the family at first.
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:Okay.
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:But bless her heart.
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:She had us all sit down and pray the
rosary every single Sunday after mass.
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:And so that was when I was really
introduced truly to what it was
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:like to pray the rosary, um,
and pray the rosary as a family.
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:And uh, At this point, I'm starting
to grow in my faith as well.
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:So I know that it's important in a sense.
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:Like I know it's a quote unquote,
good thing to do to pray the rosary.
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:And I've always loved Mary
and I loved Mary very much.
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:So I was like, okay, I'm not going
to put up too much of a fight,
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:but I didn't really, Love it.
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:I didn't really engage in it that much.
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:I remember thinking it was boring and
long and I kind of couldn't wait to
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:get over with, you know, just kind
of get through the Hail Mary's recite
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:them quickly and kind of, kind of just
check it off and be like, okay, we did
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:a good thing and just be done with it.
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:And it wasn't really until college,
my, Junior year that I started
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:to pray the rosary more often.
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:And it all really started with
Trey, my husband now, who was my
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:boyfriend at the time, he learned
to make rosaries at a summer camp.
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:He was working at, you can hear the
full story of how our baby was born.
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:Business, west Coast Catholic
started another episode, but that's
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:kind of where it all stems from.
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:He learned how to make
these corded rosaries.
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:And then for a birthday of mine, he
wanted to gift me a handmade rosary.
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:And so he wanted me to pick out the beads
and kind of design what it looked like.
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:And then he wanted to handcraft.
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:And so we went to Michael's.
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:We picked out some beautiful beads.
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:And the beauty of this rosary,
the intentionality of this
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:rosary, the way that I knew that
it was made and crafted for me.
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:Um.
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:just had a power over it, right?
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:And this is where I've come
to learn the power of beauty.
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:Beauty is a transcendental, which means
that it kind of elevates our soul to
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:heaven and allows us to see something
divine beyond what is just in front of us.
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:So just the beauty of this rosary.
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:Drew me to it.
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:And at first it was just holding it.
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:At first it wasn't like, I was like,
oh, let's pray the rosary all the time.
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:At first I was just holding it, so I would
just put it in my pocket, I'd put it in my
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:purse, I'd sleep with it under my pillow.
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:Um, I had it in my backpack
on the way to class.
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:I just had it with me often, and
I just felt a sense of peace and
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:protection, even by just holding it.
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:And I even just felt a.
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:A greater desire for my faith, for the
things of the faith, even just by holding
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:it, by being physically near the rosary.
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:And at some point I realized, okay, I
have my rosary with me at all times.
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:I should probably.
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:Pray it myself.
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:I should probably actually
include this in my prayer routine.
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:And so I started praying it a little
more, more often, maybe twice a week.
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:I remember there was a group of Catholic
students that would get together every,
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:I think it was like Thursday morning.
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:We called it a, uh,
Gosh, what was it called?
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:A power hour or a prayer
hour or something like that.
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:It wasn't an hour.
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:It was like, you know, 20 minutes we
would walk on campus super early in the
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:morning, like six or six 30 am to pray the
rosary before anybody was out on campus
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:to pray for the conversion of our campus.
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:Um, yeah, I was pretty nuts back then.
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:Not really sure how I got out
of bed so early to do that.
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:But The Lord gives us the grace and the
times that we need it for whatever it is
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:that his mission is for us at that time.
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:So I was praying it at least once a week
and then every once in a while, Trey
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:would invite me to pray with him after
a Sunday mass or something like that.
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:So maybe once, twice a week, um, you
know, Just sparingly here and there.
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:And then I think, uh, COVID hit and when
COVID hit, I realized, you know, wow,
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:like we don't have the sacraments anymore.
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:The churches were closed.
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:We couldn't go to mass or adoration
or confession and the rosary.
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:in a different way than just like mental
prayer or journaling was, was kind of like
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:this routine, uh, meditative prayer that
almost resembled the mass in a way, right?
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:Like because of its structure, because
of its monotonousness and routine of it,
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:which we'll get to The depth beyond that,
because there's so much more beyond that.
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:But even just that as a starting point
during COVID, I felt so much more
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:drawn to pray the rosary because I was
missing that routine way of worshiping
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:and practicing my faith in the mass.
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:And so.
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:My friends and I would go on
rosary walks and at this point we
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:would do it several times a week.
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:We were so bored at home.
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:We had nothing to do.
