62: If You're Not Convinced About Non-Toxic Living This One's For You
Mari shares her knowledge and journey of learning about the hidden toxins in everyday products and the drastic impacts they can have. Mari discusses actionable steps to lower your toxin burden, from household items to personal care products, and emphasizes the importance of making smart product choices. Learn about the outdated regulations governing the cosmetic and personal care industries, common harmful ingredients, and practical tips for transitioning to cleaner alternatives. Mari also shares her personal journey and how clean living can be an act of stewardship. Tune in for a comprehensive guide to creating a healthier, toxin-free environment for you and your family.
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Hey friends.
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:Welcome back today.
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:I'm here because we are full force diving
into one of my favorite topics right now.
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:We are gonna talk all about toxins,
where you can spot them in your
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:home, how you can lower your
toxin burden by leaning into clean
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:living because this is important.
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:And this is just gonna be a different
kind of episode that I've done
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:in the past about clean living.
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:I feel like in the past I've really
taken a, like first steps approach, which
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:you'll still get here, but I am gonna
give you all the education here that
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:I feel like I haven't fully dive in.
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:Dive in.
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:How do, how do you even say that Dove?
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:That I feel like I haven't fully dove
into in the past, um, that I feel like
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:I learned in the beginning steps of my
journey that really convicted me because.
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:You need to know why
this is important, right?
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:It's not just a trend.
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:And at this point in time, I feel like
we spend a lot of time in our homes and
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:we have a lot of products that we use.
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:And I think in our consumeristic
culture in America, we are constantly
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:pumped with advertising of what
products to have in your home.
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:And so we're using more products now
than ever, I feel like that we ever have.
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:And I.
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:You're constantly being told what beauty
products to use, what to do on your
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:hair, what to have in, what products
to use in your kitchen, or for cleaning
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:or for your yard or whatever it is.
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:We have so many products that are
marketed to us all the time, but what
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:is never actually revealed to us in this
advertising and marketing is what is.
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:In those products and how they were made
and how those ingredients could actually
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:over time, quietly harm our health.
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:And so we're starting to see
the effects of this today, which
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:is why I think this movement is
gaining more and more traction.
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:Um, and it's honestly, I think, a
really good thing and amazing that
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:we're getting more information so we
can make better informed decisions.
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:And so.
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:I think the reason like it's gaining so
much traction right now is because we're
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:seeing a lot of the effects of it today,
which that part is not amazing, and we
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:see it with increased chronic illnesses.
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:People are dealing with it everywhere,
increased inflammation, digestive and
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:gut problems, hormone imbalances like
crazy, and women struggling with their
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:cycle and their fertility and cancer
rates rising and toxins in our products
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:is the only culprit of all things.
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:Like we have a lot of work to do in
our, like health culture in America
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:and food quality and all those things,
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:but we are more exposed to toxins in our
products because of the regulations, the
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:poor regulations that our country has.
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:So I think it's important to talk about,
um, and I know that we are an all time
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:high in some of these, uh, levels, like
infertility levels in cancer rates and
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:all that kind of stuff in our country.
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:And obviously that's really
just really not good.
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:Um, and the fertility stuff
is really close to my heart.
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:So I think it's important to talk
about, and today I just wanna talk,
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:especially I think to the people, um,
obviously that are already serious
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:about this journey and wanna learn
more, but especially I wanna talk to the
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:people that are more skeptical of this.
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:Like, maybe you're still not sure why
it's such a big deal, or you think it's
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:all kind of bogus, or you think clean
living is a trend or maybe it's extreme.
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:Um, because I think that.
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:You know, I, I, I've been in a place
like that before where I think I was,
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:I had healthy skepticism, um, which
is still good to have because I think
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:that I, there was a time when I felt
like that too, where I'm like, uh,
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:is this, like, I'm kind of skeptical
of like, what is going on here?
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:Like, how come everything is bad?
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:But I honestly think if you're coming
from that place as I was in the past,
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:it comes from a lack of information.
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:Um, and I think more information helps
us make better informed decisions.
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:So hopefully this episode's gonna
give you so much information to
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:help you make better decisions.
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:Um, and you know, I get it.
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:Like there were times in the
past where I thought, you know,
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:this is a little too much.
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:I don't know if this is true.
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:And it actually just took me diving into
the education to change my mind to read.
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:The studies to see the numbers, to
like actually learn what the names
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:of ingredients are and what they do.
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:Um, so that's what we're
gonna dive in today.
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:Today we're gonna talk about common
hidden toxins in our homes, we're gonna
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:talk a little bit about the history
of what is our country even doing to
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:like, protect us from this and more of
like what has not been done, honestly.
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:Um.
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:As well as some practical ways to
start detoxing your space and some
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:key ingredients to be aware of so that
you can have some autonomy when you're
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:picking products and you feel confident
in spotting these ingredients and being
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:like, okay, you know, I know that if I
see that I'm, I'm not gonna buy that.
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:And you get to kind of make that
decision for yourself instead of
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:feeling like, I don't know what
these mean and I'm just gonna buy it.
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:Um, so.
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:I'm gonna share some strategies
that you can use, uh, to kind of
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:simplify this journey and not get too
overwhelmed in the process because
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:ultimately caring for our homes and for
our bodies is an act of stewardship,
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:and it shouldn't be crippling.
