Episode 62

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1st Jun 2025

62: If You're Not Convinced About Non-Toxic Living This One's For You

Mari shares her knowledge and journey of learning about the hidden toxins in everyday products and the drastic impacts they can have. Mari discusses actionable steps to lower your toxin burden, from household items to personal care products, and emphasizes the importance of making smart product choices. Learn about the outdated regulations governing the cosmetic and personal care industries, common harmful ingredients, and practical tips for transitioning to cleaner alternatives. Mari also shares her personal journey and how clean living can be an act of stewardship. Tune in for a comprehensive guide to creating a healthier, toxin-free environment for you and your family.

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Transcript
Speaker:

Hey friends.

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Welcome back today.

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I'm here because we are full force diving

into one of my favorite topics right now.

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We are gonna talk all about toxins,

where you can spot them in your

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home, how you can lower your

toxin burden by leaning into clean

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living because this is important.

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And this is just gonna be a different

kind of episode that I've done

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in the past about clean living.

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I feel like in the past I've really

taken a, like first steps approach, which

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you'll still get here, but I am gonna

give you all the education here that

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I feel like I haven't fully dive in.

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Dive in.

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How do, how do you even say that Dove?

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That I feel like I haven't fully dove

into in the past, um, that I feel like

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I learned in the beginning steps of my

journey that really convicted me because.

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You need to know why

this is important, right?

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It's not just a trend.

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And at this point in time, I feel like

we spend a lot of time in our homes and

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we have a lot of products that we use.

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And I think in our consumeristic

culture in America, we are constantly

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pumped with advertising of what

products to have in your home.

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And so we're using more products now

than ever, I feel like that we ever have.

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And I.

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You're constantly being told what beauty

products to use, what to do on your

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hair, what to have in, what products

to use in your kitchen, or for cleaning

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or for your yard or whatever it is.

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We have so many products that are

marketed to us all the time, but what

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is never actually revealed to us in this

advertising and marketing is what is.

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In those products and how they were made

and how those ingredients could actually

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over time, quietly harm our health.

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And so we're starting to see

the effects of this today, which

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is why I think this movement is

gaining more and more traction.

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Um, and it's honestly, I think, a

really good thing and amazing that

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we're getting more information so we

can make better informed decisions.

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And so.

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I think the reason like it's gaining so

much traction right now is because we're

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seeing a lot of the effects of it today,

which that part is not amazing, and we

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see it with increased chronic illnesses.

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People are dealing with it everywhere,

increased inflammation, digestive and

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gut problems, hormone imbalances like

crazy, and women struggling with their

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cycle and their fertility and cancer

rates rising and toxins in our products

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is the only culprit of all things.

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Like we have a lot of work to do in

our, like health culture in America

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and food quality and all those things,

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but we are more exposed to toxins in our

products because of the regulations, the

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poor regulations that our country has.

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So I think it's important to talk about,

um, and I know that we are an all time

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high in some of these, uh, levels, like

infertility levels in cancer rates and

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all that kind of stuff in our country.

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And obviously that's really

just really not good.

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Um, and the fertility stuff

is really close to my heart.

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So I think it's important to talk

about, and today I just wanna talk,

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especially I think to the people, um,

obviously that are already serious

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about this journey and wanna learn

more, but especially I wanna talk to the

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people that are more skeptical of this.

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Like, maybe you're still not sure why

it's such a big deal, or you think it's

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all kind of bogus, or you think clean

living is a trend or maybe it's extreme.

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Um, because I think that.

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You know, I, I, I've been in a place

like that before where I think I was,

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I had healthy skepticism, um, which

is still good to have because I think

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that I, there was a time when I felt

like that too, where I'm like, uh,

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is this, like, I'm kind of skeptical

of like, what is going on here?

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Like, how come everything is bad?

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But I honestly think if you're coming

from that place as I was in the past,

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it comes from a lack of information.

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Um, and I think more information helps

us make better informed decisions.

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So hopefully this episode's gonna

give you so much information to

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help you make better decisions.

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Um, and you know, I get it.

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Like there were times in the

past where I thought, you know,

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this is a little too much.

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I don't know if this is true.

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And it actually just took me diving into

the education to change my mind to read.

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The studies to see the numbers, to

like actually learn what the names

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of ingredients are and what they do.

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Um, so that's what we're

gonna dive in today.

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Today we're gonna talk about common

hidden toxins in our homes, we're gonna

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talk a little bit about the history

of what is our country even doing to

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like, protect us from this and more of

like what has not been done, honestly.

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Um.

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As well as some practical ways to

start detoxing your space and some

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key ingredients to be aware of so that

you can have some autonomy when you're

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picking products and you feel confident

in spotting these ingredients and being

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like, okay, you know, I know that if I

see that I'm, I'm not gonna buy that.

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And you get to kind of make that

decision for yourself instead of

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feeling like, I don't know what

these mean and I'm just gonna buy it.

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Um, so.

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I'm gonna share some strategies

that you can use, uh, to kind of

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simplify this journey and not get too

overwhelmed in the process because

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ultimately caring for our homes and for

our bodies is an act of stewardship,

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and it shouldn't be crippling.