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:We couldn't go to mass and we were
just, you know, trying to get out of
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:the house, move our bodies and throw
a rosary in there at the same time.
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:So I started praying it
more often during COVID.
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:And the fruits that I began to see in my
life, they're almost instant, you guys,
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:and I always explain it like it's math.
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:Like, it just works, right?
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:Like, every single time, the outcome in
a math equation is supposed to be the
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:same, and the same goes for the rosary.
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:Those graces and fruits I began to see in
my life, Pretty soon after just starting
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:to pray it one more time, two more
times a week, three more times a week.
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:Like I said, it even started
from when I just had the rosary
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:physically in my presence, in my
hand, in my purse, under my pillow.
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:And the largest overarching
one that I would say is peace.
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:And that's something that I think
we can hear and kind of dismiss
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:and be like, Oh, you felt peace.
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:That's great.
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:That's a nice feeling.
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:We are all deeply yearning for peace.
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:Our world is so deeply yearning for peace
and especially our young generation.
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:I know I've said it before, but
we're struggling with depression,
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:anxiety, worry, and stress
more than any other generation.
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:I feel like, and we need peace.
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:It's not just a light, happy go lucky
thing that, you know, is nice to have.
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:It's a need.
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:We need peace in our
hearts and in our souls.
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:Um, we need rest.
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:In like the depths of our soul.
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:And I found that through the rosary.
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:Like I said, I started praying it a
lot more often during COVID, which
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:was a weird time for all of us.
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:A little bit of an unrestful
time for all of us.
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:And in the midst of worries and fears
that I had of what was going to happen
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:or what was life going to look like?
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:I was moving to a new
state to get a new job.
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:I was in the middle of engagement.
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:I didn't know what was going to
happen with our wedding in the
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:midst of all that worry and unrest.
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:I found peace.
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:And I started going to the rosary so much
more often, literally to draw peace from
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:the source of Jesus through his mother.
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:Another fruit that I got from praying
the rosary that I experience all
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:the time now, the more that I pray
the rosary, the more I feel this.
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:And that is a deeper desire for the things
of the faith and kind of like, um, I call
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:it like a spiritual sweetness sometimes.
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:Like I'm sure you've experienced
this before where like mass becomes.
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:Kind of old or like a drag, or
sometimes you have to like force
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:yourself to go because you're like,
Oh my gosh, like, I don't know.
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:I don't get anything out of her.
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:It's boring.
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:If that's where you're
at, like, that's okay.
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:I encourage you to press on
because there's something
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:so beautiful there for you.
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:Or maybe you feel like a similar way
about the teachings of the faith and
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:you're like, I just don't understand,
nor really have a desire to live the
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:way the church teaches me to, or to have
a deeper understanding as to why we're
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:taught to live the way that we should, or,
you know, why we believe certain things.
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:Like if you have basically what I'm
trying to say, if you have a, an
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:apathy or a distaste, or even like
a, some sort of resistance to the
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:things of the faith, or they're just.
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:Boring to you sometimes
the rosary changes that.
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:And it changed that for me.
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:It gave me a spiritual sweetness
and an easiness and a desire
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:for the things of the faith.
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:All of a sudden I started
appreciating mass more.
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:I started to see the beauty
more of what was happening.
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:The supernatural reality of, uh, a
simple bread and wine becoming the
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:Jesus's body and blood given up for
us, the supernatural reality of Being
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:joined to earth and Mary's in the angels
and saints, intercessions is communion
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:of saints intercession for our life,
for our holiness, for our sanctity.
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:I started to desire daily prayer.
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:I started to actually desire time in
silence and meditation with the Lord
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:and to kind of like retreat from the
everyday and retreat from the noise
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:of the world to be in solitude, to
In prayer with Jesus, the, the rosary
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:gave me these desires, you guys.
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:And of course it just deepened my
relationship with Mary and Jesus.
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:Like I said, I've always loved Mary, but
praying the rosary frequently gave me
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:this deeper sense of belonging to her.
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:Okay.
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:Like when Jesus says on the
cross, John, behold, your
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:mother, mother, behold, your son.
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:I felt that to my core.
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:The more I prayed the rosary, I
felt her motherhood in my life.
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:I felt an embrace, maybe not like a
physical hug from a person, but I felt
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:this like spiritual embrace of her
protection and her presence in my life.
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:I was never alone anymore.
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:And I'm saying this like totally honestly,
like if I ever felt alone, I knew like.