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:Um, I think in this wellness space,
fear mongering can be a thing and people
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:can really make you feel like, oh my
gosh, like I have to be doing this.
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:And while I think it is important.
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:For our health, just as
good nutrition is sleep.
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:It's just part of healthy think and
health and supporting our bodies.
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:So you get to take this information
and make the decision that you feel
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:is best for you and your health.
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:I like to look at it as an act of
stewardship, um, because it's caring
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:for the body that God gave me and
honoring the body that God and me.
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:And so it's an act of stewardship.
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:It's an act for ourselves and families.
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:Um, you know, if you have children
for your, your children that you were
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:entrusted with and for our homes.
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:So.
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:Let's just dive in, you guys.
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:Okay.
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:Buckle up.
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:We're jumping in.
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:Hey, I am your host, Mari Wagner,
and you're listening to The Ever Be
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:Podcast where Faith Meets Lifestyle.
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:I'm so excited you're here.
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:Whether you're a new listener
or a longtime follower, I know
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:there's something here for you.
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:Pull up a chair and listen in for
insightful, real life conversations and
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:actionable steps on how to claim the.
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:Full life God created you for.
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:If you're a woman desiring to live
a Christ-centered life in today's
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:modern world, then this is for you.
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:Welcome to ever be.
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:mari-wagner_10_05-29-2025_133629: Okay.
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:Before we get into the details, I feel
like it's important to share a bit of
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:my story and kind of how I ended up here
because it's been a journey the past.
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:Honestly like four or five years.
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:Um, so we'll just start way back in 2020.
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:What a monumental year
that affected us all.
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:Um, back then, I was a senior
in college and I was really, I.
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:Like my Instagram was kicking off, my
business was kicking off and somebody in
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:the Catholic Instagram world reached out
to me to be a beauty counter consultant.
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:Um, if you dunno what that is, it was a
claim beauty brand that was pretty big.
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:Um, it shut down last spring, I think.
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:I've heard stuff about them coming back,
but I'm not a hundred percent sure.
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:Um, and so anyways, she reached out to
me and she talked about clean beauty
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:and how empowering her role was as a.
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:Clean beauty consultant to share
about clean makeup and skincare
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:with women because it allowed them
to have products that essentially
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:wouldn't har harm their bodies,
but still made them feel beautiful.
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:In the end, I didn't end up joining
because honestly, I, I tried the
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:products myself, but um, it just
wasn't what I was looking for.
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:I didn't love them really.
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:And so I just kind of
put the products aside.
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:But the whole idea of clean
beauty still kind of intrigued me.
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:And so I hadn't really heard
about it before and that just
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:kind of like lingered in my brain.
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:And I feel like that was kind
of like my gateway, if you will,
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:to kind of start looking into
what is this whole like clean.
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:You know, clean products mean
like, what do you mean my
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:makeup is bad for me right now?
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:Like, I just had never heard that before.
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:So.
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:Soon after that, I started listening to
another creator's podcast and I noticed
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:that she was talking a lot about toxins
and clean eating and clean living, and it
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:was this whole kind of like theme popping
up again of like, wow, we've grown up not.
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:Knowing all this information about our
products, and now we're seeing the effects
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:of it, and now people are talking and
researching them, and so this information
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:is like kind of coming out more now.
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:Um, and so she was, she was talking
about all this kind of stuff and
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:I found myself intrigued again.
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:In conjunction with that.
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:She was also talking about her
fertility journey and how this was
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:all part of her journey to support
her goal of becoming a mother.
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:And at the time I wasn't even married yet.
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:I was engaged.
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:I was getting married in a couple
months, so I wasn't thinking about like,
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:oh, I'm gonna get pregnant right now.
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:And I never thought I would
have trouble getting pregnant.
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:And so the whole fertility thing
like didn't really like matter that
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:much to me at the time, but I just
found it intriguing that she was like
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:sharing about that at the same time.
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:So.
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:Honestly, I spent I think like
a year, maybe even two, just
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:absorbing this type of content,
like learning and taking it all in.
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:It just really intrigued me and
everything I was learning was factual.
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:Um, like based off evidence,
based off research, like.
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:It was real.
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:It wasn't like bogus, weird
claims that were being made.
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:It was all backed up and I watched
documentaries on it and I bought
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:guides and I like learned and I read
stuff and I listened to podcasts.
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:And even though I was like taking
in all this information, I still
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:didn't really take any action.
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:And I think I didn't because
it seemed a bit daunting and
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:intimidating to me at first, like.
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:These women I was learning from,
spoke with so much knowledge and I was
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:like, how do they know these things?
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:Like how do they know so much?
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:How did they get to learn so
much about these ingredients?
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:And they, you know, said the words like
carcinogens and endocrine disruptors
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:and phthalates and formaldehyde.
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:And I was like, what do these.
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:Words even mean like, oh my gosh, I
was so intimidated and I kind of felt
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:like if I wasn't an expert then I
like couldn't actually lean into this.
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:Um, and I think that kind of comes
from my type A, like all in type
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:of person like personality, which.
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:Can be a really great thing
sometimes, but sometimes I think
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:it can hold me back from things.