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Um, I think in this wellness space,

fear mongering can be a thing and people

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can really make you feel like, oh my

gosh, like I have to be doing this.

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And while I think it is important.

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For our health, just as

good nutrition is sleep.

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It's just part of healthy think and

health and supporting our bodies.

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So you get to take this information

and make the decision that you feel

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is best for you and your health.

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I like to look at it as an act of

stewardship, um, because it's caring

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for the body that God gave me and

honoring the body that God and me.

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And so it's an act of stewardship.

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It's an act for ourselves and families.

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Um, you know, if you have children

for your, your children that you were

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entrusted with and for our homes.

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So.

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Let's just dive in, you guys.

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Okay.

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Buckle up.

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We're jumping in.

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Hey, I am your host, Mari Wagner,

and you're listening to The Ever Be

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Podcast where Faith Meets Lifestyle.

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I'm so excited you're here.

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Whether you're a new listener

or a longtime follower, I know

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there's something here for you.

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Pull up a chair and listen in for

insightful, real life conversations and

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actionable steps on how to claim the.

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Full life God created you for.

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If you're a woman desiring to live

a Christ-centered life in today's

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modern world, then this is for you.

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Welcome to ever be.

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mari-wagner_10_05-29-2025_133629: Okay.

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Before we get into the details, I feel

like it's important to share a bit of

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my story and kind of how I ended up here

because it's been a journey the past.

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Honestly like four or five years.

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Um, so we'll just start way back in 2020.

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What a monumental year

that affected us all.

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Um, back then, I was a senior

in college and I was really, I.

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Like my Instagram was kicking off, my

business was kicking off and somebody in

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the Catholic Instagram world reached out

to me to be a beauty counter consultant.

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Um, if you dunno what that is, it was a

claim beauty brand that was pretty big.

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Um, it shut down last spring, I think.

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I've heard stuff about them coming back,

but I'm not a hundred percent sure.

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Um, and so anyways, she reached out to

me and she talked about clean beauty

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and how empowering her role was as a.

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Clean beauty consultant to share

about clean makeup and skincare

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with women because it allowed them

to have products that essentially

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wouldn't har harm their bodies,

but still made them feel beautiful.

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In the end, I didn't end up joining

because honestly, I, I tried the

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products myself, but um, it just

wasn't what I was looking for.

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I didn't love them really.

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And so I just kind of

put the products aside.

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But the whole idea of clean

beauty still kind of intrigued me.

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And so I hadn't really heard

about it before and that just

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kind of like lingered in my brain.

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And I feel like that was kind

of like my gateway, if you will,

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to kind of start looking into

what is this whole like clean.

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You know, clean products mean

like, what do you mean my

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makeup is bad for me right now?

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Like, I just had never heard that before.

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So.

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Soon after that, I started listening to

another creator's podcast and I noticed

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that she was talking a lot about toxins

and clean eating and clean living, and it

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was this whole kind of like theme popping

up again of like, wow, we've grown up not.

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Knowing all this information about our

products, and now we're seeing the effects

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of it, and now people are talking and

researching them, and so this information

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is like kind of coming out more now.

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Um, and so she was, she was talking

about all this kind of stuff and

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I found myself intrigued again.

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In conjunction with that.

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She was also talking about her

fertility journey and how this was

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all part of her journey to support

her goal of becoming a mother.

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And at the time I wasn't even married yet.

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I was engaged.

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I was getting married in a couple

months, so I wasn't thinking about like,

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oh, I'm gonna get pregnant right now.

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And I never thought I would

have trouble getting pregnant.

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And so the whole fertility thing

like didn't really like matter that

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much to me at the time, but I just

found it intriguing that she was like

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sharing about that at the same time.

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So.

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Honestly, I spent I think like

a year, maybe even two, just

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absorbing this type of content,

like learning and taking it all in.

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It just really intrigued me and

everything I was learning was factual.

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Um, like based off evidence,

based off research, like.

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It was real.

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It wasn't like bogus, weird

claims that were being made.

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It was all backed up and I watched

documentaries on it and I bought

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guides and I like learned and I read

stuff and I listened to podcasts.

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And even though I was like taking

in all this information, I still

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didn't really take any action.

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And I think I didn't because

it seemed a bit daunting and

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intimidating to me at first, like.

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These women I was learning from,

spoke with so much knowledge and I was

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like, how do they know these things?

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Like how do they know so much?

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How did they get to learn so

much about these ingredients?

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And they, you know, said the words like

carcinogens and endocrine disruptors

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and phthalates and formaldehyde.

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And I was like, what do these.

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Words even mean like, oh my gosh, I

was so intimidated and I kind of felt

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like if I wasn't an expert then I

like couldn't actually lean into this.

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Um, and I think that kind of comes

from my type A, like all in type

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of person like personality, which.

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Can be a really great thing

sometimes, but sometimes I think

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it can hold me back from things.

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And so in this case, it kind of

made me approach clean living

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with an all or nothing mindset.