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:My mom is with me like my heavenly
mother is just with me, whether she's
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:just enjoying this time of silence with
me or cooking with me or on a walk with
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:me or sitting next to me in the pew as
I pray to Jesus, she's always with me
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:and protecting me and interceding for me
and the rosary just gave me that deeper
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:sense of belonging to Mary as my mother.
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:And I want that for you.
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:I want you to seek that.
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:I know that a relationship with Mary
is something that a lot of us seek
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:and sometimes struggle with, you know,
for different reasons, but I want you
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:to feel that motherhood in your life.
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:And so the rosary is one of those avenues
where you can draw closer to Mary.
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:And through loving Mary more, I
was drawn even closer to Jesus.
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:And this is something I don't
necessarily feel like I have a tangible
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:explanation as to how or why other
than that's just Mary's mission is
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:to bring you to her son is to help
you love her son and know her son.
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:Hey everyone, this is Trey.
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:I edit Mari's podcasts and I'm just
coming in here to interrupt because I
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:actually recently read something that
I felt was super powerful and super
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:convicting that was a great explanation
to why going through Mary leads us
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:closer to Jesus and why that is The
proper order in which to return to God.
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:So God, in His all perfection, all
knowing omnipotence, He could have chose
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:any way possible, any way that He wanted
to save us, to redeem us, but He chose
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:to save us through encountering us and
redeeming us through His Son, Jesus.
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:And the way that He did that, the
way that He encountered us and
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:the means and the method by which
He encountered us and saved us.
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:was through the person of Mary.
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:Even further, as Christians we
are called to become like Christ.
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:And in order to do that we need grace.
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:And grace was given to the world
through Jesus and therefore through
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:Mary because Jesus came through Mary.
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:And so in God's plan, the most
perfect way to save us and to
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:encounter us was through Mary.
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:And so likewise, that should be
the perfect path to return to God.
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:If God encountered us through Mary, then
we should just follow that same path back
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:up to God and encounter God through Mary.
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:So that is a very tangible explanation
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:As to why going through Mary leads
us to God and why it is the most
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:perfect way to return to God, because
we're not choosing to do that.
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:We're just imitating God himself.
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:If God goes through Mary to encounter
us and to save us, then we should
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:go through Mary to encounter him.
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And that's just what naturally.
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:happened.
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:I think it was just a natural next step.
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:As I drew closer to Mary through the
rosary, I began to desire Jesus more.
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:I began to, to go to Jesus in
prayer more than seeking Mary.
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:I think for a long time, I kind of had a
relationship with God, the father, and I
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:had a very deep relationship with Mary.
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:And Jesus's son as a person,
I knew who he was in a sense,
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:I didn't know him personally.
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:And so I wouldn't really be
like, dear Jesus in prayer.
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:I wouldn't really address Jesus.
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:Be like, Hey Jesus, here's my heart.
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:It would always be like, God,
please provide in this way.
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:Please hear my prayer.
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:And then Mary was the one that I would
be like very vulnerable and open and
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:just everyday casual conversation with.
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:And through praying the rosary and
getting even closer with Mary, I just
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:naturally desired to speak directly to
Jesus and to bring everything to Jesus
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:and almost supplement that with Mary's
intercessions and her prayer for me.
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:And then I think another grace that
I have felt, uh, throughout my entire
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:journey of praying the rosary, but
more so the past few years, probably
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:the past year or two is increased
confidence in God's plan for my life
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:and increased confidence in God himself.
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:This is something we all struggle with.
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:You guys wanting to know what
the future holds, wanting to know
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:what God has in store for us.
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:Why things happen in our life, why he
allows suffering or, you know, when is
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:he going to bring about this thing that
I've been praying for, for forever?
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:We can all relate to that
in one way or another.
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:And praying the rosary has given
me a blind trust, a deep sense of
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:confidence and faith in who God is.
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:What does that mean and who God is in
his goodness, in his fatherhood, in the
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:fact that I am so loved and so important
to him that he has a plan for me.
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:He never abandons.
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:He doesn't, he doesn't forget about
me and I'm never overlooked by him.
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:And I don't know why, again, I don't
know why praying the rosary has given
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:me this grace, but it has, and I've
seen it because the past few years
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:of our life have been a lot of.
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:Big transitions, you know, into getting
married and moving states twice.
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:Uh, our whole story of how we moved
from Nebraska to Colorado was wild and
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:totally led by the Lord and literally
happened in the span of four weeks.
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:Can you imagine moving states,
selling house, buying a house?