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:And so in this case, it kind of
made me approach clean living
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:with an all or nothing mindset.
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:Like, if I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna go
all in and I need to know everything and I
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:need to swap everything at the same time.
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:So.
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:That was like not a great mindset because
basically what that did was make me
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:do nothing for a year or two because I
never felt like I was an expert enough.
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:I never felt like I knew enough to
be able to know what was actually
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:good product, what was not.
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:Um, and I wanted like
the top tier product.
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:I didn't want the one that was
like greenwashed, where I was
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:like, oh, I'm trying to make a
clean living decision, and then you
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:just find out it's actually not.
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:And so I was like, I
need to know everything.
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:Finally, I just got out of that space,
and that was really until one of
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:these clean living creators shared
about how you just need to take one
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:small step to take the first step.
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:You need to swap out one thing, and
then the next, and then the next, and
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:then little by little it'll all add up.
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:But if you wait to know everything
or if you wait to know what to like,
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:what exactly to swap everything
for, then you're never gonna make.
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:The next right step.
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:And just like shopping for anything,
it takes time to kind of figure
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:out like, what brand do I like,
what works well, what doesn't?
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:Um, and so basically that was my
encouragement to be like, okay, I'm
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:gonna shed all of this like pressure
that I'm putting on myself and this like.
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:Overwhelm and intimidation, and
I'm just gonna start one by one.
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:And if it's not like the
best product, that's fine.
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:I am making an effort to do
something better for my family
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:and that's a good thing.
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:So I looked at what I had in my home
and I decided to swap out products
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:that went directly on my body and
were absorbed by my skin first.
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:My logic with that was like,
okay, these things affect my body.
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:So the ones affecting it the
most are probably the ones
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:that go on my body directly.
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:So I personally started with skincare
and makeup as those were things
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:that I was using every single day.
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:Then I moved on to body wash
and haircare because I was
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:also using that like every day.
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:Then I moved on to lotion, you know,
and then hand soap and all the things.
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:So once I realized, wow, there actually
are brands creating these products
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:in a way that won't harm me, I.
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:And they still work well.
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:Like my old toxic brands, I was
bought in because I think at first,
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:especially with my experience with
the first clean brand that I tried,
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:the first Clean beauty makeup brand
and how I didn't like how it worked.
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:I was kind of discouraged
and I was like, I.
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:These products don't really work.
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:Like the whole clean thing doesn't work.
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:The whole natural products doesn't work,
but I think it just kind of takes trying.
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:What brands work for you?
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:What brands work for your home?
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:What brands you actually
like, how they work?
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:There are several brands and you don't
have to be stuck in the mindset of
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:like, everything is bad around me and.
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:If I don't use this, you know, tide
Soap, or Cascade Soap or uh, naked
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:Palette, you know, eyeshadow palette
or Tart or whatever, then like, I'm
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:not gonna have a product to use.
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:No, that's not it.
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:Like you just find the
brand that actually works.
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:You try different brands just like you
did when you were first shopping for
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:your makeup or, um, you know, household
products, and then you find the one
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:that works for you and they'll find
you and you find the one that you like.
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:So.
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:Once I started actually trying brands
out and realizing that they can still
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:work just as well, sometimes even
better than your conventional brands.
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:I was bought in and I was like,
this can actually be easy.
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:All you need to know is a few red
flag ingredients to get started
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:and just start learning about what
brands you can actually trust.
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:So I kept going.
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:That was my motivation
and I kept learning.
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:I kept swapping.
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:Next was my laundry detergent, then
my dishwasher soap, then my dish
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:soap, then my all purpose spray, and
I tried a few different brands until I
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:found the one that I felt worked best.
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:I think I tried like three
different laundry soaps that
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:were clean and non-toxic before I
landed it on the one that I love.
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:Truly free.
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:Basically once that, I had a brand that
I love that I didn't think twice about
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:and it, it didn't stress me out anymore.
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:It didn't stress me out to be
like, oh my gosh, what can I use?
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:I just had my brand and I just reordered
usually online and continued living life
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:as usual, and now like swapping products
is not a point of overwhelm for me.
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:And another thing to note here too
is that my motivation behind all this
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:comes from just being someone that
cares about health in general, health
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:and wellness, but also this journey was
spurred on by our own fertility journey
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:and in struggling to conceive, um, in
that first year of marriage and now
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:over three years of this journey, I.
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:I wanted to learn how these toxins were
affecting my hormones and my fertility
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:specifically, and that gave me even
more motivation to actually do something
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:about it all and make changes in my life.
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:So.
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:That's kind of the groundwork.
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:That's kind of my story of how I got
into it, and if you relate to it at
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:all, I just wanna invite you to shift
your mindset about clean living.
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:This isn't about stress or perfection.
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:Okay?
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:We're gonna get that out the window.
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:It's about embracing.
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:Truly the beautiful vocation God has
given us as caretakers and stewards
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:of our homes and our bodies, of
our families, and of our children.
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:It's about having autonomy and
ownership over what products we bring
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:into our home and put on our bodies.
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:We don't have to use the
conventional big brand names that
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:have been around for forever.
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:Sure, it's more convenient, maybe because
you know the name and it's easy to grab
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:it at the store, but if you just learn.