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Like, if I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna go

all in and I need to know everything and I

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need to swap everything at the same time.

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So.

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That was like not a great mindset because

basically what that did was make me

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do nothing for a year or two because I

never felt like I was an expert enough.

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I never felt like I knew enough to

be able to know what was actually

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good product, what was not.

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Um, and I wanted like

the top tier product.

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I didn't want the one that was

like greenwashed, where I was

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like, oh, I'm trying to make a

clean living decision, and then you

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just find out it's actually not.

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And so I was like, I

need to know everything.

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Finally, I just got out of that space,

and that was really until one of

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these clean living creators shared

about how you just need to take one

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small step to take the first step.

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You need to swap out one thing, and

then the next, and then the next, and

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then little by little it'll all add up.

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But if you wait to know everything

or if you wait to know what to like,

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what exactly to swap everything

for, then you're never gonna make.

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The next right step.

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And just like shopping for anything,

it takes time to kind of figure

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out like, what brand do I like,

what works well, what doesn't?

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Um, and so basically that was my

encouragement to be like, okay, I'm

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gonna shed all of this like pressure

that I'm putting on myself and this like.

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Overwhelm and intimidation, and

I'm just gonna start one by one.

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And if it's not like the

best product, that's fine.

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I am making an effort to do

something better for my family

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and that's a good thing.

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So I looked at what I had in my home

and I decided to swap out products

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that went directly on my body and

were absorbed by my skin first.

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My logic with that was like,

okay, these things affect my body.

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So the ones affecting it the

most are probably the ones

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that go on my body directly.

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So I personally started with skincare

and makeup as those were things

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that I was using every single day.

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Then I moved on to body wash

and haircare because I was

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also using that like every day.

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Then I moved on to lotion, you know,

and then hand soap and all the things.

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So once I realized, wow, there actually

are brands creating these products

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in a way that won't harm me, I.

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And they still work well.

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Like my old toxic brands, I was

bought in because I think at first,

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especially with my experience with

the first clean brand that I tried,

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the first Clean beauty makeup brand

and how I didn't like how it worked.

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I was kind of discouraged

and I was like, I.

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These products don't really work.

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Like the whole clean thing doesn't work.

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The whole natural products doesn't work,

but I think it just kind of takes trying.

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What brands work for you?

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What brands work for your home?

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What brands you actually

like, how they work?

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There are several brands and you don't

have to be stuck in the mindset of

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like, everything is bad around me and.

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If I don't use this, you know, tide

Soap, or Cascade Soap or uh, naked

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Palette, you know, eyeshadow palette

or Tart or whatever, then like, I'm

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not gonna have a product to use.

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No, that's not it.

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Like you just find the

brand that actually works.

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You try different brands just like you

did when you were first shopping for

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your makeup or, um, you know, household

products, and then you find the one

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that works for you and they'll find

you and you find the one that you like.

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So.

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Once I started actually trying brands

out and realizing that they can still

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work just as well, sometimes even

better than your conventional brands.

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I was bought in and I was like,

this can actually be easy.

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All you need to know is a few red

flag ingredients to get started

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and just start learning about what

brands you can actually trust.

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So I kept going.

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That was my motivation

and I kept learning.

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I kept swapping.

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Next was my laundry detergent, then

my dishwasher soap, then my dish

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soap, then my all purpose spray, and

I tried a few different brands until I

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found the one that I felt worked best.

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I think I tried like three

different laundry soaps that

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were clean and non-toxic before I

landed it on the one that I love.

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Truly free.

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Basically once that, I had a brand that

I love that I didn't think twice about

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and it, it didn't stress me out anymore.

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It didn't stress me out to be

like, oh my gosh, what can I use?

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I just had my brand and I just reordered

usually online and continued living life

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as usual, and now like swapping products

is not a point of overwhelm for me.

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And another thing to note here too

is that my motivation behind all this

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comes from just being someone that

cares about health in general, health

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and wellness, but also this journey was

spurred on by our own fertility journey

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and in struggling to conceive, um, in

that first year of marriage and now

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over three years of this journey, I.

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I wanted to learn how these toxins were

affecting my hormones and my fertility

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specifically, and that gave me even

more motivation to actually do something

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about it all and make changes in my life.

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So.

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That's kind of the groundwork.

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That's kind of my story of how I got

into it, and if you relate to it at

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all, I just wanna invite you to shift

your mindset about clean living.

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This isn't about stress or perfection.

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Okay?

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We're gonna get that out the window.

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It's about embracing.

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Truly the beautiful vocation God has

given us as caretakers and stewards

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of our homes and our bodies, of

our families, and of our children.

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It's about having autonomy and

ownership over what products we bring

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into our home and put on our bodies.

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We don't have to use the

conventional big brand names that

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have been around for forever.

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Sure, it's more convenient, maybe because

you know the name and it's easy to grab

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it at the store, but if you just learn.

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Where to buy the clean products.

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It's actually not that much

harder, and it's not that hard to

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buy it online when you run out.

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And if there's a couple, you know, if

there's a week or two where you're like,

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you don't have that product and you need

to fall on the like old one, that's fine.