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:We were in the middle of, you know,
holiday season for our business.
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:We had seek that we were going to,
it was like the most crazy time.
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:And.
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:Praying the rosary gave me the
peace and confidence to know, yes,
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:this is the voice of the Lord.
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:This is what he's calling us to
continue to trust, continue to
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:follow his call, continue to say yes.
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:We felt that even more so in the past
few months with Trey quitting his
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:job and coming full time West Coast
Catholic with me, um, and making that
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:leap maybe a little bit earlier than we
thought we were going to be ready for.
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:Praying the rosary, seeking Mary's
intercession in all things has
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:given me that confidence and that
peace that God is God and I am his
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:child and thank God I am not God.
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:Thank God I don't have the power that
I sometimes think I would like to
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:have over my life, my life, or even
have the foresight to know everything
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:that's happening in the future.
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:We think we want those things, but
in our humanity, we actually can't.
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:Handle those things.
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:And so it, it makes me realize the
beauty of God being God and the beauty
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:of me being a child that depends
in a child that goes to him with
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:open hands, just, just giving the
Lord everything that's on my heart
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:through his mother and just receiving
comfort and grace and trust in him.
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:And I think one of the most remarkable
things about the rosary is the
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:protection that we can gain from it.
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:The rosary is commonly, referred to
as a weapon, like a spiritual weapon
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:against evil, against Satan, against sin.
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:So what does this mean?
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:A weapon, like what is this like
protection that it gives us?
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:So according to the catechism of the
Catholic church, the rosary, can destroy
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:vice, decrease sin, and defeat heresies.
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:As well as provide protection from
demons, literally put demons to flight
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:and protect you from any attacks of the
evil one, as well as just granting a
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:special protection over those who pray
the rosary faithfully and devoutly.
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:There's many testimonies of this and
I'll try and share some that just
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:come to mind off the top of my head.
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:But the one that I just heard recently
that really was the reason that I wanted
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:to record this podcast on the rosary,
what convicted me of this topic and
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:resharing my love for the rosary and
the power of the rosary was Matt Fradd's
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:Pines of Aquinas podcast episode, the
interview that he did with Gabby Castillo.
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:It was about Gabby's life and his
ministry, his love for the rosary
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:in the blessed Virgin Mary and the
power that she holds, um, in the power
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:that the rosary holds in our life.
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:And he was just sharing like
his testimony and his story.
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:And it was wild to hear.
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:I highly recommend you go listen to
it, but basically what really grabbed
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:my attention was his, His experience
of being attacked by demons, you know,
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:there was one time where he was in his
room and he heard this high pitched
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:shrill voice, um, speaking to him.
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:And I don't remember what he was
saying, but he knew it was the devil.
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:Um, and then another night where
he was, Physically being attacked
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:by a demon being choked in his bed.
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:And he explains, it's not sleep paralysis.
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:He didn't imagine it.
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:It's not a dream.
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:It was a physical.
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:He was sitting upright in his bed and he
was, you know, pinned down by a demon.
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:By a demon.
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:And he felt in his
heart, like in his soul.
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:Um, and he says that
it's his guardian angel.
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:You know, something that told him,
pray to Mary, like, pray a hail Mary.
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:And he couldn't, he
couldn't get the words out.
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:I mean, he was being choked and he like.
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:Physically couldn't speak the words.
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:And so he, he felt that voice, like,
just say like in your head, like
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:say the Hail Mary in your head.
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:And so he started saying it and
he started saying Hail Mary.
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:And as soon as he started saying, as
soon as he started saying the words,
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:Hail Mary, he felt the grip on his neck,
loosening, and he was able to muster
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:out the words, you know, choking like
Hail Mary, he was able to say the words,
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:Hail Mary out loud in just a whisper.
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:And the second he said that he felt the
everything release and this demon like
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:fly across the room and he was saved.
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:That's obviously a crazy example,
but an example of how Mary has a
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:special protection over her children
and asking for her intercession and
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:invoking her gives you that protection.
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:But in a more practical everyday example,
we see and hear stories about the rosary
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:protecting people from sin, which can
get just as harmful as, you know, an
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:attack from a demon in a sense where sin
leads us straight to hell and praying the
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:rosary more often has provided graces to
turn away from sin to have a stronger,
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:aversion to sin, to not even desire it
in a stronger will over temptation and
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:to be able to overcome temptation and
not even, you know, be tempted to sin.