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:Where to buy the clean products.
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:It's actually not that much
harder, and it's not that hard to
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:buy it online when you run out.
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:And if there's a couple, you know, if
there's a week or two where you're like,
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:you don't have that product and you need
to fall on the like old one, that's fine.
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:Like it's about also having grace
throughout the process and not
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:letting the stress of needing
everything to be clean, like override.
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:Your intention to just do
the next best thing for your
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:family, so, so there's that.
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:There's my story, my little pep talk.
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:Now we are gonna dive into the
specifics and talk education because
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:this is what really convinced me in
the beginning, and this is what I
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:really needed to hear to be bought in.
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:So I wanna share with you.
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:Okay, so here's a fact that shocked
me when I first started learning about
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:clean living and this is what sort of
started hooking me in this whole journey,
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:and that is that the last major federal
law that the govern that governs the
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:cosmetic and personal care industry in
e United States was passed in:
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:Yeah, lemme just repeat that.
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:The last major law that governs the
cosmetic and personal care industry, AKA.
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:The laws that protect us, make sure
that our products are safe in the
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:cosmetic and personal care industry in
e United States was passed in:
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:That means it's been over 80
years since there has been any
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:real update to how these products
are regulated for our safety.
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:So, yeah.
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:That doesn't make me feel very good
because think about how much has
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:changed in the world since 1938.
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:Like the products we have now are not the
products they used 80 years ago, and yet
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:the laws protecting what we're putting on
our skin daily have not kept up one bit.
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:So because of this, come, companies
can legally use thousands of
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:ingredients in their products.
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:Even if those ingredients are linked
to things like cancer, hormone
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:disruption, infertility, allergies,
skin irritations, uh, chronic illnesses,
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:et cetera and more, and plus the
cherry on top, they don't even have
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:to fully disclose what they're using.
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:One of the biggest loopholes
in this industry is the word.
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:Fragrance, which we'll get
into a little bit later.
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:Um, but the biggest loophole is the word
fragrance on an ingredient label, because
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:that one word can legally hide hundreds
of different chemicals, which many have
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:never been tested for long-term safety.
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:So fragrance doesn't just mean
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:What makes the product smell good,
they might be hiding a bunch of
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:other ingredients in that so that
they don't have to disclose it.
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:So that in itself, right there is a
hu was a huge motivator for me and
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:I hope is a huge motivator for you.
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:Now, here's another big one.
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:What we put on our skin doesn't
just sit on the surface.
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:Our skin is a living, breathing organ.
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:It's the largest organ in our body, and
everything we put on our skin is absorbed
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:through our skin and can enter our
bloodstream in literally like 30 seconds.
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:So yes, that lotion, that makeup,
that body wash isn't something that
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:we just lather on and then wash off.
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:It becomes part of our like
internal environment in our body.
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:And as women, we are constantly
coming into contact with stuff like
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:this because the average woman uses
about 12 personal care products every
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:day at least, which exposes her to
around 168 different chemicals daily.
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:And that exposure is.
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:Like it builds up over time.
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:So just think about that.
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:Like you don't think about that
when you're going about your day
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:and you're brushing your teeth and
laying on your foundation and you're
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:washing your hair and you're putting
lotion on, or you're using, um,
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:shaving cream or perfume or whatever like.
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:You use a lot of products every single
day, and if you just sit down and start
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:to write them out, you can see them add up
and you realize that the average is around
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:you realize.
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:How often we're exposing ourself to this.
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:So it's not about a single
product here or there.
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:Essentially it's about the layers and
the years of exposure, layer upon layer.
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:So using a certain lipstick one day
isn't gonna be much, but adding on the
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:foundation, adding on the shampoo, adding
on the hairspray, the perfume, the lotion,
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:all of it together throughout the day.
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:Day after day is what adds up and makes
an impact and negative impact in our body.
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:And what's even more disturbing is how
far behind the US is when it comes toban,
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:these kind of toxic ingredients, the
European Union has banned or restricted
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:over 1600 ingredients from cosmetics
because they've deemed them unsafe.
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:Guess how many the
United States has banned?
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:The United States has banned about 30.
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:That's literally.
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:I'm, I'm this, I'm not misspeaking.
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:It is not a typo.
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:You guys.
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:1600 versus 30.
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:Many of the harmful ingredients that
the US still legally uses in their
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:products includes red flag ingredients
that I'm about to share with you.
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:So this is one, if you haven't been
taking notes already, my goodness.
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:Take out your notepad.
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:This is gonna be a really helpful
list that I want you to write down
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:and keep somewhere so that you can
start learning about these kind of
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:ingredients and having that empowerment
and confidence and autonomy yourself.
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:So let's talk about some
of these ingredients.
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:Number one, so, so just so you know,
these are the ingredients that are still
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:legally used in products in the us.
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:Number one, parabens.
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:Parabens are preservatives that have been
linked to hormone disruption and are often
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:found in products like lotions, shampoos,
makeup, cleaning products, et cetera.
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:Next, phthalates.
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:They're commonly hidden under
the term fragrance, and they're
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:linked to reproductive issues and
hormone interference, AKA hormone
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:disruption, endocrine disruptors.
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:Next fragrance.