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Like it's about also having grace

throughout the process and not

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letting the stress of needing

everything to be clean, like override.

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Your intention to just do

the next best thing for your

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family, so, so there's that.

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There's my story, my little pep talk.

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Now we are gonna dive into the

specifics and talk education because

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this is what really convinced me in

the beginning, and this is what I

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really needed to hear to be bought in.

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So I wanna share with you.

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Okay, so here's a fact that shocked

me when I first started learning about

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clean living and this is what sort of

started hooking me in this whole journey,

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and that is that the last major federal

law that the govern that governs the

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cosmetic and personal care industry in

e United States was passed in:

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Yeah, lemme just repeat that.

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The last major law that governs the

cosmetic and personal care industry, AKA.

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The laws that protect us, make sure

that our products are safe in the

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cosmetic and personal care industry in

e United States was passed in:

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That means it's been over 80

years since there has been any

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real update to how these products

are regulated for our safety.

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So, yeah.

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That doesn't make me feel very good

because think about how much has

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changed in the world since 1938.

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Like the products we have now are not the

products they used 80 years ago, and yet

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the laws protecting what we're putting on

our skin daily have not kept up one bit.

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So because of this, come, companies

can legally use thousands of

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ingredients in their products.

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Even if those ingredients are linked

to things like cancer, hormone

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disruption, infertility, allergies,

skin irritations, uh, chronic illnesses,

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et cetera and more, and plus the

cherry on top, they don't even have

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to fully disclose what they're using.

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One of the biggest loopholes

in this industry is the word.

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Fragrance, which we'll get

into a little bit later.

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Um, but the biggest loophole is the word

fragrance on an ingredient label, because

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that one word can legally hide hundreds

of different chemicals, which many have

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never been tested for long-term safety.

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So fragrance doesn't just mean

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What makes the product smell good,

they might be hiding a bunch of

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other ingredients in that so that

they don't have to disclose it.

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So that in itself, right there is a

hu was a huge motivator for me and

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I hope is a huge motivator for you.

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Now, here's another big one.

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What we put on our skin doesn't

just sit on the surface.

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Our skin is a living, breathing organ.

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It's the largest organ in our body, and

everything we put on our skin is absorbed

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through our skin and can enter our

bloodstream in literally like 30 seconds.

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So yes, that lotion, that makeup,

that body wash isn't something that

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we just lather on and then wash off.

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It becomes part of our like

internal environment in our body.

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And as women, we are constantly

coming into contact with stuff like

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this because the average woman uses

about 12 personal care products every

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day at least, which exposes her to

around 168 different chemicals daily.

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And that exposure is.

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Like it builds up over time.

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So just think about that.

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Like you don't think about that

when you're going about your day

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and you're brushing your teeth and

laying on your foundation and you're

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washing your hair and you're putting

lotion on, or you're using, um,

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shaving cream or perfume or whatever like.

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You use a lot of products every single

day, and if you just sit down and start

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to write them out, you can see them add up

and you realize that the average is around

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you realize.

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How often we're exposing ourself to this.

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So it's not about a single

product here or there.

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Essentially it's about the layers and

the years of exposure, layer upon layer.

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So using a certain lipstick one day

isn't gonna be much, but adding on the

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foundation, adding on the shampoo, adding

on the hairspray, the perfume, the lotion,

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all of it together throughout the day.

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Day after day is what adds up and makes

an impact and negative impact in our body.

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And what's even more disturbing is how

far behind the US is when it comes toban,

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these kind of toxic ingredients, the

European Union has banned or restricted

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over 1600 ingredients from cosmetics

because they've deemed them unsafe.

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Guess how many the

United States has banned?

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The United States has banned about 30.

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That's literally.

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I'm, I'm this, I'm not misspeaking.

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It is not a typo.

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You guys.

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1600 versus 30.

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Many of the harmful ingredients that

the US still legally uses in their

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products includes red flag ingredients

that I'm about to share with you.

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So this is one, if you haven't been

taking notes already, my goodness.

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Take out your notepad.

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This is gonna be a really helpful

list that I want you to write down

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and keep somewhere so that you can

start learning about these kind of

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ingredients and having that empowerment

and confidence and autonomy yourself.

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So let's talk about some

of these ingredients.

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Number one, so, so just so you know,

these are the ingredients that are still

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legally used in products in the us.

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Number one, parabens.

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Parabens are preservatives that have been

linked to hormone disruption and are often

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found in products like lotions, shampoos,

makeup, cleaning products, et cetera.

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Next, phthalates.

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They're commonly hidden under

the term fragrance, and they're

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linked to reproductive issues and

hormone interference, AKA hormone

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disruption, endocrine disruptors.

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Next fragrance.

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We talked about this a little bit.

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It's a catch all term that can legally

conceal hundreds of undisclosed

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chemicals, many of which have been

associated with allergies, hormone

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disruption, and even cancer.

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Next is talc.

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This is a product that's often used in

powders like powder makeup, and it can

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be contaminated with veto asbestos, which

is a known carcinogen, AKA causes cancer.