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:So just right off the bat, if you are
struggling with some sort of moral sin
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:that you just feel like you're enslaved
to, or has a hold on you and you haven't
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:tried praying the rosary every day, Do
that, do that, and I promise you that you
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:will see graces come through and healing
come through in that area of your life.
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:There is a special, a special protection
that comes through praying the rosary.
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:And you also receive protection in
your earthly life as well as at your
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:death at the moment of your death.
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:Think of the words we actually
say when we pray a rosary, right?
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:We say,
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:holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us
sinners now and at the hour of our death.
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:Amen.
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:I know that when we say a Hail Mary,
sometimes we just rush through it
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:and we don't actually even listen
to the words that we are praying.
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:We're literally asking Mary to pray for
us now and at the moment of our death.
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:And every time we say a Hail Mary,
we are begging Mary to do that.
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:So praying a rosary is just
continuously begging Mary to pray
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:for us now and at the hour of our
death at the hour of our death.
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:And those prayers are all going, we
are going to see the fruition of all
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:those prayers of Mary interceding for
us at the hour of our death, which is so
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:important at the time of our judgment.
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:You see, guys, Mary plays such a special
role in God's plan for salvation if you've
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:ever heard of the Proto Evangelium, you
know where I'm, I'm going with this and
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:it's basically the, the Proto Evangelium
is called the first gospel and it's
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:that message in Genesis where it's.
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:This sort of like first announcement
of the Messiah of the Redeemer
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:and how there will be enmity
between a woman and the serpent,
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:not just man in the serpent, right?
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:Not just humanity and the serpent, which
we interpret to be the devil, but a
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:woman in the serpent, but how she will
claim victory over him through her son.
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:And this is said right
after Adam and Eve's sin.
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:And so what theologians say
is that Mary is the New Eve.
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:She is this woman that has spoken about
in the proto evangelism that will bring
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:victory over Satan, salvation to the world
through her son Jesus, because whereas.
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:Eve disobeyed God and didn't trust God and
turned away from him and chose herself.
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:And brought sin into the world,
Mary gave her life for God said yes
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:to him was blameless and brought
Jesus into the world and brought
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:salvation and redeemed us from sin
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:through her son.
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:And so from the beginning, we see that
God has given Mary a special grace to
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:protect her children from the evil one,
which is why you often see Mary depicted
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:as her crushing the head of a serpent,
uh, crushing Satan ultimately.
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:, so now that we've talked a little bit
about the power of the rosary, the
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:graces, the benefits that it can bring
into your life and your spiritual life.
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:Let's talk about how
to pray a good rosary.
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:This is a prayer that can so often
just be rushed through and recited
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:kind of mindlessly to get through it.
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:But there's so much more beneath
the surface of the Hail Marys.
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:It's not just reciting the Hail Marys.
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:It's truly meditating on Jesus's life,
kind of through the lens of Mary.
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:If you notice, the mysteries
are Moments in Jesus's life that
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:we get straight from scripture.
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:And as we meditate on each one of these
mysteries throughout the rosary, we're,
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:we're meditating on Jesus's life.
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:We're filling our mind and our hearts
with thoughts of Christ in his life.
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:And so really the aim of the rosary
is to fall in love with Christ.
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:It's to fall in love with his
mother and the role that she plays
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:in our life to bring us to him.
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:I was watching a video about the rosary
by Father Mark Mary on Ascension.
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:And he said something that stuck
with me that I thought was really a
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:beautiful way to talk about the rosary.
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:And he said, it's about
relationship, not recitation.
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:Like the rosary Aims for us to
grow in relationship more than
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:it aims for us to just recite a
prayer that we're supposed to pray.
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:And that's where I think actually
leaning into the mysteries really helps
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:cultivate this love for the Rosary and
this love for Jesus and Mary, because
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:we're not just solely praying Hail
Marys, but we're actually engaging in a
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:deeper, more contemplative prayer Bye.
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:Thinking about Jesus's life and
the fruits that can come from
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:inviting him into our life.
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:So a tip, if you struggle with praying
the rosary intentionally and you feel
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:like you just kind of zoom through it or
just kind of want to get it over with, or
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:even if it's not even a prayer that you
have in your daily practice of prayer, I
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:would recommend that you start praying
with the different mysteries, like before
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:you even dive into praying the Rosary,
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:Pray through the ascension of Jesus
or the resurrection of Jesus or
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:the descent of the Holy Spirit.
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:Find these verses in scripture, these
passages in scripture and meditate with
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:them and pray with them and ask the
Lord to reveal like, what he wants to
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:speak to you through these passages.