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:We talked about this a little bit.
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:It's a catch all term that can legally
conceal hundreds of undisclosed
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:chemicals, many of which have been
associated with allergies, hormone
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:disruption, and even cancer.
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:Next is talc.
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:This is a product that's often used in
powders like powder makeup, and it can
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:be contaminated with veto asbestos, which
is a known carcinogen, AKA causes cancer.
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:Formaldehyde releasers.
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:These are chemicals that slowly
release formaldehyde, which is a known
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:human carcinogen yet again, and it's
used usually to preserve products.
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:Next we have PPGs and pegs.
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:So PPGs, gosh, I, these are words are
that are hard to, um, pronounce, polypro.
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:Glycols, which are petroleum-based
compounds that are often used
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:to like soften skin or as
like thickeners in products.
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:They, and they have potential links
to skin irritation an organ toxicity.
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:And then pegs, polyethylene Glycols
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:they're used to create
creamy textures or as.
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:Like basically help the product enter
into your skin even more, which means
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:it can help other potentially harmful
ingredients also be absorbed more
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:deeply into your skin and your body.
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:And the other thing with pegs and PPGs.
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:Is that they can carry
carcinogenic contaminants if
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:they're not properly purified.
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:So basically they just increase your
exposure to carcinogen and other
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:harmful substances through the enhanced
absorption that they offer a product.
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:These ingredients, all the ones that
I listed, are in your shampoo, in
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:your body wash, in your toothpaste,
in your deodorant, in your makeup,
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:in your skincare, even in baby
products, which is just so messed up.
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:Um.
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:And this is what, like I feel like
our society is just not aware of.
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:We just have no, like not until now
have we really had any education
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:of these types of ingredients
and what they do in our bodies.
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:And I think that we just assume that
bodies that are, that products that
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:are being made are just good for us.
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:Especially when the marketing
is geared towards that.
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:You know, secret dove,
pantene, like it's all like.
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:Beautiful and healthy, you know,
to have healthy hair and good
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:skin and all this kind of stuff.
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:And the reality is that it, it's
not contributing to our health.
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:It's truly harming our health,
and we're seeing it now.
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:We're living in a time where
chronic illness, hormone imbalances,
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:fertility issues, they're all rising.
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:And while there are many contributing
factors, we have to start
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:acknowledging that the products
we use on our bodies every single
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:day might be part of the equation.
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:I.
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:So, let me say this,
it's, it's not about fear.
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:It's about awareness.
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:It's about having the confidence to
learn these things, to be able to
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:steward your body and your home well.
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:And that first comes with education and
awareness, which is why I'm so glad you
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:are even listening to this episode 'cause
this is an incredible step to take.
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:And as women, as mothers, as.
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:Daughters of God, we have the right
to know what's going into and onto our
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:bodies, and we deserve better than the
outdated laws and hidden ingredients
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:that we are currently experiencing.
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:And it is possible to do better,
which is, which is why we're
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:even having this conversation.
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:I know so far it's been kind of like
doomsday, but like I'm gonna teach
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:you as I have been what to look
for and how to turn it all around.
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:So I'll just leave you with this thought.
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:Basically, just because a product is on
a store shelf, it doesn't mean it's safe.
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:That's the bottom line.
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:We have to learn.
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:We have to learn to be skeptical.
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:And just because something is common
doesn't mean it's good for us.
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:And just because it's packaged
with a green and white organic
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:look, it doesn't mean it's healthy.
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:And this is basically what I've learned
over the past four years of researching
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:and learning in this, in this field.
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:So.
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:All like to say, we don't have to
live in fear, but we do have to be
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:informed and we have the right to be
informed because it's our bodies and
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:our health that is jeopardized here.
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:And I think it's, it's also just easy
to kind of hear all this and kind of
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:shut down like I did at first and just
be like, oh my gosh, it's too much.
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:Everything is bad.
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:But what I'm encouraging you to do
is just keep listening, lean in.
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:And just start learning some basic
first steps so that you can gain that
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:confidence to swap out your products.
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:I think it's also just easy to stop
at the personal care products we use,
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:because that's what goes on our body.
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:But once you've kind of conquered those,
there are also some common household
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:items that have toxic ingredients that
can be silently impacting your health.
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:So I do also wanna share what those
toxins are that we can find in our homes.
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:And why they matter, so
that you can be aware.
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:And if you feel ready to take
that step, you can start swapping
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:those things out as well.
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:okay, so first up, we've
got non-stick cookware.
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:Many of us, I think, grew up using
non-stick pans because while they're just
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:so convenient, but traditional non-stick
cookware often contains PFOA, which is
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:a chemical that's a known carcinogen and
Teflon, and when you're using them, when
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:these pans get scratched or overheated.
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:They release these toxic fumes and they
also can start scraping off that like
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:non-stick layer and you start ingesting
that and eating that with your food,
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:which can cause harm obviously to our
bodies, and they've been found to be
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:linked to cancer causing ingredients.
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:So the health impact here,
it's a carcinogen risk.
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:It's an endocrine disruptor and can even
cause a lung irritation in some people.
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:Um, which is just, I think if
you're experiencing that, that's
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:probably a more obvious symptom
that you're experiencing right away.