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Formaldehyde releasers.

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These are chemicals that slowly

release formaldehyde, which is a known

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human carcinogen yet again, and it's

used usually to preserve products.

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Next we have PPGs and pegs.

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So PPGs, gosh, I, these are words are

that are hard to, um, pronounce, polypro.

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Glycols, which are petroleum-based

compounds that are often used

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to like soften skin or as

like thickeners in products.

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They, and they have potential links

to skin irritation an organ toxicity.

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And then pegs, polyethylene Glycols

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they're used to create

creamy textures or as.

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Like basically help the product enter

into your skin even more, which means

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it can help other potentially harmful

ingredients also be absorbed more

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deeply into your skin and your body.

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And the other thing with pegs and PPGs.

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Is that they can carry

carcinogenic contaminants if

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they're not properly purified.

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So basically they just increase your

exposure to carcinogen and other

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harmful substances through the enhanced

absorption that they offer a product.

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These ingredients, all the ones that

I listed, are in your shampoo, in

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your body wash, in your toothpaste,

in your deodorant, in your makeup,

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in your skincare, even in baby

products, which is just so messed up.

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And this is what, like I feel like

our society is just not aware of.

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We just have no, like not until now

have we really had any education

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of these types of ingredients

and what they do in our bodies.

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And I think that we just assume that

bodies that are, that products that

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are being made are just good for us.

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Especially when the marketing

is geared towards that.

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You know, secret dove,

pantene, like it's all like.

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Beautiful and healthy, you know,

to have healthy hair and good

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skin and all this kind of stuff.

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And the reality is that it, it's

not contributing to our health.

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It's truly harming our health,

and we're seeing it now.

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We're living in a time where

chronic illness, hormone imbalances,

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fertility issues, they're all rising.

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And while there are many contributing

factors, we have to start

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acknowledging that the products

we use on our bodies every single

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day might be part of the equation.

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I.

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So, let me say this,

it's, it's not about fear.

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It's about awareness.

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It's about having the confidence to

learn these things, to be able to

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steward your body and your home well.

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And that first comes with education and

awareness, which is why I'm so glad you

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are even listening to this episode 'cause

this is an incredible step to take.

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And as women, as mothers, as.

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Daughters of God, we have the right

to know what's going into and onto our

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bodies, and we deserve better than the

outdated laws and hidden ingredients

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that we are currently experiencing.

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And it is possible to do better,

which is, which is why we're

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even having this conversation.

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I know so far it's been kind of like

doomsday, but like I'm gonna teach

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you as I have been what to look

for and how to turn it all around.

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So I'll just leave you with this thought.

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Basically, just because a product is on

a store shelf, it doesn't mean it's safe.

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That's the bottom line.

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We have to learn.

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We have to learn to be skeptical.

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And just because something is common

doesn't mean it's good for us.

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And just because it's packaged

with a green and white organic

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look, it doesn't mean it's healthy.

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And this is basically what I've learned

over the past four years of researching

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and learning in this, in this field.

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So.

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All like to say, we don't have to

live in fear, but we do have to be

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informed and we have the right to be

informed because it's our bodies and

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our health that is jeopardized here.

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And I think it's, it's also just easy

to kind of hear all this and kind of

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shut down like I did at first and just

be like, oh my gosh, it's too much.

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Everything is bad.

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But what I'm encouraging you to do

is just keep listening, lean in.

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And just start learning some basic

first steps so that you can gain that

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confidence to swap out your products.

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I think it's also just easy to stop

at the personal care products we use,

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because that's what goes on our body.

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But once you've kind of conquered those,

there are also some common household

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items that have toxic ingredients that

can be silently impacting your health.

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So I do also wanna share what those

toxins are that we can find in our homes.

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And why they matter, so

that you can be aware.

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And if you feel ready to take

that step, you can start swapping

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those things out as well.

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okay, so first up, we've

got non-stick cookware.

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Many of us, I think, grew up using

non-stick pans because while they're just

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so convenient, but traditional non-stick

cookware often contains PFOA, which is

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a chemical that's a known carcinogen and

Teflon, and when you're using them, when

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these pans get scratched or overheated.

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They release these toxic fumes and they

also can start scraping off that like

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non-stick layer and you start ingesting

that and eating that with your food,

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which can cause harm obviously to our

bodies, and they've been found to be

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linked to cancer causing ingredients.

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So the health impact here,

it's a carcinogen risk.

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It's an endocrine disruptor and can even

cause a lung irritation in some people.

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Um, which is just, I think if

you're experiencing that, that's

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probably a more obvious symptom

that you're experiencing right away.

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Um, so the better choice would be to

switch to stainless steel or cast iron

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or ceramic cookware 'cause they're

safer, they're longer lasting, honestly,

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and they still cook really well.

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Next is plastic cutting boards.

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A plastic cutting boards may seem

harmless, and I mean, I grew up using

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them all the time, but now we've learned

that they can release micro microplastics

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into your food as they get worn down.

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So as you cut your vegetables,

your meat, all this kind of stuff,

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the tiny plastic particles that

are coming off of the board.