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:And once you really get to know the
gospels that we're pulling these from, or,
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:you know, just these pieces of scripture
that reveal Jesus's life, then you can
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:bring that into your prayer of the Rosary.
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:Cause you actually know what you're
meditating and it's not just a title.
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:You're not just saying, okay.
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:Now we're , praying with the
next, you know, glorious mystery,
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:the third glorious mystery.
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:We're actually pulling from
the descent of the Holy Spirit.
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:And what did that mean for the disciples
and how did that change their life?
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:And how, you know, am I invited to
receive the Holy Spirit into my heart?
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:How can he change my life and
send me out to evangelize and to
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:bring people to Christ, right?
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:It brings a lot more depth to your rosary.
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:Once you actually know More about the
mysteries and pray with the mysteries.
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:You can also just pray for the
desire to desire the rosary and to
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:pray for the desire to pray period.
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:It's okay if you don't
desire to pray the rosary.
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:It's okay if you don't desire prayer.
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:It's very human and normal.
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:And we need the help of God to go
to prayer and to desire that time
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:of silence and solitude, especially
because our day to day life
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:doesn't necessarily encourage that.
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:I feel like it doesn't encourage silence.
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:We're inundated with messages and screens
and just, you know, The million things
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:that we have on our to do list that
it's not supernatural for us to want to
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:continually sit down and pray in silence
every single day or to take 15, 20
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:minutes out of our day to pray a rosary.
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:So pray for that desire every single
day and earnestly beg for it and ask the
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:Lord, Lord, I desire to pray the rosary.
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:Give me the desire.
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:Mother Mary.
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:Please intercede for me, soften my heart,
open my heart and help me to desire
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:to pray the rosary and to pray with
you and to pray for your intercession.
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:And if it does feel dry and
slow and boring, when you do
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:pray the rosary, that's okay.
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:Keep pressing on.
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:There is so much fruit and merit to
praying when you don't feel like it.
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:And I can't remember who gave
me this analogy, but a few.
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:Few years ago, many years ago, maybe like
five or six years ago, somebody gave me
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:this analogy of a master and his dog and
how we want to be like dogs in a sense.
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:So I have a dog, he's a golden retriever.
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:His name is Bodhi.
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:He's adorable and he loves me and always
wants to be with me whether I pet him
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:or not, whether I give him love or not.
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:He's content by my side.
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:He's content spending time with me.
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:He could be laying at my feet and I
could be giving him pets and love and
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:rubbing his belly or scratching his ears.
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:And he would be so overjoyed that
he was getting all that love.
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:But if I wasn't doing that, he
would still be by my feet and he
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:would still be so content to be
near me and to be just with me.
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:And so in a similar way, we want to be
like dogs and our master God, right?
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:We want to go to him when we get praise
and when we don't, when we feel all
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:those good and happy feelings and prayer.
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:And even when we don't feel anything in
prayer, even when we don't feel like we're
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:getting anything out of prayer, we want
to remind ourselves to go to Christ and
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:be content in his presence regardless, and
to continue to pursue him and persevere
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:Despite any feelings of dryness and
actually those times when we go to him in
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:prayer and when we actually take the time
to pray and to be with him and to pray
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:the rosary, even when it doesn't feel good
or fun or entertaining or, peaceful or
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:whatever it is that you're looking for.
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:Those times of prayer
actually have a lot of merit.
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:I would even say more merit than
the times when it does feel good.
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:When we do have a natural desire to
pray, because it's more of a sacrifice.
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:It's more of a stretching of ourselves
to seek God and to seek rosary when
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:we don't feel like it, when it's not
convenient, when it's not easy for us.
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:So what is the thing that got me to
pray the rosary every single day?
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:I will tell you, it was the
15 promises of the rosary.
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:So the rosary was given to St.
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:Dominic by Mary herself in an apparition.
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:And with that, she gave him
the 15 promises of the rosary.
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:I don't know why I had
never come across these.
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:I came across these maybe
two, maybe three years ago.
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:And when I read them, I was like, wow.
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:Why aren't people teaching
this every single day?
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:Why aren't people teaching this in
Sunday school or in Catholic school or
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:in Sunday homilies, these promises blew
me away so much that literally that
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:day I picked up my rosary and I prayed
it and I prayed it every single day
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:for months without fail, just because
it convicted me so much of just like.
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:If I pray the rosary every day, I get
access to these graces and these promises.