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:Um, so the better choice would be to
switch to stainless steel or cast iron
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:or ceramic cookware 'cause they're
safer, they're longer lasting, honestly,
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:and they still cook really well.
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:Next is plastic cutting boards.
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:A plastic cutting boards may seem
harmless, and I mean, I grew up using
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:them all the time, but now we've learned
that they can release micro microplastics
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:into your food as they get worn down.
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:So as you cut your vegetables,
your meat, all this kind of stuff,
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:the tiny plastic particles that
are coming off of the board.
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:Get mixed into your food and
can be ingested without you
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:even realizing it and over.
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:I mean, I think at first it sounds stupid.
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:It's like it's just a tiny piece of
plastic, but over time, the more you
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:use it, the more that plastic adds up.
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:And I actually saw a video on
Instagram once of somebody explaining,
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:and the average American's weekly
microplastic, um, exposure or like
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:intake was equivalent to a credit card.
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:It's like you're eating
a credit card a week.
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:Maybe it was per month.
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:I actually think it was per week.
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:Either way, that's like
extremely concerning.
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:Whether you're eating a credit card
a week or per month, you shouldn't
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:be eating a credit card at all.
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:Can we all agree on that?
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:Yes.
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:So that's why the microplastics
matter and many microplastics.
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:Many plastics in general can contain
BPA or thalates, which are endocrine
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:disruptors, um, which you don't
affect your hormone balance, and they
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:can even affect your brain health.
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:So health impact of plastic cutting
boards, hormone disruption, potential
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:neurotoxicity and microplastic ingestion.
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:So let's swap those out for wooden
cutting boards, solid wood cutting
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:boards, or stainless steel cutting
boards or glass cutting boards.
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:Um.
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:I use wooden cutting boards.
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:I think they're beautiful.
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:I, I like 'em.
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:They make me feel a lot better,
obviously, and don't shed plastics okay.
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:Next we have synthetic fragrances.
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:We are exposed to these all
the time, whether it's your air
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:fresheners, your candles, your
plugins, your cleaning products.
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:Many of these products use synthetic
fragrances, which we learned earlier is.
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:A top red flag ingredient to look for.
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:They often contain phthalates, which
are known endocrine disruptors.
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:They are linked to reproductive issues.
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:They can also emit formaldehyde, which
is a carcinogen, and it can trigger
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:respiratory problems like asthma.
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:And I think a lot of people don't even
realize these are impacting their health.
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:People complain about headaches all the
time, or allergies or asthma problems.
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:All the time, and you don't even
realize it can be linked to the
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:candles in your house or the air
freshener or the perfume you're using.
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:So the health impact here, hormone
disruption, carcinogen exposure, and
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:breathing difficulties and allergies.
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:Better choices we can use are pure
essential oils or bees, sweat candles,
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:or simmering natural ingredients on your
soap top, like simmon sticks or citrus
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:peels, or just finding non-toxic candles.
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:I love a candle just as
much as an next girl.
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:So it's about finding the brands
that are non-toxic, that are made
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:with the wax that is okay to use, and
the fragrances that are not harmful.
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:Next is laundry detergents
and dryer sheets.
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:Another super mainstream
common product we are all using
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:that actually can be harmful.
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:Many mainstream laundry detergents
and dryer sheets contain chemicals
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:that irritate the skin, the lungs,
and many fragrances in these products,
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:as we know can disrupt our hormones.
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:Plus some of the ingredients
actually have been linked to
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:neurotoxic effects, um, which can be.
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:Concerning, obviously for children
that are in a developmental stage.
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:Um, so the health impact here, obviously
skin irritation, this is common
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:for a lot of people and people just
wonder why, like, they just wonder
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:like, oh, maybe my skin's sensitive.
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:It's like, well, yeah, your skin
is sensitive to harsh products
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:that are harsh ingredients that
are used in the laundry detergents.
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:So health impact, skin irritation,
respiratory issues, hormone disruption.
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:Better choice all around is to opt for
a natural non-toxic laundry detergent.
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:Um, there are some that you
can still get that smell great.
581
:Most of them are fragrance free,
which is super safe as well.
582
:Um, and I mean, at the end of this
episode, I'll give you the information of
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:where I like to buy all these different
types of products so that you know
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:exactly where to shop from, but basically.
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:Throw away your tide is,
is the conclusion here.
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:Next we have conventional
cleaning products.
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:I think this is also an important
one to add 'cause these are products
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:we use every day in our home.
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:Like all purpose cleaners, disinfectants,
you know, bleach, uh, dishwasher,
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:soap, all that kind of stuff.
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:They all contain harsh chemicals
that can cause asthma, irritation,
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:disrupting hormones and disrupting
your reproductive health over
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:time, disrupting your gut lining.
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:Um.
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:Just not great effects.
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:Um, there's a study that recently
came out, actually, I don't know what
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:date it was, but I found out about
it recently where your traditional,
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:like conventional, um, dish washer
soap can actually cause holes, like
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:burn holes through your gut lining.
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:Um, and I just know so many people that
struggle with gut issues, leaky gut,
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:and I'm not saying this is the sole,
like perpetrator, but if we all use.