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Get mixed into your food and

can be ingested without you

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even realizing it and over.

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I mean, I think at first it sounds stupid.

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It's like it's just a tiny piece of

plastic, but over time, the more you

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use it, the more that plastic adds up.

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And I actually saw a video on

Instagram once of somebody explaining,

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and the average American's weekly

microplastic, um, exposure or like

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intake was equivalent to a credit card.

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It's like you're eating

a credit card a week.

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Maybe it was per month.

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I actually think it was per week.

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Either way, that's like

extremely concerning.

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Whether you're eating a credit card

a week or per month, you shouldn't

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be eating a credit card at all.

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Can we all agree on that?

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Yes.

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So that's why the microplastics

matter and many microplastics.

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Many plastics in general can contain

BPA or thalates, which are endocrine

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disruptors, um, which you don't

affect your hormone balance, and they

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can even affect your brain health.

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So health impact of plastic cutting

boards, hormone disruption, potential

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neurotoxicity and microplastic ingestion.

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So let's swap those out for wooden

cutting boards, solid wood cutting

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boards, or stainless steel cutting

boards or glass cutting boards.

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Um.

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I use wooden cutting boards.

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I think they're beautiful.

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I, I like 'em.

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They make me feel a lot better,

obviously, and don't shed plastics okay.

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Next we have synthetic fragrances.

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We are exposed to these all

the time, whether it's your air

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fresheners, your candles, your

plugins, your cleaning products.

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Many of these products use synthetic

fragrances, which we learned earlier is.

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A top red flag ingredient to look for.

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They often contain phthalates, which

are known endocrine disruptors.

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They are linked to reproductive issues.

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They can also emit formaldehyde, which

is a carcinogen, and it can trigger

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respiratory problems like asthma.

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And I think a lot of people don't even

realize these are impacting their health.

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People complain about headaches all the

time, or allergies or asthma problems.

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All the time, and you don't even

realize it can be linked to the

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candles in your house or the air

freshener or the perfume you're using.

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So the health impact here, hormone

disruption, carcinogen exposure, and

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breathing difficulties and allergies.

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Better choices we can use are pure

essential oils or bees, sweat candles,

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or simmering natural ingredients on your

soap top, like simmon sticks or citrus

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peels, or just finding non-toxic candles.

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I love a candle just as

much as an next girl.

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So it's about finding the brands

that are non-toxic, that are made

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with the wax that is okay to use, and

the fragrances that are not harmful.

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Next is laundry detergents

and dryer sheets.

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Another super mainstream

common product we are all using

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that actually can be harmful.

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Many mainstream laundry detergents

and dryer sheets contain chemicals

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that irritate the skin, the lungs,

and many fragrances in these products,

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as we know can disrupt our hormones.

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Plus some of the ingredients

actually have been linked to

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neurotoxic effects, um, which can be.

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Concerning, obviously for children

that are in a developmental stage.

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Um, so the health impact here, obviously

skin irritation, this is common

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for a lot of people and people just

wonder why, like, they just wonder

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like, oh, maybe my skin's sensitive.

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It's like, well, yeah, your skin

is sensitive to harsh products

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that are harsh ingredients that

are used in the laundry detergents.

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So health impact, skin irritation,

respiratory issues, hormone disruption.

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Better choice all around is to opt for

a natural non-toxic laundry detergent.

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Um, there are some that you

can still get that smell great.

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Most of them are fragrance free,

which is super safe as well.

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Um, and I mean, at the end of this

episode, I'll give you the information of

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where I like to buy all these different

types of products so that you know

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exactly where to shop from, but basically.

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Throw away your tide is,

is the conclusion here.

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Next we have conventional

cleaning products.

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I think this is also an important

one to add 'cause these are products

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we use every day in our home.

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Like all purpose cleaners, disinfectants,

you know, bleach, uh, dishwasher,

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soap, all that kind of stuff.

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They all contain harsh chemicals

that can cause asthma, irritation,

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disrupting hormones and disrupting

your reproductive health over

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time, disrupting your gut lining.

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Um.

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Just not great effects.

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Um, there's a study that recently

came out, actually, I don't know what

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date it was, but I found out about

it recently where your traditional,

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like conventional, um, dish washer

soap can actually cause holes, like

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burn holes through your gut lining.

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Um, and I just know so many people that

struggle with gut issues, leaky gut,

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and I'm not saying this is the sole,

like perpetrator, but if we all use.

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Conventional dish soap and studies are

showing that it's causing this, these

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like burning holes in your stomach or

can do that, then I mean, there's a

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correlation there, you know, and we just

don't realize it because these are things

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that are not being pointed to, or they

haven't been pointed to in the past.

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And so we just think that these

symptoms are normal or it's always

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just was just born that way, or this

is just my problem, but actually

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our products are affecting that.

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So.

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Better choices to use here

are trusted brands that use

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ingredients that are not harmful.

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Um, I like truly freeze,

I like branch basics.

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Okay.

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That was a lot.

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I know this can feel overwhelming

and I don't wanna add more because

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I know I've already like thrown

so much information at you, which

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you might be super pumped about.