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:They were that, that amazing you guys.
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:And I'll just like read some of them just
to kind of show you the beauty of these.
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:I won't read all of them, but I
encourage you to go look at them.
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:Um, I have a freebie on our
West coast Catholic website.
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:If you go to westcoastcatholic.
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:co hit the more tab freebies,
there's a freebie that's called
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:15 promises of the rosary.
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:It's a packet that teaches you how to pray
the rosary and outlines the 15 promises.
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:So I'll just read out a couple of
my favorite promises that really
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:touched my heart and convicted
me to pray the rosary every day.
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:So number one says, whosoever shall
faithfully serve me by the recitation of
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:the rosary shall receive signal graces.
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:A signal grace is a simple
sign to an answered prayer or
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:to point you to God's will.
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:Kind of like those God moments that we
feel, you start to see those more often.
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:Basically, you start to see God's
work in your life more clearly.
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:Promise number five, the soul which
recommends itself to me by the recitation
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:of the rosary shall not perish.
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:What does this mean?
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:This basically saying that the
person that prays the rosary
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:Faithfully , shall be saved from hell.
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:I don't know about you guys, but I read
this one and I was like, sign me up.
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:I'm gonna pray the rosary every day.
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:Number six, , whosoever shall recite the
rosary devoutly applying himself to the
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:consideration of its sacred mysteries
shall never be conquered by misfortune.
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:God will not chastise him in his justice.
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:He shall not perish by
an unprovided death.
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:If he be just, he shall
remain in the grace of God and
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:become worthy of eternal life.
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:What this is saying is that anybody
who regularly praise the rosary.
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:Mary will be promised a death
free of mortal sin on their soul.
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:That's a big deal.
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:You guys.
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:Another one that I was like,
wow, okay, that's great.
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:Number seven, whosoever shall have a true
devotion for the rosary shall not die
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:without the sacraments of the church.
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:Mary is promising you access to the
sacraments at the moment of your death.
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:We're talking confession, anointing of the
sick, receiving Jesus in the Eucharist.
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:This is huge.
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:Like.
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:I want this for me at
the moment of my death.
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:So another huge check.
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:Okay.
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:Praying the rosary every
day to get access to this.
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:Number nine, I shall deliver
from purgatory those who have
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:been devoted to the rosary.
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:Number 10, the faithful children
of the rosary shall merit a high
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:degree of glory in heaven number
11, you shall obtain all you ask of
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:me by the recitation of the rosary.
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:Your prayers shall be answered you
guys by recitation of the rosary.
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:15.
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:Devotion to my rosary is a
great sign of predestination.
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:This means that those who
devoutly pray the rosary are
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:likely on the path to heaven.
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:And that's no surprise because
Mary is such a sure and quick
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:and efficient way to Jesus.
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:So now you see why, when I came across
the 15 promises of the rosary, I
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:was just totally like overcome with
emotion and Gratitude for this prayer
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:and desire to pray in conviction of
its power, because I want those things
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:and I want those things for you.
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:And the Lord wants those things for you.
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:The Lord wants you to be close to him,
to be in heaven with him, to be free
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:of sin, to have graces and zeal for
your faith and for him and his mother.
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:And that's what happens when you pray
the rosary, you come to know Jesus more.
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:You come to love him more.
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:You come to hate Satan, to hate sin,
to, to have power over temptation.
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:You're more aware of the Holy Spirit
and able to receive him in your life.
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:You have inner peace that is just
lasting and overcoming of all
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:anxiety and worry and depression.
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:Your eyes are opened to what God wants
to do in your life and you just desire
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:God's will in your life more than
your own and you trust God and his
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:plan for your life and so much more.
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:You guys so much more and whatever it
is that you bring to Mary, whatever
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:petition is on your heart, Whatever
you are desperately begging for
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:in your life, the rosary shall be
an avenue to answer those prayers.
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:Now that doesn't mean God gives us
everything we ask for on demand, right?
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:But no prayer that is brought
to Jesus through Mary is
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:too big, is too bad, right?
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:No sin is too horrible to be freed from.
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:No.
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:Ask or petition is too impossible
for God and sister Lucia, she was
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:one of the visionaries in Fatima.
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:And in these operations in Fatima,
Mary talked about the rosary often and
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:urged everybody to pray the rosary.
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:And she's, um, one of the
visionaries from there.
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:She has this quote that I want to
read off that just drives this point
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:home, that nothing asked through the
prayer of the rosary is impossible for
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:God or will be turned away from God.