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:Conventional dish soap and studies are
showing that it's causing this, these
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:like burning holes in your stomach or
can do that, then I mean, there's a
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:correlation there, you know, and we just
don't realize it because these are things
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:that are not being pointed to, or they
haven't been pointed to in the past.
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:And so we just think that these
symptoms are normal or it's always
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:just was just born that way, or this
is just my problem, but actually
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:our products are affecting that.
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:So.
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:Better choices to use here
are trusted brands that use
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:ingredients that are not harmful.
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:Um, I like truly freeze,
I like branch basics.
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:Okay.
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:That was a lot.
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:I know this can feel overwhelming
and I don't wanna add more because
616
:I know I've already like thrown
so much information at you, which
617
:you might be super pumped about.
618
:And if you are, then you are
like me because I like learning
619
:about all this kind of stuff.
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:Um, but here's the good news.
621
:Even though this can feel like a lot,
the good news is that detoxing your
622
:home doesn't have to happen all at once.
623
:Just like I said before, starting with
small, doable swaps is what is going
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:to actually help you make progress.
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:And you also have to think about what
fits your budget and what fits your life.
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:Style.
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:I know that clean products can be
priced higher than your conventional
628
:products, and we intentionally like moved
things around in our budget so we could
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:prioritize the, like, cleanest type of
food that we can and the cleanest type
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:of in of, uh, household products and
personal care products that we could.
631
:So for us, it was important
enough and a priority enough to
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:move things around in our budget.
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:Um.
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:So start with small, doable swaps
and things that we talked about
635
:are swapping out your non-stick pan
for cast iron or stainless steel.
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:Replacing one cleaning product at
a time with a better alternative.
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:I would start with your laundry detergent
first and then your dishwasher soap.
638
:Um, make sure that you're avoiding
things that have fragrance in it and
639
:parabens pegs, PPGs, um, phthalates.
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:Swap out your shampoo or makeup or
skincare, or just start thinking
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:about the things that go on your body.
642
:If you are somebody that washes your
face every day, you're like, okay,
643
:let me look for a non-toxic face wash.
644
:If you like to wear makeup every day,
let me find a non-toxic foundation.
645
:Um, or a non-toxic shampoo or
non-toxic lotion, all that kind of
646
:stuff that you put on your body.
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:Start.
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:Start one by one and
start swapping those out.
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:And in the end, just
remember, it's about progress.
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:One step at a time, not perfection.
651
:And the reality is we're never gonna
be perfect, and it's impossible
652
:to live a fully non-toxic life.
653
:And that's not the goal.
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:The goal is to lower our toxin
burdens to support our body's
655
:health and hormones and fertility.
656
:It's not about eliminating.
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:Everything that could harm us because
we live in a fallen world and we will
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:not be perfect until we get to heaven.
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:So each step is just taking a step in the
right direction and just doing something
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:good for you and your family's health.
661
:And just remember that in caring
for the temple that God gave us our
662
:bodies, we participate in his work.
663
:Of loving and healing our bodies and every
small act, every choice we make to make a
664
:healthier home and avoid toxins is a way
of saying thank you Lord for this body.
665
:Thank you Lord for this life.
666
:Thank you Lord for these precious
children that you've entrusted to me.
667
:Um, I'm gonna do my best
to steward them well.
668
:And I just wanna give a caveat here
too, if this is something you're
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:not doing, it doesn't make you a bad
Christian, so don't take what I just
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:said as a, as a way of being like,
oh wow, if I'm not leaning into clean
671
:living, then I'm a bad Christian.
672
:No.
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:It's just a way that we can steward
our bodies well and honor the
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:gift of our life and our bodies.
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:And I mean.
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:I would argue it's a really good
thing to do as a Christian, and I
677
:think it makes all the more sense
to do as a Christian because we
678
:care about caring for our bodies.
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:But if you don't, it doesn't
mean you're a bad Christian.
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:The other thing to say, 'cause I feel
like you have to say this whenever you
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:give advice like this, is that none
of this is medical advice, and I'm not
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:liable for any of your personal choices.
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:If you have any questions or doubts,
you can contact your provider
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:and make decisions yourself.
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:Okay.
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:I've given you a lot and you
may be ready to like start
687
:taking steps and taking actions.
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:So if you're feeling inspired, but maybe
you're not sure exactly where to start,
689
:I wanna invite you to check out a few
resources that I have on my website.
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:I have a Red Flag ingredients
label guide that lists ingredients
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:to watch for that you could just
have as a little cheat sheet.
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:I have a toxic swaps guide that helps
you start to swap your first five swaps.
693
:And then I have some brand new
clean guides that just dropped.
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:So all these things I'm gonna link
in the show note just in case you
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:wanna find 'em on Instagram as well.
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:I believe that if you DM me or if
you reply to my story with the word
697
:guide, then you'll be able to get my
Clean Living Guides that just dropped.
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:I wait to tell you guys about these.
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:I just launched these this
week and they are incredible.
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:I have teamed up with my friend Kris
and Mama to blend her expertise,
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:HOK and Clean living with my passion
for space and as well as my passion
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:for Christ Christ-centered Living.
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:To bring you these guides.
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:'cause like I said, I feel like
this is a part of how I am looking
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:at clean living as stewardship.
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:I think it's, it's part of my
Christ-centered living journey.