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And if you are, then you are

like me because I like learning

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about all this kind of stuff.

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Um, but here's the good news.

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Even though this can feel like a lot,

the good news is that detoxing your

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home doesn't have to happen all at once.

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Just like I said before, starting with

small, doable swaps is what is going

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to actually help you make progress.

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And you also have to think about what

fits your budget and what fits your life.

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Style.

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I know that clean products can be

priced higher than your conventional

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products, and we intentionally like moved

things around in our budget so we could

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prioritize the, like, cleanest type of

food that we can and the cleanest type

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of in of, uh, household products and

personal care products that we could.

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So for us, it was important

enough and a priority enough to

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move things around in our budget.

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Um.

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So start with small, doable swaps

and things that we talked about

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are swapping out your non-stick pan

for cast iron or stainless steel.

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Replacing one cleaning product at

a time with a better alternative.

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I would start with your laundry detergent

first and then your dishwasher soap.

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Um, make sure that you're avoiding

things that have fragrance in it and

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parabens pegs, PPGs, um, phthalates.

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Swap out your shampoo or makeup or

skincare, or just start thinking

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about the things that go on your body.

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If you are somebody that washes your

face every day, you're like, okay,

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let me look for a non-toxic face wash.

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If you like to wear makeup every day,

let me find a non-toxic foundation.

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Um, or a non-toxic shampoo or

non-toxic lotion, all that kind of

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stuff that you put on your body.

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Start.

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Start one by one and

start swapping those out.

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And in the end, just

remember, it's about progress.

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One step at a time, not perfection.

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And the reality is we're never gonna

be perfect, and it's impossible

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:

to live a fully non-toxic life.

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And that's not the goal.

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The goal is to lower our toxin

burdens to support our body's

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health and hormones and fertility.

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It's not about eliminating.

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Everything that could harm us because

we live in a fallen world and we will

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not be perfect until we get to heaven.

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So each step is just taking a step in the

right direction and just doing something

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good for you and your family's health.

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:

And just remember that in caring

for the temple that God gave us our

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bodies, we participate in his work.

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Of loving and healing our bodies and every

small act, every choice we make to make a

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healthier home and avoid toxins is a way

of saying thank you Lord for this body.

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Thank you Lord for this life.

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Thank you Lord for these precious

children that you've entrusted to me.

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Um, I'm gonna do my best

to steward them well.

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And I just wanna give a caveat here

too, if this is something you're

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not doing, it doesn't make you a bad

Christian, so don't take what I just

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:

said as a, as a way of being like,

oh wow, if I'm not leaning into clean

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:

living, then I'm a bad Christian.

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No.

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It's just a way that we can steward

our bodies well and honor the

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gift of our life and our bodies.

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And I mean.

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I would argue it's a really good

thing to do as a Christian, and I

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think it makes all the more sense

to do as a Christian because we

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care about caring for our bodies.

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But if you don't, it doesn't

mean you're a bad Christian.

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The other thing to say, 'cause I feel

like you have to say this whenever you

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give advice like this, is that none

of this is medical advice, and I'm not

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liable for any of your personal choices.

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If you have any questions or doubts,

you can contact your provider

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and make decisions yourself.

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Okay.

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I've given you a lot and you

may be ready to like start

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:

taking steps and taking actions.

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So if you're feeling inspired, but maybe

you're not sure exactly where to start,

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I wanna invite you to check out a few

resources that I have on my website.

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I have a Red Flag ingredients

label guide that lists ingredients

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to watch for that you could just

have as a little cheat sheet.

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:

I have a toxic swaps guide that helps

you start to swap your first five swaps.

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:

And then I have some brand new

clean guides that just dropped.

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:

So all these things I'm gonna link

in the show note just in case you

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:

wanna find 'em on Instagram as well.

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I believe that if you DM me or if

you reply to my story with the word

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:

guide, then you'll be able to get my

Clean Living Guides that just dropped.

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:

I wait to tell you guys about these.

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:

I just launched these this

week and they are incredible.

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I have teamed up with my friend Kris

and Mama to blend her expertise,

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:

HOK and Clean living with my passion

for space and as well as my passion

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:

for Christ Christ-centered Living.

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To bring you these guides.

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:

'cause like I said, I feel like

this is a part of how I am looking

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:

at clean living as stewardship.

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I think it's, it's part of my

Christ-centered living journey.

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And I think that as Christians, like

we should be honoring our bodies in our

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homes and, um, our families as as we can.

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And so, like I said, with more

knowledge, we can make better choices.

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:

Um, and together, Kirsten and I

have literally like nine years

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:

of experience in researching and

learning, um, what brands are actually.

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Good for you.

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What brands are not, what

brands are greenwashing.

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:

Basically these guides are

here to help you do this.

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:

And if you wanna hear more

from Christian, you can go back

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to episode 20 of my podcast.

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We recorded an episode called

Small Steps to Living Toxin Free.

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So another great episode to start

with that we'll teach you even more,

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:

um, shield because she struggled with

a really difficult and for years.