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:And she says, the most Holy Virgin
in these last times in which we
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:live has given a new efficacy to
the recitation of the rosary to such
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:an extent that there is no problem.
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:No matter how difficult it is,
whether temporal or above all
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:spiritual in the personal life of
each one of us, of our families
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:that cannot be solved by the rosary.
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:There is no problem.
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:I tell you, no matter how difficult
it is that we cannot resolve by
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:the prayer of the Holy Rosary.
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:If you have something guys in your heart
that you have been yearning for, is
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:there, if there is a healing that you
are searching for, if there is a cross
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:in your life, a problem in your family or
in your relationship that you just find
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:impossible, bring that to Mary through
the rosary and allow her to intercede for
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:you to her son in that specific problem.
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:I promise you, you will see the graces
and you will see and experience the
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:fruit of peace and confidence in God
and how he will take care of that in a
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:view through the prayer of the rosary.
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:If you want to learn more
about the rosary, read the
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:secret of the rosary by St.
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:Louis de Bonfort.
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:Uh, I'll I truthfully going to be honest
with you haven't read it, but it's next on
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:my list and I have not heard anything but
good and amazing things about this book.
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:So this podcast right here is
my kick in the butt to read it.
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:I hope it's your kick in the butt
to read it because even though I
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:love the Rosary so much and know its
power, I want to learn even more.
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:I want to be convicted even more.
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:I know Mary's plan for life.
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:us.
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:I know God's plan for Mary
is so pivotal in salvation.
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:She wants nothing more than to see
us in heaven and we need her help.
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:We need all the help we can get.
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:So this is next on my book list.
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:I hope it's next on your book list.
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:The Secret of the Rosary by St.
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:Louis de Montfort.
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:Um, And if you are looking for a beautiful
rosary to help you in prayer, to motivate
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:you to pray, you know where to find them.
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:Westcoastcatholic.
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:co.
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:They hands down, why do I say they?
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:We, we hands down have the
most stunning rosaries.
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:I say that with all confidence,
you guys, I've never seen more,
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:more beautiful rosaries than ours.
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:And I am proud to say that they're
all designed by me for you.
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:So intentionally thought of each
different design has a different, um,
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:theme or devotion that might speak
so directly to one person or another.
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:So sweetly to you.
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:So specifically to you, just like
that first rosary design that Trey
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:made for me, spoke so directly to me.
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:I hope that you find a rosary
that will motivate you and draw
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:you closer to Mary and her son.
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:Again, you find those
at westcoastcatholic.
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:co.
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:I promise you, you won't regret it.
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:Another amazing thing about our
rosaries is that they are so durable.
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:Uh, we've gone through many different
types of cord and the core that
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:we have landed on officially, uh,
the past few years is unbreakable.
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:Okay.
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:That's a huge problem for people is
their rosaries breaking all the time.
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:And I remember when we were testing these
courts, Trey would literally grab the cord
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:and try and pull as hard as he could to
test how hard you had to pull to break it.
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:And we never broke it.
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:So West Coast Catholic has the
most durable rosaries as well.
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:Uh, when it comes to beauty and we do
have a guarantee that if your rosary
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:does break for some reason, or if you
have one with an old cord that broke,
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:reach out to us on customer service.
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:We will replace it at no cost.
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:Totally on us.
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:All right, you guys enough about that.
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:Uh, so good to chat with you today.
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:I love these Wednesday hangouts with
you and I'm so excited for your journey
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:with the rosary and what it will do in
your life, how it will change your life.
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:I hope that this message was encouraging
to you and I hope that you draw
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:closer to Mary more than ever before.
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:Let's close in a prayer and ask
for her intercession as you begin
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:your journey, praying the rosary.
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:Every single day in the name of the
Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.
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:Amen.
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:Hail Mary, full of grace.
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:The Lord is with thee.
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:Blessed art thou among women and
blessed is the fruit of thy womb.
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:Jesus.
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:Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us
sinners now and at the hour of our death.
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:Amen.
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:Mary, I asked that you give a special
protection to all those who are
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:listening and those who will seek
you out through the rosary more.
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:And I pray that you just give us a
greater desire to seek you out in
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:this prayer and to seek the Lord out,
um, through the rosary, through you,
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:through meditating on his life, through
this wonderful and beautiful prayer.
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:Amen.
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:Name of the father, son,
and the Holy spirit.
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:Amen.
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:We'll see you next Wednesday, guys.