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:And I think that as Christians, like
we should be honoring our bodies in our
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:homes and, um, our families as as we can.
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:And so, like I said, with more
knowledge, we can make better choices.
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:Um, and together, Kirsten and I
have literally like nine years
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:of experience in researching and
learning, um, what brands are actually.
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:Good for you.
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:What brands are not, what
brands are greenwashing.
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:Basically these guides are
here to help you do this.
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:And if you wanna hear more
from Christian, you can go back
716
:to episode 20 of my podcast.
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:We recorded an episode called
Small Steps to Living Toxin Free.
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:So another great episode to start
with that we'll teach you even more,
719
:um, shield because she struggled with
a really difficult and for years.
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:Um, she tried to figure out what's
going on and through clean living and
721
:lifestyle changes, she was actually
able to be healed from her illness and
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:she has not had a flare up in years.
723
:Um, and she attested to really clearing
her home, her body and lifestyle
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:free of toxins, which is crazy.
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:Just how much that can affect
us and our immune systems, um,
726
:and cause inflammation and such.
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:She has these guides and she collaborated
with me to bring them to my audience.
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:I added content to them each to kind
of add this Christ-centered lens to
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:approach clean living in these three
different areas of the guides, which is
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:a home guide, a uh, clean beauty guide,
which is just for like personal care
731
:products and then a baby registry guide.
732
:Um, so building a toxin
free baby registry.
733
:And these guides are packed with
information and they will view.
734
:After years of research, I'm telling
you they teach you what ingredients to
735
:avoid, what to look for, and what actual
product recommendations with actual links
736
:and brand discount, um, for every single
product category that you can imagine.
737
:There's all of that in the three guides.
738
:Um, like I said, there's a clean home
one, a clean beauty and clean baby.
739
:So clean home is your guide to
creating and non talk in your home,
740
:so you learn to identify what kind
of materials or toxins can commonly
741
:be for and how to avoid them.
742
:has over 80 categories of toxin-free
items recommendations for your kitchen,
743
:your living room, your bathroom, your
bedroom, your technology, um, and so
744
:much more, which is super helpful.
745
:Uh, next we have the Clean Beauty,
and this guide is to help you
746
:choose personal care products.
747
:So you'll find the breakdown for
what ingredients to avoid again,
748
:Plus product recommendations to
help you choose products that are
749
:actually safe and actually work.
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:'cause I think that's the key here.
751
:So that you can build a safe personal
care routine, a daily beauty routine that
752
:you can actually trust, feel good about.
753
:And then we have the Clean Baby
Guide, and this is the Ultimate
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:Guide to Toxin Free Baby Registry.
755
:So you can learn how to choose products
that protect your little wealth.
756
:It's laid out in a way that you can
easily make your baby registry based
757
:off the way that it's laid out.
758
:Um, so I know Mamas will love this one.
759
:We're recreating their registries,
um, so they can still get all those
760
:incredible products that you need
for when baby comes, but they're
761
:actually clean and safe for your baby.
762
:And these are collaborative guides, so
they are one of Organ Mama's guides.
763
:Uh, we just brought them together
to bring 'em to immunity.
764
:And I added that faith-based
content at the beginning.
765
:For example, the baby one has
prayers for your pregnancy and
766
:Patron Saints of expectant mothers
for you to ask their intercession
767
:for throughout your pregnancy.
768
:Um, for the home guide, there are
scripture verses to pray over your home.
769
:And for the Clean Beauty Guide, I
believe it's, um, a couple pages
770
:of content of just my perspective
of looking at clean living through
771
:those of a Christ-centered life.
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:They're incredible.
773
:I swear you guys, these are the
guides that I literally wish I had
774
:in the beginning and they would be
years of research and experience.
775
:Um, and they're for you.
776
:Like clearly, if you're still listening,
that means that these guides are for you.
777
:Um, so I'm just really proud of you for
pressing on, for wanting to learn more,
778
:for wanting to educate yourself and just
for being here and hearing this all out.
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:So make sure you check out the website,
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:marie wagner.co/clean-living,
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:that was kind of like the main clean
living landing page where you check
782
:'em all out and then you can click
into each one individually to learn
783
:more about each individual guy.
784
:Um, but the best thing is that there
is an incredible bundle deal where
785
:you can get three for the price of.
786
:So honestly, interested in multiple,
I get the bundle deal because like.
787
:Why would you just buy one when you can
get literally three for the price of two?
788
:So that's, that's all I have about that.
789
:Um, if you feel like this episode
had helped you and encouraged you.
790
:Please leave a review and please
share with them until you feel
791
:like, Ooh, they need to know this,
they need to learn more about this.
792
:Or if your husband is like not on board
with your clean living choices and
793
:you're like, oh my gosh, babe, just
like get with the pro this episode.
794
:Like maybe he just some factual
information to kind of like,
795
:be convinced men are logical
creatures, so send this to him.
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:Um, but all in all, I hope it will.
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:And I know it was a little bit of a
long one of me just talking at you about
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:this kind of really nerdy topic, so.
799
:Thanks for listening.
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:Hope you enjoyed.
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:Hope it was helpful.
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:And until next time you guys,
God bless you and your homes.
803
:Bye.