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:

Um, she tried to figure out what's

going on and through clean living and

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:

lifestyle changes, she was actually

able to be healed from her illness and

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:

she has not had a flare up in years.

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:

Um, and she attested to really clearing

her home, her body and lifestyle

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:

free of toxins, which is crazy.

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:

Just how much that can affect

us and our immune systems, um,

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:

and cause inflammation and such.

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:

She has these guides and she collaborated

with me to bring them to my audience.

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:

I added content to them each to kind

of add this Christ-centered lens to

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:

approach clean living in these three

different areas of the guides, which is

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:

a home guide, a uh, clean beauty guide,

which is just for like personal care

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:

products and then a baby registry guide.

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:

Um, so building a toxin

free baby registry.

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:

And these guides are packed with

information and they will view.

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:

After years of research, I'm telling

you they teach you what ingredients to

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avoid, what to look for, and what actual

product recommendations with actual links

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and brand discount, um, for every single

product category that you can imagine.

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There's all of that in the three guides.

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Um, like I said, there's a clean home

one, a clean beauty and clean baby.

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So clean home is your guide to

creating and non talk in your home,

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so you learn to identify what kind

of materials or toxins can commonly

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be for and how to avoid them.

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has over 80 categories of toxin-free

items recommendations for your kitchen,

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your living room, your bathroom, your

bedroom, your technology, um, and so

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much more, which is super helpful.

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Uh, next we have the Clean Beauty,

and this guide is to help you

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choose personal care products.

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So you'll find the breakdown for

what ingredients to avoid again,

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Plus product recommendations to

help you choose products that are

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actually safe and actually work.

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'cause I think that's the key here.

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So that you can build a safe personal

care routine, a daily beauty routine that

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you can actually trust, feel good about.

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And then we have the Clean Baby

Guide, and this is the Ultimate

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Guide to Toxin Free Baby Registry.

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So you can learn how to choose products

that protect your little wealth.

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It's laid out in a way that you can

easily make your baby registry based

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off the way that it's laid out.

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Um, so I know Mamas will love this one.

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We're recreating their registries,

um, so they can still get all those

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incredible products that you need

for when baby comes, but they're

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actually clean and safe for your baby.

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And these are collaborative guides, so

they are one of Organ Mama's guides.

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Uh, we just brought them together

to bring 'em to immunity.

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And I added that faith-based

content at the beginning.

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For example, the baby one has

prayers for your pregnancy and

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Patron Saints of expectant mothers

for you to ask their intercession

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for throughout your pregnancy.

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Um, for the home guide, there are

scripture verses to pray over your home.

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And for the Clean Beauty Guide, I

believe it's, um, a couple pages

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of content of just my perspective

of looking at clean living through

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those of a Christ-centered life.

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They're incredible.

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I swear you guys, these are the

guides that I literally wish I had

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in the beginning and they would be

years of research and experience.

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Um, and they're for you.

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Like clearly, if you're still listening,

that means that these guides are for you.

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Um, so I'm just really proud of you for

pressing on, for wanting to learn more,

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for wanting to educate yourself and just

for being here and hearing this all out.

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So make sure you check out the website,

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marie wagner.co/clean-living,

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that was kind of like the main clean

living landing page where you check

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'em all out and then you can click

into each one individually to learn

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more about each individual guy.

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Um, but the best thing is that there

is an incredible bundle deal where

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you can get three for the price of.

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So honestly, interested in multiple,

I get the bundle deal because like.

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Why would you just buy one when you can

get literally three for the price of two?

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So that's, that's all I have about that.

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Um, if you feel like this episode

had helped you and encouraged you.

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Please leave a review and please

share with them until you feel

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like, Ooh, they need to know this,

they need to learn more about this.

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Or if your husband is like not on board

with your clean living choices and

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you're like, oh my gosh, babe, just

like get with the pro this episode.

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Like maybe he just some factual

information to kind of like,

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be convinced men are logical

creatures, so send this to him.

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Um, but all in all, I hope it will.

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And I know it was a little bit of a

long one of me just talking at you about

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this kind of really nerdy topic, so.

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Thanks for listening.

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Hope you enjoyed.

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Hope it was helpful.

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And until next time you guys,

God bless you and your homes.

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Bye.

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Ever Be
A faith and lifestyle podcast.
The Ever Be Podcast is a faith and lifestyle podcast filled with meaningful conversations and practical tips that will inspire and empower you to live a Christ centered life in today’s modern world. Through her own experience of surrendering completely to God and finding true fullness of life, your host Mari Wagner, has committed to having God’s praise “ever be” on her lips and sharing that message with the world. Listen in for insightful, real life conversations and actionable steps on how to claim the full life God created you for.

With over 100K followers and counting, Instagram content creator and founder of the popular Catholic lifestyle brand, West Coast Catholic, Mari Wagner is showing the world how to live a bold, attractive, and fulfilling Catholic life by being in the world but not of it. On the podcast you’ll get a combination of heartfelt solo episodes with Mari, interviews with exciting guests, and up-close and personal time with both the Wagner’s—Mari and Trey. What more could you ask for?!

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